why is the other gender so confusing? now, before this gets marked as sexist, let me clarify. to men, women are confusing. to women, men are confusing, so this is going both ways here, ok?

but anyway, back to the question. why is the other gender so confusing? any ideas? i tell my friend who is a woman that women are confusing, and she tells me men are confusing.....now i'm confused......ah, hell, i've gone cross-eyed.

men are from mars...women are from venus

I would say, it's probably because we have different ways of communicating

aliens scare me

u just got to make a try and hope it goes well buddy.i think being your partners friend is a good start

Women are confusing. As soon as you think you got me figured out, I change it up a bit. Makes it interesting.

Josh - it really is quite simple.

Men = Hunters

Women - gatherers


Base all thoughts around these concepts - and 90% of things make sense.



going to go hunting now...hunting a nice thick shelter.....before some rocks gather on my head.

Opposite sex isn't confusing to me.

Actually, I get along better with men than with women.


People are confusing in general anyway.

YES! TOTALLY! lol, that happens A LOT and it makes my head hurt and my ego fall!

why not? If were not would you chasing us. Its the nature of the beast.

Haha. Girls rock though. You would hate to be without them.

Men are just as confusing as women are sometimes. I guess it just depends on who it is and what the subject at hand is.

i only know two girls and they're my friends.....i'm trying to be more than friends with one of them but it's hard...cause one day she acts like she wants to be nothing more than friends, and the next day she acts like she has a total interest in me and yeah, i don't know whats going on.

i know, i already put that out in the open...lol

I confuse myself so I don't even want to try to understand anyone else...

I'm so confused...

Ok girls that are players dont count. Tell her to be real with you. Either date you or not. Dont play head games. Sometimes you just gotta tell a girl whats up!

GENERAL "gender truisms," if you will.........

Men are FACT-based thinkers
Women are EMOTION-based thinkers

Men are DESTINATION-BOUND
Women are ALL ABOUT THE JOURNEY

Men are FIXERS
Women are EXAMINERS

Men are VISUAL beings
Women are AUDITORY beings

Men are TRANSITORY
Women are NESTERS

Men are MICROWAVES
Women are CROCK POTS

Men want RESULTS
Women want EXPERIENCES

Again, I would like to add the disclaimer that these comparisons are not true without exception, rather are true on the whole.

While ti is true that having common traits/characteristics may lend a more harmonious union, variety is the spice of life. After all....if your significant other and you were just alike....one of you would be unnecessary!

i wouldn't call her a player.....i've known her for 5 years, and we've never been anything more than friends, but for the first time in 5 years we're both single so it's getting weird....it started off with flirting comments and now it's worked it's way into holding hands, cuddling, things like that.