Topic: BF Vs. BFF
Pinky01's photo
Mon 03/24/08 07:39 AM
Have you ever had this happen to you;
So you're Best friend of a few years, has this new boyfriend/Girlfriend, whom she/he falls head over heals for. Then slowely she/he starts to change as a person, because of him/her. He/she tries to change hes/hia ways, also trying to limit your time together.... almost as if he/she were jealous, that you know everything about your best friend and he/she doesnt...

krazykitty323's photo
Mon 03/24/08 07:41 AM
happens all the time

franshade's photo
Mon 03/24/08 07:41 AM
Glad to say, No.

I have known 2 of my best friends for over 30 years, and while life may separate our paths, we have always remained the same with each other.

:heart: Love them dearly :heart:

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Mon 03/24/08 07:43 AM
Seen it many times. Dont have a reason but its very common.

Jtevans's photo
Mon 03/24/08 07:47 AM
"Like OMG,you ain't my BFF anymore"

cdanny47's photo
Mon 03/24/08 07:48 AM
Happen to me and now I lost a true friend over it

franshade's photo
Mon 03/24/08 07:49 AM
laugh

"Like OMG,you ain't my BFF anymore"

MrMxyzptlk's photo
Mon 03/24/08 07:50 AM
It's a control thing, I imagine. Your best friend will still be just that, don't worry!flowerforyou

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Mon 03/24/08 07:52 AM

Kind of sad to see a friendship go out the door- when they
get into a relationship, but it can happen.
There are many reasons for it. Sometimes life takes
different coarses for us. Be there for that friend anyway.
You never know! They may come back into your life and
really need you! After all that is what friends are for!
drinker flowerforyou

cdanny47's photo
Mon 03/24/08 07:57 AM
It a jealous thing,,,, Their in lust/love and the jealous one put thing in thier head's and they believe them....

Pinky01's photo
Mon 03/24/08 08:00 AM
He just cant get it through his thick head that he cant control her.... and she doesnt realize he's trying to do it

beccaloveslife's photo
Mon 03/24/08 08:09 AM
Sistas before mistas. happy

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Mon 03/24/08 08:13 AM

He just cant get it through his thick head that he cant control her.... and she doesnt realize he's trying to do it



Unfortunately this is something she will have to see for
herself- no matter how good a friend you are. I know you want to protect her - but sometimes just being there is all you can do.
flowerforyou

Pinky01's photo
Mon 03/24/08 08:14 AM


He just cant get it through his thick head that he cant control her.... and she doesnt realize he's trying to do it



Unfortunately this is something she will have to see for
herself- no matter how good a friend you are. I know you want to protect her - but sometimes just being there is all you can do.
flowerforyou



patience is a virtue.... which i have little of... thats my curse