Topic: Distance and relationship
cuppy59's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:20 PM



All hail Hugo the Tiny!!
did you feel that? Feels like someone just walked over my grave


(((rob))) got room in that tub for another


Badgirl and silnt...and I come from the same strain of women...we will make every effort...it goes both ways...it just so happens its better that I travel than he...You make your choices and you live with the results...good or bad...Im worth it..so I will try

bad_girl's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:23 PM
(((cuppy))) This will be a first for me, and I am not one to do it, but I feel he is worth the trip and like you say, we shall live with our choices, good or badflowerforyou

Single_Rob's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:27 PM



All hail Hugo the Tiny!!
did you feel that? Feels like someone just walked over my grave


(((rob))) got room in that tub for another
climb in chica

Single_Rob's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:27 PM



in my opinion if 2 people want something bad enough than they will go however miles to be with each other..
+1. ou hear that jilly? there is a real woman voicing an honest opinion. Not some, some,some.....heart breaker sad sad
You're killing me Rob! huh
ok jilly, I wont bother you anymore. huh pretty much sums it up

cuppy59's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:28 PM
I have spoken to many people and I have also heard good and bad stories...but the happily ever afters happen with just one meeting in the couples that I know that are together now...

Keep the chin up and don't give up!!!!!flowerforyou :wink:

no photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:29 PM
Distance doesnt really mean anything to me.....but again if its meant to be its meant to be. Im not going to force the issue on someone...if they cant deal with it then all the best to them and their search!flowerforyou

Jillybean31's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:32 PM




in my opinion if 2 people want something bad enough than they will go however miles to be with each other..
+1. ou hear that jilly? there is a real woman voicing an honest opinion. Not some, some,some.....heart breaker sad sad
You're killing me Rob! huh
ok jilly, I wont bother you anymore. huh pretty much sums it up
Don't be like that...thought we was buds.

cuppy59's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:33 PM

Distance doesnt really mean anything to me.....but again if its meant to be its meant to be. Im not going to force the issue on someone...if they cant deal with it then all the best to them and their search!flowerforyou


Hey Gyps....How are ya girlfriend....all of a sudden..no guys...imagine that...lmao...

Single_Rob's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:33 PM





in my opinion if 2 people want something bad enough than they will go however miles to be with each other..
+1. ou hear that jilly? there is a real woman voicing an honest opinion. Not some, some,some.....heart breaker sad sad
You're killing me Rob! huh
ok jilly, I wont bother you anymore. huh pretty much sums it up
Don't be like that...thought we was buds.
were still buds,

cuppy59's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:38 PM
Sorry Rob...don't consider you available anymore...no you have someone serious on your mind...just from the threads...lol

Jillybean31's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:38 PM






in my opinion if 2 people want something bad enough than they will go however miles to be with each other..
+1. ou hear that jilly? there is a real woman voicing an honest opinion. Not some, some,some.....heart breaker sad sad
You're killing me Rob! huh
ok jilly, I wont bother you anymore. huh pretty much sums it up
Don't be like that...thought we was buds.
were still buds,
You're cool babe! happy

Jillybean31's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:39 PM

Sorry Rob...don't consider you available anymore...no you have someone serious on your mind...just from the threads...lol
It's just teasing...nothing more. I like to rile him and he eats it up. laugh

cuppy59's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:41 PM


Sorry Rob...don't consider you available anymore...no you have someone serious on your mind...just from the threads...lol
It's just teasing...nothing more. I like to rile him and he eats it up. laugh


Don't we all????????????????

Jillybean31's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:42 PM



Sorry Rob...don't consider you available anymore...no you have someone serious on your mind...just from the threads...lol
It's just teasing...nothing more. I like to rile him and he eats it up. laugh


Don't we all????????????????
bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

no photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:44 PM


Distance doesnt really mean anything to me.....but again if its meant to be its meant to be. Im not going to force the issue on someone...if they cant deal with it then all the best to them and their search!flowerforyou


Hey Gyps....How are ya girlfriend....all of a sudden..no guys...imagine that...lmao...
lol what you talking about no guys sista!!! noway laugh laugh laugh laugh drinker

Sweetwater2's photo
Sat 03/29/08 09:05 PM
I am willing to work around the distance.flowerforyou

moman65672's photo
Sat 03/29/08 09:08 PM
The closer the better the farther away the more likely its not going to work.

DAMER4's photo
Sat 03/29/08 09:19 PM
i would just like to have that problem.

sleeplessingermany's photo
Sun 03/30/08 05:55 AM
...maybe they are so interesting because they live so far away?

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 03/30/08 06:06 AM

I am willing to work around the distance.flowerforyou


Things you need to ask yourself (and her):

1. Do you (or both of you) have the financial means to see each other on a regular basis?

2. Do you (or both of you) have the emotional stability to trust/endure through the long periods apart?

3. Ultimately, someone has to move to fulfill the long-term goal. Can/Will you? Can/Will she?