First things first, start with friends. Worry about the boyfriend stuff later. Find a hobby that you like where you can meet people who like doing the same thing you do. Then you've already got something in common with them. Go from there.

If you're going out of the gate looking for a boyfriend, you're going to be disappointed because guys can smell desperation a mile away. It isn't attractive. Take your time, work on what you can do for you first. The other stuff will come on its own.

I can relate with the shyness. I used to be that way. You just have to bite the bullet and put yourself out there. Not all people are bad, but you have to take a risk now and then to find the good ones.

I'll get off my soapbox now.

Great advice. I like how you said it, but I am not desperate for a guy. I am just alone and hoping to find a guy. That's all.

I am focusing on things that matter to me. I am working on my schooling and trying to figure things out of that part of my life. I am also trying to figure out what clubs to join in college, but I will just have to wait and see what happens. Thanks a ton for your advice.

Any time.

It's difficult for me as well, if I didn't have my projects, I'd probably go insane with boredom... A job would help but I can't get one right now for some reason.

Don't feel bad, I'm way older than you, and I've never had one either. It's all good. I'm sure you'll find someone though. Good luck.