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Just because someone lends you money or a helping
hand,you should do what they want.... EX: Someone lends you money to pay a bill... you offer to pay them back,but,they say 'No.It's okay.' Then,later,they want you to miss an appoinment cause they were there for you. |
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a favor should not be done with conditions, it is not a favor if it is.. same with love...
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I will give money before I lend it.....solves the whole issure...
Nor a lendr or a bower be.......... |
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Edited by
Totage
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Wed 03/19/08 07:50 PM
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Just because someone lends you money or a helping hand,you should do what they want.... EX: Someone lends you money to pay a bill... you offer to pay them back,but,they say 'No.It's okay.' Then,later,they want you to miss an appoinment cause they were there for you. "There's No Such Thing As A Free Lunch" I never borrow money because I don't want to owe anyone anything, regardless of whether I would pay them back or not. |
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IF SOMEONE IS THERE FOR YOU TO HELP YOU FINACIALLY AND IN THE SAME TOKEN WANT YOU TO DO SOMETHING FOR THEM THEN THEY ARE NOT TRYING TO HELP YOU THEY ARE TRYING TO SUDUSE YOU
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money lent to a 'friend' should be considered lost or a gift...
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a favor should not be done with conditions, it is not a favor if it is.. same with love... I like that reply............... |
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a favor should not be done with conditions, it is not a favor if it is.. same with love... Nicely put 
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a favor should not be done with conditions, it is not a favor if it is.. same with love... I agree. |
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well,it's not a friend,lover,or nieghbor....
it's family. |
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Edited by
reaper666
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Wed 03/19/08 07:57 PM
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Hi Enya... my transformation is almost complete....
On your topic... favors,Friendship and love are all simular if not unconditional they are not true.... |
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What;do U have 2 sign a mini contract w/ppl nowadays?U borrowed $,U attempted 2 pay back the loaned $.That's where it should remain.This is not a favor from a friend.This is some manipulation tool 2 use as an advantage down the road(imo).That's ridiculous dear.Tread carefully in the future around this person.Personally;I wouldn't ever ask again.Good Luck!Godspeed!CyPoet
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Just say "NO!"
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thanks for your advice 'cypoet'
It's hard to say NO,but,I'll try. And,my natural way:nicely as possible. |
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Been there and had it happen to me. My best friend, a woman I knew my entire life, got amd at me because I couldn't pay her the $50 I owed her, even though i offered it to her the night she really could have used it, or should have taken it. We're no longer friends.
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thanks for your advice 'cypoet'
It's hard to say NO,but,I'll try. And,my natural way:nicely as possible. Ur very welcome my beautiful friend;Enya.I caught ur comment after-wards in regards 2 family.That explains it alright.Be ur sweet self but apply a lil sternness when needed that's all.
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well i dont let it happen,prolem sloved,and if had it i just give it to them because iam giver but would not expect them to pay me back
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