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Topic: What constitutes a cougar?
UplandHunter Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 8066	Sat 03/15/08 05:27 PM
I knew.... I have brackets and your within those...there is a difference between a cougar and a lady...its not all about there age...but honesly dont want my significant other to die 10 years before I do. I realize others have different opinions and thats OK. Milf is a very offensive word...so I dont use it or go there.

UplandHunter Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 8066	Sat 03/15/08 05:29 PM
If you got to know me you would appreciate me... There is a specific incident as to why that statement is on my profile

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15111	Sat 03/15/08 05:32 PM
I knew.... I have brackets and your within those...there is a difference between a cougar and a lady...its not all about there age...but honesly dont want my significant other to die 10 years before I do. I realize others have different opinions and thats OK. Milf is a very offensive word...so I dont use it or go there. OK...that's why I started this thread. Wanted to understand the difference between a cougar and someone who either just prefers younger guys or dates younger guys just by luck of the draw. What is your idea of an acceptable age bracket? And I would have to agree with you on MILF...

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15111	Sat 03/15/08 05:33 PM
Oh--and as far as the dying 10 years before you do...don't you know women live longer?

UplandHunter Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 8066	Sat 03/15/08 05:40 PM
This refers to me specifically...I dont think I would be OK with more than a dime in either direction...Thats why after I found out that girl was younger than I thought I said This is out of my comfort zone, and she understood. I am who I am...like it or hate it...but This time I want to make sure I do whats right for me....Im willing to wait for the right person.

UplandHunter Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 8066	Sat 03/15/08 05:45 PM
Yes I do......And there is no expiration date on my birth certificate..so who knows what will happen....Thats why I am not willing to cheat life.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Sat 03/15/08 06:09 PM
This refers to me specifically...I dont think I would be OK with more than a dime in either direction...Thats why after I found out that girl was younger than I thought I said This is out of my comfort zone, and she understood. I am who I am...like it or hate it...but This time I want to make sure I do whats right for me....Im willing to wait for the right person. you are entitled to date whoever you want. We all have different comfort zones, no wrong or right here.

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15111	Sat 03/15/08 06:11 PM


andrewzooms Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 2842	Sat 03/15/08 06:14 PM
Cougars. That word sounds exciting.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 03/15/08 06:36 PM
I knew.... I have brackets and your within those...there is a difference between a cougar and a lady...its not all about there age...but honesly dont want my significant other to die 10 years before I do. I realize others have different opinions and thats OK. Milf is a very offensive word...so I dont use it or go there. honestly I am not offended by it ... I think it's a complement. but I see what you are saying as well .........

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 03/15/08 06:39 PM
I knew.... I have brackets and your within those...there is a difference between a cougar and a lady...its not all about there age...but honesly dont want my significant other to die 10 years before I do. I realize others have different opinions and thats OK. Milf is a very offensive word...so I dont use it or go there. OK...that's why I started this thread. Wanted to understand the difference between a cougar and someone who either just prefers younger guys or dates younger guys just by luck of the draw. What is your idea of an acceptable age bracket? And I would have to agree with you on MILF... well he still hasn't defined 'cougar' in his opinion. and I like MILF better than cougar. I'm not a cat. I AM a mom

UplandHunter Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 8066	Sat 03/15/08 06:56 PM
And I am a Dad..to a wonderful little girl. If you want to get to know me...try...I will always be your friend. friendships can lead to deeper feelings. I do not have to defend my position. I will always be a straight shooter. If you have private questions ask in a private forum. I will walk away from this topic with my dignity...and not impose my views on others.

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15111	Sat 03/15/08 07:00 PM
And I am a Dad..to a wonderful little girl. If you want to get to know me...try...I will always be your friend. friendships can lead to deeper feelings. I do not have to defend my position. I will always be a straight shooter. If you have private questions ask in a private forum. I will walk away from this topic with my dignity...and not impose my views on others. You are right...you do NOT have to defend your position. It is exactly that--YOUR position. That's all I asked for :)