Topic: When is the best time to discuss birthdays?
PacificStar48's photo
Thu 03/13/08 10:27 PM
I like someone in a relative new dateing relationship and my birthday is tomorrow. Several close friends have taken me out this week avoiding the "big day" knowing that I hope he will do something special but he seems more irratated that I am busy than wanting to know why? How do you tell someone that they are missing a "special" day without putting them on the spot?

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Thu 03/13/08 10:30 PM
How bout telling him that on your special day all you want is to be with him.....then hopefully he will ask when your special day is. Then you will say tomorrow, so were you taking us.....lol. I know, just a thought...lol

azrae1l's photo
Thu 03/13/08 10:30 PM
just say sorry i'm busy but my friends wanted to take me out for my birthday...... easy enough

boneyjoe's photo
Thu 03/13/08 10:31 PM
walk up to them,,,,,pur arms around them,,,,,,,,,throw them on th floor an give them a big kiss,,,,,,,tell them it's ur birthday an u want ur present NOW!!!!!!!

itsmetina's photo
Thu 03/13/08 10:31 PM
are you expecting him to know its your b day and u never told him

me2g's photo
Thu 03/13/08 10:32 PM

just say sorry i'm busy but my friends wanted to take me out for my birthday...... easy enough


EXAAAAACTLY

rossman's photo
Thu 03/13/08 10:37 PM
Mondays

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 03/13/08 10:41 PM

walk up to them,,,,,pur arms around them,,,,,,,,,throw them on th floor an give them a big kiss,,,,,,,tell them it's ur birthday an u want ur present NOW!!!!!!!

Hey that sounds like a winner Joe lol

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 03/13/08 10:44 PM

are you expecting him to know its your b day and u never told him
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No really don't expect him to know because he doesn't know a lot of my friends yet so it is not like he would pick up on their remarks. I just don't want to make him feel obligated.

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 03/13/08 10:49 PM

just say sorry i'm busy but my friends wanted to take me out for my birthday...... easy enough

That wouldn't sound like I am dogging him for not knowing? We talked about several things just not when our respective birthdays actually are. Just works out mine is early in the friendship.

DeadlyAddiction's photo
Thu 03/13/08 11:05 PM

I like someone in a relative new dateing relationship and my birthday is tomorrow. Several close friends have taken me out this week avoiding the "big day" knowing that I hope he will do something special but he seems more irratated that I am busy than wanting to know why? How do you tell someone that they are missing a "special" day without putting them on the spot?



Happy Bday tomorrow!!!
My bday started 5min ago hahaha

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Thu 03/13/08 11:21 PM
20 years BEFORE them......loldrinker :wink: :heart: