Topic: advice please...
me2g's photo
Fri 03/21/08 10:53 AM

mEN just like to mess with our heads!!! for their ego!!!grumble grumble grumble grumble


yeah and women nEEeever mess with my guys either..

jay7791's photo
Fri 03/21/08 10:58 AM

Had a great date, clicked n all.Just not getting shown the "interest" since then....What to do now???Great on both sides I was told.Time to give up and start over ???Again??????????? uggh!

Guys, why cant ya just say what you mean and mean what ya say.....oh wait, nope....do what youll say youll do...even better........


I thought thats what women do not men, I think its man or woman they should be honest and tell other person who they feel. Not talking or ignoring is worse then telling whats wrong and why it didn't work.

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Fri 03/21/08 10:58 AM
Edited by Gypsy41 on Fri 03/21/08 10:59 AM
I feel like being politically incorrect right now......and generalizing......bigsmile drinker

myssfytz's photo
Fri 03/21/08 11:03 AM


hes divorced as well, makes me kind of really dislike women who treat their men, or vice versa, like crap cause then they ruin it for the good ones out here.the guys all think women are gonna cheat etc because their ex did...hate that shyt!!!!!!! sorry, but its hard to even find a man whos never been married either to start completely new...

just frustrated with this dating thing....thanks for your kind words everyone...

chick...chick...chickens!!!!!!!

i know its early on this one, but when i tell you it was a great date, im talking the best ive ever had.simple n sweet and natural...the way it should be....


Maybe he's scared of commitment? I've met lots and lots of men like that. Sucks, but possible. Good luck.


yeh, it sux...just never been "not nervous" before meeting someone til him...

jay7791's photo
Fri 03/21/08 11:05 AM
Sorry i totally messed up last reply

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Fri 03/21/08 11:08 AM

mEN just like to mess with our heads!!! for their ego!!!grumble grumble grumble grumble


I'll just slash my wrists now.:angry:

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Fri 03/21/08 11:16 AM


mEN just like to mess with our heads!!! for their ego!!!grumble grumble grumble grumble


I'll just slash my wrists now.:angry:
Can I watch!!!:wink: devil laugh :tongue:

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Fri 03/21/08 11:21 AM



mEN just like to mess with our heads!!! for their ego!!!grumble grumble grumble grumble


I'll just slash my wrists now.:angry:
Can I watch!!!:wink: devil laugh :tongue:


Of course you can. I'm sure I'll do a great job at slashing my wrists which will bring great enjoyment to you thus stroking my ego one last time.

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Fri 03/21/08 11:22 AM
I will bring the bandaids!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Fri 03/21/08 11:23 AM

I will bring the bandaids!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


laugh laugh laugh :angry: laugh

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Fri 03/21/08 11:26 AM
bigsmile drinker bigsmile

lilith401's photo
Fri 03/21/08 11:31 AM
As good as a time you both may have had, keep in mind you do not know what is going on for him. Don't invest more than you can afford to lose and continue to meet people. If he pops back up, he does. If not, it is his loss.

Try not to judge too fast, although I know it's frustrating to think we he could not have just sent you an email. It's happened to all of us.

padams9098's photo
Fri 03/21/08 11:34 AM
The bottom line, is a real man wouldn't treat you like that. If he did, he must be an idiot, because it looks to me like you have a lot going for you. flowerforyou

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Fri 03/21/08 11:35 AM

The bottom line, is a real man wouldn't treat you like that. If he did, he must be an idiot, because it looks to me like you have a lot going for you. flowerforyou
there must be alot of fake men out there then!!!noway grumble laugh

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Fri 03/21/08 11:37 AM


The bottom line, is a real man wouldn't treat you like that. If he did, he must be an idiot, because it looks to me like you have a lot going for you. flowerforyou
there must be alot of fake men out there then!!!noway grumble laugh

I blame society. We're all trained to play stupid "games" in relationships. I guess that's why relationships seem to pass me by, because I'm no good at games laugh ohwell

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Fri 03/21/08 11:38 AM
who teaches us these games???huh

padams9098's photo
Fri 03/21/08 11:41 AM
Life. We start off being raised differently. Boys are taught that it's ok to act a certain way, and girls are taught it's ok when they act a certain way. Then when they get old enough to start dating, they can't get over the fact that they were raised to different standards..and so they play games to feel out the other sex because they don't understand them.

lilith401's photo
Fri 03/21/08 11:41 AM

Life. We start off being raised differently. Boys are taught that it's ok to act a certain way, and girls are taught it's ok when they act a certain way. Then when they get old enough to start dating, they can't get over the fact that they were raised to different standards..and so they play games to feel out the other sex because they don't understand them.


That did not happen to me.... hmmmmm.

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Fri 03/21/08 11:43 AM
Edited by padams9098 on Fri 03/21/08 11:51 AM


Life. We start off being raised differently. Boys are taught that it's ok to act a certain way, and girls are taught it's ok when they act a certain way. Then when they get old enough to start dating, they can't get over the fact that they were raised to different standards..and so they play games to feel out the other sex because they don't understand them.


That did not happen to me.... hmmmmm.

I don't claim to be an expert. laugh But it does happen, usually on a subconscience level. Which explains why I post something completely benign only to be assaulted. :tongue:

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Fri 03/21/08 11:46 AM

Life. We start off being raised differently. Boys are taught that it's ok to act a certain way, and girls are taught it's ok when they act a certain way. Then when they get old enough to start dating, they can't get over the fact that they were raised to different standards..and so they play games to feel out the other sex because they don't understand them.
Im not sure if I raised my son any different than I would if I had a daughter.......noway noway noway There are vast differences in the male brain and the female brain. Ive seen my son do stuff that was exactly like his father.....though he ws way too young to remember.