Thanks Winx, that's encouraging.

WOW,,so MOST here feel that to PRETEND is COOL and EXCEPTED...but yet your here looking for a MATE,,,,lol,lol
So if ya was a dude and got a date with this great looking lady, and SHE turned out to be a HE/SHE, Then OH'Well thats just the net,lol,lol
I am ALL about people here and in life being REAL with each other so that hearts DON'T get hurt as to someones lies to THEM to makethem OPEN their heart just to think, its OK..

But by THIS turn-out I must say NOT to many are bothered by it so that tells me that THERE not ALL about truth if lies are OK??

I preach alot here about truth because WE use to be small enough that we knew most on here. but NOW, people on here PLAY and don't THINK ENOUGH about others REAL feelings and their FLIP-SIDE to happiness, their real pain felt because of anothers lies to them.
That hurt them so much..ME, I have met and talked end-less to friends who have been PLAYED with here and hurt bad..
So lies just always make me think, their here to play and hurt,,,,,and if NO-BODY CARES, then this site will turn into an all out ARCADE GAME OF TEARS, and I just don't like that thought..lol So I preach....but IM REAL to,lol

How could she possibly have thought that would be ok?

Several were even more handsome than their photos.

Jilly~ I met four people from this site and all four were who they said they were. Well, one thought married but not living together meant divorced...

I ran into a simular situation. This is a tricky question.
Hard to really say weather someone is fake- but easy to see
when they are being played with. If it envolves a really good
friend of yours- you may want to speak up. It really deopends
on the situation. You allways risk the chance of your friend getting mad at you for butting in too. JMO

That's a pretty big one, but at least he was not a whole different guy. Yicks! I'm glad to hear people saying they've met real people. Thanks

Iam4u,

No, it's not okay to be fake. It's horrible. I would especially have a problem if I met someone that was married.
I would report that.

I, personally, have not met any fake people.

I'm actually Rock Hudson and Frank Sinatra in real life.

Shrug and ignore all the drama - like I do about everything on this site

Ok...completely off topic but after viewing Jilly's profile I'm going house shopping in Mesa. Wow.

So if you were in a store and a lady beside you stuck a pair of panties under her shirt. And you seen it all, then when you were leaving you get stoped and asked by security with them holding that girl, DID YOU SEE HER STEAL THESE?
You would say no? Im just very curious on this..

I just visit people close. Nobody far has asked me to visit yet. I tried to arrange a visit to Tennessee but it fell through. So if they was lying, at least I wouldn't have gone a long ways to find out.

I try to exchange phone #s so I can check people out. Usually at that stage, things start to go sour. But, I got a couple of prospects I'm working on meeting so all hope's not lost yet.

As Joe Isuzu would say, Trust me!

Hmmmmmmmm liars,playas , idiots, losers........did I say liars???? No I havent met any fakes as of yet

So what's up Iam4u??? You got the goods on someone???

Enquiry minds want to know......LOL

Personally,,my motto is to trust until given a reason NOT too,,

With that said, I do not BLINDLY trust. For me, its the three a's

Awareness
Acceptance
Action

If I am aware of lies, deceit or other mortal fraility's
I accept I am powerless to change them
My ACTIONS speak to my own moral standards

To answer your question Iam, if i saw something not right goin on in the "real", I would take ACTION

On line, if I sense or even suspect untruthfullness, I run in the other direction. what good would it do to "call them on it"? don't you think they would continue the lie to get out of it? Gotta go with my gut on that one, and just let it go,,

your right though, so many hearts get broken by truth and honesty meeting up with lies and deception. Like anything else in this mortal life, your learn the lesson with each experience.

Thats why I haven't "met' too many from here

Silly man!

I could have, but THATS not my reason for my POST.
Its to SEE and FEEL the inner thoughts of the people I talk with here, and HOW THEY feel about what Just Say Hi is all about to them..

And so far it's suprising to READ so many are ok with fakes.
So then that makes me FEEL that THEY are NOT here to FIND a real relationship or they lie a bit, or they are here for just mild friendships, or they don't do anything here except play, and could care less if they REALLY met a soul here..or NOT.

And everyone here use to REALLY be wanting a date with another and to really meet another here...lol

Is it WRONG for ME to CARE about the Quality of this site as being a REAL PLACE?? And the people here to WANT them to TRY and BE REAL on HERE?? Just a question???