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blabbety blabbety... boo hoo wah wah Do I win? Not whining...... just taking some time to condense what many ladies have said over the tons and tons of threads on the topic. |
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Probably going to catch heck with this one...... but given all the threads ad nauseum about "Where are the nice women? Why nice guys finish last?" I felt compelled to contribute this list. Ladies, feel free to add your own thoughts. This is not meant to denigrate anyone, but rather to point out some characteristics and behaviors associated with the "typical" nice guy, and how it may be perceived by the ladies.. If you are a nice guy, who does not exhibit the negative behaviors listed, and/or do exhibit some of the others..... all hope is not lost!I'm not bashing nice guys here. There are plenty of nice guys out there that already know this stuff. 10 Reasons Why Women Turn Away NICE Guys 1. We want a guy who does not have “Doormat” or “Pushover” stamped on his forehead. 2. We want a guy who doesn’t call us 40 million times a day just to hear our voice. 3. We want a guy whose backbone is at least as strong as our own…. Who has opinions, expresses them, and does not necessarily back down when challenged. 4. We like challenges as much as men. Let us wonder about you a little bit. Don’t wear your heart on your sleeve too soon. 5. Being a little bit bad is NICE…….. and sparks excitement. 6. We want to feel like the guy we’re with has more testosterone than we do. 7. We want a man who does not come off as “needy”. If you demand all our time, or push us too fast…..or insist on a commitment a week into a relationship….. as is sometimes the case….. we run. (Men do the same thing with women) 8. We need a man who will not smother us. There is sometimes a fine line between attentiveness and overdoing it. 9. We like it when a guy can bring out the “bad” girl in us. Many “nice” guys (not all) have a hard time doing this. 10. We like men who take ACTION…….. accept responsibility for themselves and their actions….and who do not whine. No such thing as a nice guy |
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wow girls ***** and moan all the time about how theres no nice guys left, maybe if you guys actually knew what you wanted or wanted the same thing on a regular basis, guys would actually know what to do, you think your the smarter gender, but at least we know what we want..
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its all good I am nice,and wont change it I cant help it if I aint one of the bad boys,I cant help it if I dont beat woman or do stupid crap,cant help if I dont think about sex 24/7
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wow girls ***** and moan all the time about how theres no nice guys left, maybe if you guys actually knew what you wanted or wanted the same thing on a regular basis, guys would actually know what to do, you think your the smarter gender, but at least we know what we want.. rotflmao!!!!!!! |
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Just like must women, you people wouldn't know a nice guy if you tripped over him. You were describing a whimp, not a nice guy.
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wow girls ***** and moan all the time about how theres no nice guys left, maybe if you guys actually knew what you wanted or wanted the same thing on a regular basis, guys would actually know what to do, you think your the smarter gender, but at least we know what we want.. The same COULD be said of men...... |
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texasrose...YOU ARE GREAT! That is SOOOOOO TRUE!
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its all good I am nice,and wont change it I cant help it if I aint one of the bad boys,I cant help it if I dont beat woman or do stupid crap,cant help if I dont think about sex 24/7 |
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Edited by
izzie
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Mon 03/17/08 05:17 PM
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wow girls ***** and moan all the time about how theres no nice guys left, maybe if you guys actually knew what you wanted or wanted the same thing on a regular basis, guys would actually know what to do, you think your the smarter gender, but at least we know what we want.. iwouldn't have gone as far as you, but one thing i do know. Women change ther minds all the time. How can some guys work with that. Now me I can figure out a women with in the first couple days and this will explain why i'm single. Most have no clue what they want. |
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blabbety blabbety... boo hoo wah wah Do I win? Not whining...... just taking some time to condense what many ladies have said over the tons and tons of threads on the topic. Oh, I know... I was talking to the guys who started whining. Actually though, I agree with the other people that said to stop at #1 because the rest just reiterate #1. |
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Edited by
Disaronno
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Mon 03/17/08 05:30 PM
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No such thing as a nice guy Nice,Beauty; btw...check that whole "Christian" thing you have going on in your profile - methinks you should take to heart what you are preaching there. |
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Lies.
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its all good I am nice,and wont change it I cant help it if I aint one of the bad boys,I cant help it if I dont beat woman or do stupid crap,cant help if I dont think about sex 24/7 OC..... don't have to be a bad boy... or all those other nasty traits you described..... and I would hardly call you a pushover...I've read your posts! |
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not ALL women want a man that thinks more about himself. I for one like the nice guys..
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There's a thin line between just bein nice and bein a complete p***y
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sorry,i stopped at one,cause theres really only one reason Repeaters are monotonous!!!lol |
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