i had a friend once and she met that guy online.

they connected right away and they talked on the phone and emailed for months before they finally met in person.

and then? nothing! no chemistry at all.....

i really felt sorry for her. she was so excited about that man!

IMO...you may be able to 'fall' for what you perceive as 'love'...you love what the person sounds like, what he/she says, love the laugh, and so on...but the in person , face to face meeting can be the deal breaker. I think you have to spend 'real time' with the person to truely fall in love.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

I'd have to say "no way"!!!! I'll know for sure at out first meeting, whether we move on or not!!!

Yes. I did it.. and when I met him in person I was sure of it.

I said this before and ill say it again. If any women ever tells me that she loves me and we havent met. Stay away!! It's a false feeling knowing you haven't experience each other. It's the excitment of what could be. Now mind you, you can get close as a friend as much as it will allow knowing your on the net, but to say you actually found your true love and haven't even seen them? Everyone here knows there has to be some attraction to anyone you might be interested in. Thats a given. but not to see them and say you love them. What happens when you do meet and you find out your not attraccted to them at all. Does that love feel the same???? HELLL NO!! and if anyone says different, your full of it

To say you love someone online is really not the truth, love is much deeper then just talking to each other, you HAVE to meet in order to experience the feelings associated w/ love

no!!!
i have been there several times
after talking for HOURS on the telephone and emails-- thought I found "the one"
but in person there was NO chemistry, no sparks