Topic: Is it really that big of a deal.....
duckiegiggles's photo
Mon 03/10/08 08:22 AM

I get some girls who won't date me because my pen!s is so small....so shallow

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bassman1959's photo
Mon 03/10/08 08:22 AM



I really don't think most men are capable of really telling a woman's size, in terms of clothing. I believe both men and women are able to tell if a person's appearance is pleasing to them, and place that in accordance with everything else about them.
exactly

well some know especially when they guess your size and automatically close the conversation just bc they know you are a bigger girl...



Would you really want to be with a person like this anyway? Heck, if the dress size means that much to the men you are dating maybe it's because they feel they wouldn't look good in that dress themselves.laugh

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Mon 03/10/08 08:22 AM

I get some girls who won't date me because my pen!s is so small....so shallow


Do you show photos before the first date? Is this how they know? Or do you think it is the repeated requests to stroke it? laugh laugh laugh laugh

duckiegiggles's photo
Mon 03/10/08 08:23 AM
is it the fear of what your friends will say if they see you with a big girl you guys are scared of?

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Mon 03/10/08 08:23 AM

I get some girls who won't date me because my pen!s is so small....so shallow
















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LandRover28's photo
Mon 03/10/08 08:25 AM

I Like's All Girls ......happy happy :wink: :tongue:


This coming from the Manatee...

jtip1977's photo
Mon 03/10/08 08:26 AM


I get some girls who won't date me because my pen!s is so small....so shallow


Do you show photos before the first date? Is this how they know? Or do you think it is the repeated requests to stroke it? laugh laugh laugh laugh


I'm a charming guy and funny guy.....gets them in the mood all the time - well, that and 7 jack and cokes...but anyway, once they start feeling around down there, they laugh and run away......

12281964's photo
Mon 03/10/08 08:26 AM
I did put on my profile that I was not into large to very large women.I just wanted to be honest.I looked at your pics and dont find a thing wrong with you.:smile:

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 03/10/08 08:28 AM
Did anybody bother to ask what size guys she was going for???? I'm going to say skinny/slim...

FaithfulOne78's photo
Mon 03/10/08 08:29 AM


Is it really that big of a deal or that big of a bad thing when a girl is bigger??! Sorry if we are all not a size 2!! SEIOUSLY WTF! I dont look my weight so it shouldn matter...Some people are sooooo shallow. Like me for who i am! You people are the ones that make me who i am, and make me upset over myself letting myself get this way. Thank you!


Okay I see it as your post can go the other way as well....there are women out there that wont date a man who is on the bigger side as well..It's all PERSONAL PREFERENCE,not being shallow. You have i'm sure a preference about what kind of men you would date..as do men. It's a part of life.


jtip1977's photo
Mon 03/10/08 08:29 AM
She's looking for a pie eating contest winner.

Starhawk's photo
Mon 03/10/08 08:30 AM
Free Beer .........Wear........drinker

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Mon 03/10/08 08:31 AM
Edited by Justaxe on Mon 03/10/08 08:32 AM
A guy is shallow because he is not attracted to 'big' women?

Phhht. What is shallow is not accepting reality and then posting looking for support that it is somehow something wrong with the guy instead.

Reality - physical attraction MATTERS in the beginning (dating) otherwise how would dating even start in most cases.

And it is not a 'guy' thing either. Some people are not attracted to large persons(whether it be overweight or large in general). The same as people are not attracted to another person that is bald, short, or plastered with tatoos.

So what. Don't blame others for their preferences in what they are attracted to. Everyone has their own likes and dislikes. Geesh. Lame.

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Mon 03/10/08 08:34 AM

Did anybody bother to ask what size guys she was going for???? I'm going to say skinny/slim...

i dont think it matters, A lot of guys can handle their weight better and its more ok in ociety for bigger guys to be out there. Ive dated skinny, bigger, muscular, big&tall ive dated all kinds. THey are all the same bc i dont look at their looks only

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Mon 03/10/08 08:34 AM




It depends on bigger. I usually wouldnt be romantically involved with a woman if she is bigger than a 9/10, but some women carry their weight better than others. Personal preference, not hating.
you must be related to the ass i talked to this morning, i dont look my weight or size, im 5'9 it hides very well, but you can tel im no size 4
lol, then don't ask the question. I realize I am far from perfect, but everyone has their own preferences. Why do people get sand in their crack when you answer what they ask?

just wondering
if you started hanging out with a big girl just as friends and then started to actually like her would you go for it or still just hang out and like her?
some guys i think dont date big girls cause they are afraid of getting made fun of by friends

Well if you read my post, you will see I said usually. I have indeed dated larger women, just for that reason. Am I sorry I did? No. Everyone carries it differently. I smoke, and I have dated women who said they wouldn't date smokers. We all have our cross to bear

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Mon 03/10/08 08:34 AM

I really don't think most men are capable of really telling a woman's size, in terms of clothing. I believe both men and women are able to tell if a person's appearance is pleasing to them, and place that in accordance with everything else about them.


This is true. One reason I don't tell my weight is that so many woman lie about it, there is not a fair frame of reference.

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Mon 03/10/08 08:35 AM


Did anybody bother to ask what size guys she was going for???? I'm going to say skinny/slim...

i dont think it matters, A lot of guys can handle their weight better and its more ok in ociety for bigger guys to be out there. Ive dated skinny, bigger, muscular, big&tall ive dated all kinds. THey are all the same bc i dont look at their looks only


What about guys with a small pen!s?

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 03/10/08 08:35 AM

She's looking for a pie eating contest winner.














So long as he is athleticlaugh laugh laugh laugh

jtip1977's photo
Mon 03/10/08 08:36 AM
Strong jaw muscles laugh

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Mon 03/10/08 08:37 AM



Did anybody bother to ask what size guys she was going for???? I'm going to say skinny/slim...

i dont think it matters, A lot of guys can handle their weight better and its more ok in ociety for bigger guys to be out there. Ive dated skinny, bigger, muscular, big&tall ive dated all kinds. THey are all the same bc i dont look at their looks only


What about guys with a small pen!s?


ive dated them too lol one for almost 2 years