Hi...I've been out of the dating game (by choice) for a while. I'm finally ready to get back out there. I'm just looking for someone to do fun things with and see where it goes. I'm not in search of a serious relationship. I have a very full life. I'm interested in meeting men who live in Alabama, in the Birmingham metro area. NO MARRIED MEN (been there, done that). NO MARRIAGE REQUESTS (been there, done that). I'm looking for someone to DATE in the BIRMINGHAM, ALABAMA area. I want to explore the restaurants, art and culture (museums and shows), and the nightlife in the city I live in. I love music, margaritas, organic gardening, animals and experiencing art and culture in big cities. NO REDNECKS, NO BOATING, LAKES, CAMPING, ETC (been there, done ALL of that in a previous life). Bring me a flower, buy me a piece of fish and a strong drink and let's go watch some live entertainment together :) Whatever happens after that is 100% in the hands of fate. I have a one year old grandson who is the 'main man' in my life :) I am a superfan of a certain singer. I love to travel, meet up with fellow fans and attend his concerts. I will do almost anything to get front row. I like to have fun :) I'm in my 50s, I'm in my 2nd childhood. I don't always look pretty. Sometimes I look like ****. I have a job and my own money. Not looking for anyone to 'take care of me'. Clingy men, desperate men need not apply. I am NOT INTERESTED. I like intelligent men, secure men, funny men, adventurous men. No preconceived ideas or expectations. Just go with the flow. Just keeping it real :)