Topic: What would be the best approach to aomeone when going on a d
Ami1981's photo
Fri 03/14/08 10:46 AM
I have been on a date once b4 after my divorced and didn't work out so well. but I would like to have some tips from y'all or advices how or what would be the best when asking some one out without scare them off

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 03/14/08 10:46 AM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Fri 03/14/08 10:48 AM
flowerforyou Just ask them.flowerforyou Dont worry so muchflowerforyou

hellkitten54's photo
Fri 03/14/08 10:48 AM
Just ask them out, plain and simple. We arn't mind readers, so you will never know if they want to, unless you ask. Why would that scare them off?huh

lilith401's photo
Fri 03/14/08 10:48 AM
Ask them to meet for a drink or cup of coffee. Make sure they know you want to see them one on one, but in a situation where it's expected to last more than 20-30 minutes. If it doesn't work out, then it's easy to leave, or say you need to be somewhere. There need be no maximum time for a date to last... but it ought to be casual, stress free, and without expectation.

azrae1l's photo
Fri 03/14/08 10:49 AM
ok dude seriously! we're all on here cuz we can't get dates.....

and you think we can tell you how to ask people out? thats the blind leading the idiotic

lilith401's photo
Fri 03/14/08 10:50 AM

ok dude seriously! we're all on here cuz we can't get dates.....

and you think we can tell you how to ask people out? thats the blind leading the idiotic


Hey! Speak for yourself... I went on "dates" for years!

azrae1l's photo
Fri 03/14/08 10:51 AM


ok dude seriously! we're all on here cuz we can't get dates.....

and you think we can tell you how to ask people out? thats the blind leading the idiotic


Hey! Speak for yourself... I went on "dates" for years!


well ok you occassionally have the hot one on here for friends........

Brandon24721's photo
Fri 03/14/08 10:57 AM
I can get dates.. but i work out of town alot! so i'm never around! But who don't want to meet knew people! I get tired of the same people i grew up with lol

itsmetina's photo
Fri 03/14/08 10:59 AM
idk i just wait for a guy to ask

itsmetina's photo
Fri 03/14/08 10:59 AM
idk i just wait for a guy to ask

lilith401's photo
Fri 03/14/08 11:00 AM
There is a saying I like....

"Good things come to those who wait.... because they are left behind by those that DO".

Ami1981's photo
Fri 03/14/08 11:47 AM

Just ask them out, plain and simple. We arn't mind readers, so you will never know if they want to, unless you ask. Why would that scare them off?huh

grumble I have been used by the last two fellers (2006 *who used me like a rag dog* and after my divorce (2007: he just told me that he wanted 2 start a family with me and talked 2 me about it and I agreeed 2 it) I don't think they wanted serious relationship. huh huh

Ami1981's photo
Fri 03/14/08 11:50 AM
thank you 4 your relpy.drinker drinker smokin