Topic: Is Anyone Serious Out There
KoolAidWoman's photo
Tue 07/22/08 11:41 AM
I wonder that myself or are the males needing a push ive chatted with someone for a couple of.
Weeks and he's flew the koop what-ever by by birdie!Koolaid>>>>>7/21/08laugh

no photo
Tue 07/22/08 02:48 PM

INTENTION = RESULTS


Think about that one, goes deep.


I hear ya, Sage.

That's ok Joe.

Oooh flowers, pretty. Don't think they're for me.

carolanne58's photo
Tue 07/22/08 07:49 PM
I'm serious,I think the fact that I am a widow scares alot of men off.I am patient and am In no rush. School will be my top priority come Sept.Right now I am just enjoying the summer with great nephews,and friends.smile(huge bonfires)

cherokeeangel53's photo
Sun 07/27/08 04:36 PM

I am just having a tough time getting people to reply, my divorce is not final and most want a divorced man, I guess.ohwell


The fact it is in the works is better than what I have found. Most say "separated" then give a dozen and one reason why they can't get the divorce. It's a married man's way of having his cake and eating it too. No ties, just his little side occupational therapy.

carold's photo
Sun 07/27/08 08:06 PM


I am just having a tough time getting people to reply, my divorce is not final and most want a divorced man, I guess.ohwell


The fact it is in the works is better than what I have found. Most say "separated" then give a dozen and one reason why they can't get the divorce. It's a married man's way of having his cake and eating it too. No ties, just his little side occupational therapy.
Yeap women aren't trusting to this one lol Divorce will be final in a few months heard that before. You put not married men on your profile what does that mean? Wait to talk to me when your DIVORCED you have issues to resolve first.

greer51's photo
Sun 07/27/08 08:48 PM
I am still "married", but have not even seen the "man"(???) in 5 or more years and do not want to. I am left to divorce him, as he is so drugged out and drunk, he cannot work and wouldn't divorce me if he could, 'cause he STILL
thinks I need to support him!!!!!!

Sarge61's photo
Sat 08/09/08 04:28 PM
I'm wondering if there are any women out there?glasses

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Sat 08/09/08 04:34 PM
rofl

carold's photo
Sat 08/09/08 04:36 PM

I am still "married", but have not even seen the "man"(???) in 5 or more years and do not want to. I am left to divorce him, as he is so drugged out and drunk, he cannot work and wouldn't divorce me if he could, 'cause he STILL
thinks I need to support him!!!!!!
Now that takes the cake got to give you that one. Hang in there girl.

carold's photo
Sat 08/09/08 04:38 PM

I'm wondering if there are any women out there?glasses
Yes were out here both men and women I guess it is finding the right one that just clicks.

KoolAidWoman's photo
Sat 08/09/08 09:13 PM
From what im hearing some you people are ready.
But not desparte cool, when you get to that point of not wanting no one lordy! We that want somebody will keep hope alive!i don't want to.
Be alone thats not for me.and im not built that way! Im here for you all!Double O Kool you know it;.:flowerforyou if your good to me ill be you! Know the rest of the saga! its just me keeping it real,Koolaid jmo 8/9/08 ps he back my guy!

jaguar57's photo
Sun 08/10/08 12:34 PM
I'm serious about not being serious. Long term relationships are death traps! You just get bored with the same ole all the time. Life is only interesting when there is enough change!

carold's photo
Sun 08/10/08 04:57 PM

I'm serious about not being serious. Long term relationships are death traps! You just get bored with the same ole all the time. Life is only interesting when there is enough change!
Hmmm that sounds sad you can have a life and you can enjoy changes together. It is only boring if you make it, have to put something into it. Good to have your own space too.

no photo
Sun 08/10/08 08:47 PM

I'm wondering if there are any women out there?glasses


we're out here....wondering where the men are!:smile:

carold's photo
Mon 08/11/08 05:48 AM
laugh

I'm wondering if there are any women out there?glasses


we're out here....wondering where the men are!:smile:
LOL:laughing: There around women are more vocal:)come on guys we know your out there oops

bakerman426's photo
Wed 08/13/08 09:26 PM
I have been a widower for 4 years it's about time I find a female 50 or over who understands what it is like to miss your love and your partner of life.

I am looking for a l t r in Haverhill not in this place a lot of jokers

carold's photo
Thu 08/14/08 04:17 AM

I have been a widower for 4 years it's about time I find a female 50 or over who understands what it is like to miss your love and your partner of life.

I am looking for a l t r in Haverhill not in this place a lot of jokers
Have to have humor to go through what you do in life. I'm widowed too. Welcome to the forums hope you enjoy our 50's and over group. :)

flame1cutie's photo
Thu 08/14/08 07:29 AM
Welcome bakerman, post and meet some people and make some friends. There are a lot of nice people on the forums here:smile: flowers

scoundrel's photo
Thu 08/14/08 09:34 AM

I am still "married", but have not even seen the "man"(???) in 5 or more years and do not want to. I am left to divorce him, as he is so drugged out and drunk, he cannot work and wouldn't divorce me if he could, 'cause he STILL
thinks I need to support him!!!!!!


drinker Good for you.flowerforyou

I don't see the separated status as a problem, since it is not an issue until face-to-face time has developed into 'are we right for each other' questions. The investment to really search for a right relationship should bypass the excuses for excuses. Either we are looking, testing, and researching, or we are abandoned pets making noise in a kennel.
I've gone, looked, tested, and failed...and will do so again. And again, without regret. And then I will cross mountains for the right person, to be together for the years to come.
She will know, and she will meet me halfway, at the mountaintop.
Have a wonderful day, and enjoy the rainbows of life that you create.

Off to work now. Cheers, all! drinker


polypeasant's photo
Thu 08/14/08 12:17 PM


I am still "married", but have not even seen the "man"(???) in 5 or more years and do not want to. I am left to divorce him, as he is so drugged out and drunk, he cannot work and wouldn't divorce me if he could, 'cause he STILL
thinks I need to support him!!!!!!


drinker Good for you.flowerforyou

I don't see the separated status as a problem, since it is not an issue until face-to-face time has developed into 'are we right for each other' questions. The investment to really search for a right relationship should bypass the excuses for excuses. Either we are looking, testing, and researching, or we are abandoned pets making noise in a kennel.
I've gone, looked, tested, and failed...and will do so again. And again, without regret. And then I will cross mountains for the right person, to be together for the years to come.
She will know, and she will meet me halfway, at the mountaintop.
Have a wonderful day, and enjoy the rainbows of life that you create.

Off to work now. Cheers, all! drinker

MY NEW HERO!!flowers Wow, from what I have mostly heard on this site....50 miles is about the most anyone wants to go. Well, maybe a hundred. Gives me hope. I'd like to think that I'd travel miles and miles to be with someone to love and loves me back.
Scoundrel had brought back the romance!
Cheers and Hope for All!