Topic: Not nice, but lacking.....
PATSFAN's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:57 PM


<------ Looks in to see if the fire is still burning, Hell ya..

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:58 PM

Yes
The "Nice Guy" post


Yes. Exactly the point. Guys start up threads that say, why don't women want me? I'm nice. Wha Whah Wah...

If they were truly nice, kind men... who were assertive, confident and giving.. they would not be whining. They'd be out there looking for a woman. Keeping their mouths shut. In other words, actually being nice.

DeathsTreaty's photo
Tue 03/18/08 04:01 PM
Like me? ^^ (Im joking)

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/18/08 04:02 PM

Like me? ^^ (Im joking)


Exactly. Not whining. flowerforyou

DeathsTreaty's photo
Tue 03/18/08 04:03 PM
I did post something asking where Dark/evil Women are....does that count?

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/18/08 04:05 PM

I did post something asking where Dark/evil Women are....does that count?


Nope.

DeathsTreaty's photo
Tue 03/18/08 04:06 PM
^^ ok good, I thought it might have

but I didnt get much response from that post....I wonder why...

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/18/08 04:08 PM

^^ ok good, I thought it might have

but I didnt get much response from that post....I wonder why...


Can't help you there... sorry.

DeathsTreaty's photo
Tue 03/18/08 04:11 PM
Your not a Dark person ^^
well, you dont show much of it at least ^^


But I think there is some Evil you like to laugh with ^^


I might be wrong....but have a feeling about it...

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/18/08 04:12 PM

Your not a Dark person ^^
well, you dont show much of it at least ^^


But I think there is some Evil you like to laugh with ^^


I might be wrong....but have a feeling about it...


There is a touch of dark within us all, Death. We usually choose how much we show and how much we keep. flowerforyou

DeathsTreaty's photo
Tue 03/18/08 04:15 PM
I know

Ive alwys been curious of what lengths people can go through in the "Darkness" of their Hearts

Its what keeps me in it
Curiousity might kill more then just a cat

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/18/08 04:16 PM

I know

Ive alwys been curious of what lengths people can go through in the "Darkness" of their Hearts

Its what keeps me in it
Curiousity might kill more then just a cat


There are better curiosities suited to one searching for answers, Death.

I'm off for the night... see you! flowerforyou

DeathsTreaty's photo
Tue 03/18/08 04:19 PM
Have a good night Lilith

Bye for now





Plz call me Treaty or poipoi ^^

SweetButSpoiled's photo
Tue 03/18/08 04:21 PM
I agree that most people who say they are "nice" are usually whining about what people have done in the past. That could be a huge reason why I tend to be a *****. LOL I guess what I am saying is get off your pity party about your past and look forward to the real party of your future. Not everyone is evil. And we all deserve to be with someone who makes us happy!

no photo
Tue 03/18/08 06:08 PM

I see so many "Why don't women want a nice guy?" threads...

Ugh.

In my opinion, this has way more to do with assertiveness without being arrogant or aggressive. Not a "bad boy" or a "nice guy".

What do you think?


women probably prefer that their significant others pack more testosterone than them and probably shy away from those that don't

Totage's photo
Tue 03/18/08 06:19 PM
Edited by Totage on Tue 03/18/08 06:20 PM

I like bad girls...................







and turtles


laugh I was gonna say I like bad turtles.

no photo
Tue 03/18/08 06:27 PM


I like bad girls...................







and turtles


laugh I was gonna say I like bad turtles.


how do you tell if it's a bad turtle? Does it have a mullet?

creativesoul's photo
Wed 03/19/08 01:31 PM
I wonder why men, who are not as self-confident as some women would prefer, bother those women who prefer more self-confidence... huh

Why would it matter either way, personally, to a woman who prefers more(self-confidence) to recognize that some men do not have what those women would prefer?

Question the questions, and you may find the more accurate answers...:wink:

Tantza's photo
Wed 03/19/08 01:33 PM
Deppends....

franshade's photo
Wed 03/19/08 01:34 PM

I see so many "Why don't women want a nice guy?" threads...

Ugh.

In my opinion, this has way more to do with assertiveness without being arrogant or aggressive. Not a "bad boy" or a "nice guy".

What do you think?


I think those that give themselves the pity party of woe is me, I'm a good/nice guy/girl, blah, blah, blah... are not only being honest with themselves they are not being honest with others. Either that or their definitions are askew. When all else fails call yourself a good/nice guy/girl, thats a way to get attention... laugh laugh