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Topic: Is it really that big of a deal.....
jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Mon 03/10/08 08:14 AM
I like turtles You hanging out with Cam, or what? It doesn't suit you, JT. just trying to lighten the mood in here..........no pun intended!!!

LandRover28 Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 417	Mon 03/10/08 08:14 AM
I personally am not attracted to most overweight women. I still enjoy thier company though.

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Mon 03/10/08 08:15 AM
It depends on bigger. I usually wouldnt be romantically involved with a woman if she is bigger than a 9/10, but some women carry their weight better than others. Personal preference, not hating. you must be related to the ass i talked to this morning, i dont look my weight or size, im 5'9 it hides very well, but you can tel im no size 4 lol, then don't ask the question. I realize I am far from perfect, but everyone has their own preferences. Why do people get sand in their crack when you answer what they ask? Because they can't handle the truth. I have noticed that most people on this site HAVE to have their ego stroked constantly, and reassurance to their looks.

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Mon 03/10/08 08:15 AM
It depends on bigger. I usually wouldnt be romantically involved with a woman if she is bigger than a 9/10, but some women carry their weight better than others. Personal preference, not hating. you must be related to the ass i talked to this morning, i dont look my weight or size, im 5'9 it hides very well, but you can tel im no size 4 lol, then don't ask the question. I realize I am far from perfect, but everyone has their own preferences. Why do people get sand in their crack when you answer what they ask? well im just speakin my opinion as well, i just think its shallow to go by weight, wat if u started dating a girl a couple years later you are still dating and shes gained 30 lbs, shes still the same person inside and she should still be the one that you love. but i know a lot of guys that would break up just bc shes gained weight Yes you did, but you also threw a nice little insult my way. Would I divorce someone over gaining weight? No, not unless it completely changed our lifestyles and her skin started grafting to the couch material

Paul46 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 120	Mon 03/10/08 08:15 AM
personally I think big is beautiful

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Mon 03/10/08 08:15 AM
It depends on bigger. I usually wouldnt be romantically involved with a woman if she is bigger than a 9/10, but some women carry their weight better than others. Personal preference, not hating. you must be related to the ass i talked to this morning, i dont look my weight or size, im 5'9 it hides very well, but you can tel im no size 4 lol, then don't ask the question. I realize I am far from perfect, but everyone has their own preferences. Why do people get sand in their crack when you answer what they ask? Because they can't handle the truth. I have noticed that most people on this site HAVE to have their ego stroked constantly, and reassurance to their looks. HK - have I told you how sexy you are lately?

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Mon 03/10/08 08:16 AM
It depends on bigger. I usually wouldnt be romantically involved with a woman if she is bigger than a 9/10, but some women carry their weight better than others. Personal preference, not hating. you must be related to the ass i talked to this morning, i dont look my weight or size, im 5'9 it hides very well, but you can tel im no size 4 lol, then don't ask the question. I realize I am far from perfect, but everyone has their own preferences. Why do people get sand in their crack when you answer what they ask? well im just speakin my opinion as well, i just think its shallow to go by weight, wat if u started dating a girl a couple years later you are still dating and shes gained 30 lbs, shes still the same person inside and she should still be the one that you love. but i know a lot of guys that would break up just bc shes gained weight PERSONAL PREFERENCE. It's not really that hard to comprehend.

Rose41 Joined Sun 11/18/07 Posts: 940	Mon 03/10/08 08:16 AM
I really don't think most men are capable of really telling a woman's size, in terms of clothing. I believe both men and women are able to tell if a person's appearance is pleasing to them, and place that in accordance with everything else about them. exactly

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Mon 03/10/08 08:17 AM
Being heavy all my life, I can appreciate your point. I decided, long ago, folks putting me down for my appearance; are insecure about themselves. They have a need to find something that makes them THINK they are better. NOT TRUE. I just consider the source & let them go by. Be secure in yourself & to the devil with the rest. My view on the situation.

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Mon 03/10/08 08:17 AM
It depends on bigger. I usually wouldnt be romantically involved with a woman if she is bigger than a 9/10, but some women carry their weight better than others. Personal preference, not hating. you must be related to the ass i talked to this morning, i dont look my weight or size, im 5'9 it hides very well, but you can tel im no size 4 lol, then don't ask the question. I realize I am far from perfect, but everyone has their own preferences. Why do people get sand in their crack when you answer what they ask? Because they can't handle the truth. I have noticed that most people on this site HAVE to have their ego stroked constantly, and reassurance to their looks. HK - have I told you how sexy you are lately?

Starhawk Joined Mon 01/07/08 Posts: 2164	Mon 03/10/08 08:17 AM
I Like's All Girls ......

BrittneyC87 Joined Thu 09/20/07 Posts: 382	Mon 03/10/08 08:18 AM
I really don't think most men are capable of really telling a woman's size, in terms of clothing. I believe both men and women are able to tell if a person's appearance is pleasing to them, and place that in accordance with everything else about them. exactly well some know especially when they guess your size and automatically close the conversation just bc they know you are a bigger girl...

clevelandguy Joined Tue 12/04/07 Posts: 30	Mon 03/10/08 08:18 AM
i personally like bigger girls. i don't think skinny is that attractive. so theres guys out here that are looking for girls like that.

exit56 Joined Sat 02/16/08 Posts: 660	Mon 03/10/08 08:19 AM
I really don't think most men are capable of really telling a woman's size, in terms of clothing. I believe both men and women are able to tell if a person's appearance is pleasing to them, and place that in accordance with everything else about them. my wife has everything from a size 7 to size 16 talk about a roller coaster

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Mon 03/10/08 08:19 AM
Hey - there is a bigger girl that I work with. I love her. She's hilarious, and she takes me to lunch all the time

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 03/10/08 08:20 AM
please

FaithfulOne78 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 15313	Mon 03/10/08 08:20 AM
Is it really that big of a deal or that big of a bad thing when a girl is bigger??! Sorry if we are all not a size 2!! SEIOUSLY WTF! I dont look my weight so it shouldn matter...Some people are sooooo shallow. Like me for who i am! You people are the ones that make me who i am, and make me upset over myself letting myself get this way. Thank you! Okay I see it as your post can go the other way as well....there are women out there that wont date a man who is on the bigger side as well..It's all PERSONAL PREFERENCE,not being shallow. You have i'm sure a preference about what kind of men you would date..as do men. It's a part of life.

nonchalantwendy Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 13574	Mon 03/10/08 08:21 AM
Be happy with who you are.........and don't worry what others think.......Negativity is not worth the waste of your energy......If you love yourself men can see that......nothing like a happy confident woman.......You are awesome as you are!!!!!!!!

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 03/10/08 08:21 AM
I really don't think most men are capable of really telling a woman's size, in terms of clothing. I believe both men and women are able to tell if a person's appearance is pleasing to them, and place that in accordance with everything else about them. exactly well some know especially when they guess your size and automatically close the conversation just bc they know you are a bigger girl... As is their right. Same way you might go for a bald guy, or short guy, or purple guy. I just think, if I were single, I'd rather not worry about why a guy does not want me and focus on the ones that do.

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Mon 03/10/08 08:21 AM
I get some girls who won't date me because my pen!s is so small....so shallow