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Topic: There is no Real,True,Devoted Love between human beings.
msnj52 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 9893	Sat 03/22/08 08:08 AM
As stated before,I was not meaning that a womans love for her child is not true and doesnt las t a lifetime.I was talking about the initial meeting of 2 human adults,getting hooked up,prematurely having kids,getting married,then eventually getting a divorce,which in turn hurts the kids and tears them apart!! Animals have never known divorce,and never will.Besides their bond between them and humans are 110 percent dedicated,for the rest of their lives!None of this,married once,twice,or countless number of times? THINK ABOUT IT? Sounds like you've been burned. But, not all marriages/relationships are the same. Don't give up. You may find 'true' love someday.

symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Sat 03/22/08 08:13 AM
there is a difference between romantic love and unconditional love..when one lives under the mistaken notion that romantic love will last forever then you're going to get burned... Humans are capable of unconditional love, just takes more work and more sacrifices...but the pay off is tremendous....

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sat 03/22/08 10:37 AM
Love is a difficult thing to have and/or keep, it requires a number of variables to go perfectly together without flaw. That being said it is possible, most people just don't realize how unrealistic the view truly is.

trueokie2 Joined Mon 07/02/07 Posts: 1894	Sat 03/22/08 10:39 AM


hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Sat 03/22/08 10:41 AM
Love is a difficult thing to have and/or keep, it requires a number of variables to go perfectly together without flaw. That being said it is possible, most people just don't realize how unrealistic the view truly is. I agree with you Fear - as usual!

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sat 03/22/08 10:42 AM
Love is a difficult thing to have and/or keep, it requires a number of variables to go perfectly together without flaw. That being said it is possible, most people just don't realize how unrealistic the view truly is. I agree with you Fear - as usual! See there you go agreeing with me again, that is so like you.

tinabelle Joined Tue 09/26/06 Posts: 1044	Sat 03/22/08 11:15 AM
The only truest type of unselfish,most devoted and 100 percent dedicated bonding love is between animals and humans.Once they love you,it is 110 percent for life. We humans can reason,and therefore can judge others,while lower forms of life,cannot reason,but once they form a bond with someone,that bond lasts a lifetime! Rodster Not true. love we humans can do but the relationship part we sometimes give up on. Doesn't mean love has died. humans can love truly and be devoted. but the key is to be patient enough to find another who has the same ideas about love and what it means. when the relationship fails, it's because the two have different views on real love - what it means, and what it requires. when it seems you keep falling in and out of love you need to ask a few questions. are you really loving? or are you getting involved too quickly, and hoping that the other person will fall into line with your ideal of how it should be? intense attraction and chemistry do not mean love. having similar interests does not mean love. being lonely and finding someone who gets along and has fun does not mean love. superficial love falls apart. desperate love disappears. there's so much more to it.