LIFE TO 40YRS IS LIKE DRIVING IN THE PASSING LANE. KIDS, TEENS , SPORTS, RIDES;; IN AND OUT OF TRAFFIC.. GO GO GO .... 40'S YA KINDA EASE OVER TO THE MIDDLE LANE... STEADY EDDIE, KIDS ARE OUT OR OFF TO SCHOOL OR WORK, AHHHH... NO MORE SLEEPOVERS, NO MORE FOTBALL OR DANCE LESSONS... COASTING ,,, ( here I drive and I like where I am .. a lot ! 50's.... I say toss up ! either still comfy in the middle lane , and contently smiling... or living peacefully in a gated community in some quaint golf course laiden neighborhood and down shifted over to the inside lane,, Otherwise known as the " We get there , when we get there lane" Both sound equally acceptable. as long as ya throw a boat and maybe couple kayaks !! 60,70,80.... its all about You. you are who you feel... Vibrance isn't a learned trait normally rather a personality one, I believe as long as Our cars running , We just enoy the Ride,,,,,,