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Besides, isn't talking about masturbation a little more personal then asking about the sizes of ones breasts?
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Hm...well its interesting that you openly talk about masturbation with this person but breast size is crossing the line? Perhaps said person was a little confused as to your intent? I would never talk like that with someone whilst I was dating someone else. To each his own, I mean no offense just puttin in my two bits. 
I understand, however, you all are reading edited version. Now, what typically comes from a guy's mouth after asking a woman her breast size? Also, my boyfriend is comfortable with my being flirty. 1, it is a part of my job, which I have been doing for 10 years, so it has become a part of me and 2, he loves knowing I flirt but I don't let it get out of hand. He flirts too. And I don't mind. There's a difference between flirting harmlessly and trying to engage in cybersex or any other harmful behaviour. I have done a lot of research on said topics. I have seen many therapists actually claim that flirting with the opposite sex can help in a relationship if not taken too far. http://www.collinspartners.com/relationships/flirtingguide.html So now you admit that you are trying to engage in cybersex but yet the breast size question was going to far? 
And we can only read what you give us to read. Nothing else. Then reread this: He flirts too. And I don't mind. There's a difference between flirting harmlessly and trying to engage in cybersex or any other harmful behaviour. Notice I said there's a difference? I do not do cybersex. It's hard getting intimate with a keyboard. Oh wait, this might be considered offensive and I might be encouraging dirtier things said to me... Forget it. |
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ok but the hypocrisy lilth is referring to isn't between you and your bf...it's that it was ok for you to describe a sexual act but when he engaged then you thought he crossed the line
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Besides, isn't talking about masturbation a little more personal then asking about the sizes of ones breasts? Maybe a little actually. Cause jerking off your penis is different than discussing breast size. I don't care about discussing my breast size openly 
I'm a 34 High B, low C by the way! 
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Has anybody found out what her breast size is?
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Besides, isn't talking about masturbation a little more personal then asking about the sizes of ones breasts? Maybe a little actually. Cause jerking off your penis is different than discussing breast size. I don't care about discussing my breast size openly
I'm a 34 High B, low C by the way!
Nice......
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ok but the hypocrisy lilth is referring to isn't between you and your bf...it's that it was ok for you to describe a sexual act but when he engaged then you thought he crossed the line Bingo. You are upset he crossed a line that he did not know existed. You started the conversation in that manner, he simply went along. What did he do wrong there? |
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Has anybody found out what her breast size is? Waterloo~ I'm a 36 C honey bunches! 
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Has anybody found out what her breast size is? Waterloo~ I'm a 36 C honey bunches!
mmmmmmmmmmm  boobs
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I see what you're saying, I think your flirting was misinterpreted as an invitation to cyber. Your intentions were just a harmless flirt, but he misunderstood that as a cyber seduction. THANK YOU!!!! Thank you for understanding what I am talking about. I have seen so many posts here in JSH that are even more open than I, and yet I get hit with all the "You encouraged it, shame on you!" Well then, shame on all of you who have set the example for me. Ever wonder why my post count was so low to begin with? Cause I never thought to post here. I found a lot of posts to be a little more racy than I thought was allowed. Eventually I relaxed a bit and opened up. But what everyone is not understanding is that this is just one conversation. Do you realize how many IMs I get that start off where I don't even get the chance to say hi before I am getting hit up for sex or other various crap? Just because my man and I are open about our sexuality and have open minds doesn't mean that you can just assume. Maybe, via mixed signals, I did bring this on myself this time. However, I GET THIS ALL THE TIME REGARDLESS WHAT I SAY. If they say what are you doing and I say "I am eating" I get, "I wish you were here eating my hot dog" etc.... I am not apparently allowed to say a G-d damned thing. Period. Some people just don't care enough to think, hey maybe she's just being silly? I have seen much worse here. |
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Hell, people it's all flirting all the time on here! Some people take it seriously, those who know better don't. I don't see any harm here. So she talked of masturbation, so he asked her breast size, big deal. Like each of us has never seen worse?
I believe that there was much we didn't see though. Sentences aren't very smooth, in fact they're downright jagged in places. |
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I like boobies
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ummm...so why did you bring up masturbating anyway?
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ok but the hypocrisy lilth is referring to isn't between you and your bf...it's that it was ok for you to describe a sexual act but when he engaged then you thought he crossed the line Bingo. You are upset he crossed a line that he did not know existed. You started the conversation in that manner, he simply went along. What did he do wrong there? What he did wrong would get me banned for life here. And I have too many friends here that I am not going to just lose the priviledge of talking to for some idiot. Hence it being edited for my membership protection. |
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I like boobies and turtles jt? |
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Here is a simple answer. Disable your IM and stop posting private messages on a public forum.
Do you think what has happened to you is unusual? Nope. It's not. Sorry to break the bad news to you. |
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Hell, people it's all flirting all the time on here! Some people take it seriously, those who know better don't. I don't see any harm here. So she talked of masturbation, so he asked her breast size, big deal. Like each of us has never seen worse? I believe that there was much we didn't see though. Sentences aren't very smooth, in fact they're downright jagged in places. there isn't any harm...we are pointing out that she began it. she did say that wasn't the worst but also said it was after her bringing up the masturbation. and only hearing one side. it's just trying to explain her original question
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I like boobies Tell me how you masturbate, And I will tell you about my boobies.
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Hell, people it's all flirting all the time on here! Some people take it seriously, those who know better don't. I don't see any harm here. So she talked of masturbation, so he asked her breast size, big deal. Like each of us has never seen worse? I believe that there was much we didn't see though. Sentences aren't very smooth, in fact they're downright jagged in places. Thank you, Peccy. I keep telling them that they are viewing edited version to protect my membership. Tell me, Peccy, how many times have we openly flirted? Have you ever once thought of coming down (or up, I wasn't paying attention in Geography class) to "meet me"? Have you ever thought of engaging in cyber sex with me and trying to take it to the next level? The hypocrisy is apparently not just with me. Everyone is a hypocrit. |
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ok...can I suggest lilth (who is in a relationship on here) give examples of flirting? maybe that might help?
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