i've read in a few profiles, "i like to take walks along the beach, hold hands, open doors for women" ...etc ect..

my question is..is it the act you like doing, or the feelings you have while doing them?


i can speak only for myself, i don't like snugglin on the couch without someone i care about..

works with the kids, but I don't 'snuggle' with them like I would with my significant other

i snuggle with my son

both

How about this one in womens profiles around TN.

"Take walks along the beaches"

This just in, There's a shortage of beaches around TN!

What do you think we'll do on our dates, drive over to NC to the beach to take a walk?

You are right. I would like to walk on the beach holding hands, or snuggling on the couch with the person I care about.

I guess they are trying to say they like to do those things, if the two people get to the point of caring for ea. other.

Bring in a truck load of sand to the pond out back.

You kinda figure that's a give me.

i try not to assume anything, that's the reason for this post..

some say they like doing those things, but if they were single, would they still want to do them?


the whole walk along the beach thing...i'd do that single or not, it's a time for reflection also, not just romance


opening doors for women, do you only do that while in a relationship? or for every woman you see?


i want someone to open the grocery store door, or the restaurant door...for me or my neighbor

I snuggle with my dog daily, and my parrot,

I keep hearing about this female companionship and "snugglin"
have my eyes peeled and my hopes up,

wanted: sweet sexy darlin for close encounter on the couch kind, must like touching, holding and yes, i'll open doors and hold hands, I mean c'mon its a gentleman thing,just dont snuggle and cuddle and hold hands with me like the kids, cause c'mon, I nibble relentlessly

dont have a beach, but perhaps a boat drift along the gator infested bayous and skeeter plagued waterway,

oh and ellgee, i dont like snugglin with anyone but a significant other, I'm contagious, might make ya smile, or even giggle, will glaze eyes and curl toes, oh but i dirgress

If your wrting a profile I always figued you would be talking about what you would like to do with the other person. As for me, I open doors for woman all the time. Old, young, thin, large. If I know them or not. Just the way I was raised.

I've floated the bayous down your way before...I thought THAT was a blast!!!

i don't do walks along the beach and i've never understood opening the car door thing.i mean if a woman can't open her own car door,how is she gonna raise kids or cook or clean house?

shooter you're killin me again lol

i like snugglin with my monsters..i figure if i have a good enough relationship with them now, when they have stress in their lives later, they can come to me for help, or guidance...i want to snuggle with my monsters, hell they still crawl in bed with me on Sunday mornings...it's a good thing to be loved by your kids lol

both..
everyone needs their touch needs met to one degree or another.. EVERYONE!!!

take the simple proven fact of how some elderly in nursing homes are happier, healthier and more active because of programs with local shelters and humane societies that allow them to interact with animals and give them love.. Its not exactly the same but I think I make my point. I do dont I?

it's not a matter of can she do it herself..

it's treating her as tho you want to do things for her, so she doesn't HAVE to..the little things that make her feel like a princess by YOU specificially

I love long walks (weather permitting), either alone or with someone else. It's a chance to see some of the local scenery that you're never going to have the time to notice from a moving car....

When I see something like "long walks on the beach" in a profile, though, I just see it as a hackneyed cliche -- like "no game players" or "anything you want to know, you'll have to ask" -- indicative of someone with little or no originality. Not saying that there aren't people who truly do like to walk on the beach, just that there are better and less tiresome ways to phrase these things.

but why?i mean it doesn't take that much effort to open a car door,so it's not like the guy is doing anything super big for her....

so then lex, if they actually like doing these things, how would you rather them word it?

do you have that romance gene lex? you and i don't talk enough for me to know one way or another

(no this isn't about lex, or anyone specific in general...tryin to only get examples of romance from people)

again.. "the little things that make her feel like a princess by YOU specificially"

does't have to be BIG to make her feel special to you

You are right Jtevans, it isn't 'super big'...sometimes it's the little things that count or catch a woman's attention! Try it sometime.