Topic: Is Anyone Serious Out There
carold's photo
Sun 07/06/08 07:38 PM

They seem to think the booty call is more inportant then a true relationship


I find this remark about "booty call" most interesting. Tell me just how men are TOTALLY responsible for having sex with a lady. Unless it is rape, are the ladies just as responsible for "booty call" as men? If you allow yourself to be decieved, do you not have a responsiblity for not being more careful. I have allowed some people to use me, MY FAULT.

So let's not use this "booty call" crap, just on men. Ladies get just as horny & desperate as men.

If anyone compromises their morals, it is their business for their needs at that time.

PERSONAL responsibility is the name of REALITY.

MY opinion.

Don't think was meant that way and we're refering to both sexes. Smiles

greer51's photo
Fri 07/11/08 05:43 PM
I think that was spoken very well and TOO true!!!!

greer51's photo
Sat 07/12/08 12:00 PM
"Booty Call" might be kinda' fun right now!! Just for the senses you understandbigsmile biggrin biggrin biggrin

no photo
Thu 07/17/08 07:54 PM
Im ready for a BOOTY CALL. Just need a booty to call.:wink:

polypeasant's photo
Thu 07/17/08 09:02 PM
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Im ready for a BOOTY CALL. Just need a booty to call.:wink:


Yeah...wheres a booty when you realllllllllllllly need onerofl rofl rofl

Had this more like booty call guy...but then I felt so insecure...wanted more continuity...felt used and not appreciated... we women...we like the long haul...or at least to know where we stand.

Cheers to yaa allwaving

carolanne58's photo
Thu 07/17/08 09:07 PM

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Im ready for a BOOTY CALL. Just need a booty to call.:wink:


Yeah...wheres a booty when you realllllllllllllly need onerofl rofl rofl

Had this more like booty call guy...but then I felt so insecure...wanted more continuity...felt used and not appreciated... we women...we like the long haul...or at least to know where we stand.

Cheers to yaa allwaving



Cheers for the long haul!!!!!!!

polypeasant's photo
Thu 07/17/08 10:06 PM

It seems to me that people want to find someone right this minute. They don't want to take the time to develop a friendship before jumping into "love". Or, if a person doesn't fit into that mold of who someone thinks they have to have, they don't give the other person a chance. People are also real hesitant to try the distance thing, and based on experience and what others have posted here, the local fair is pretty slim. frown
So my answer is that I would seriously like to find someone that I enjoy being with and who feels the same about me, but I'm not betting that is will happen! indifferent
Nan glasses

Very nobly put nan....with instant e mails and so much instant gratification, its like I want love and I want it RIGHT NOW...frustrated smokin

so few people will take the time to write back and forth for a while....people limit themselves by distance and other criteria...maybe we need to remind ourselves not to go around with eyes and minds wide shut...maybe love is right under our nose...
BUT...I really do hate that bull from friends...when you are least looking...you'll find someonenoway noway
Anyways its almost time to catch the bus and I'll be spokin the driver etallaugh

oldsage's photo
Fri 07/18/08 03:57 AM
I think "getting serious" at our ages has alot of side factors, that make it even more difficult.

Property, grandkids, kids, we have way more to consider, LEGALLY.

carolanne58's photo
Fri 07/18/08 06:19 PM


It seems to me that people want to find someone right this minute. They don't want to take the time to develop a friendship before jumping into "love". Or, if a person doesn't fit into that mold of who someone thinks they have to have, they don't give the other person a chance. People are also real hesitant to try the distance thing, and based on experience and what others have posted here, the local fair is pretty slim. frown
So my answer is that I would seriously like to find someone that I enjoy being with and who feels the same about me, but I'm not betting that is will happen! indifferent
Nan glasses

Very nobly put nan....with instant e mails and so much instant gratification, its like I want love

and I want it RIGHT NOW...frustrated smokin





What's spoken the driver????????


so few people will take the time to write back and forth for a while....people limit themselves by distance and other criteria...maybe we need to remind ourselves not to go around with eyes and minds wide shut...maybe love is right under our nose...
BUT...I really do hate that bull from friends...when you are least looking...you'll find someonenoway noway
Anyways its almost time to catch the bus and I'll be spokin the driver etallaugh

Flarob's photo
Fri 07/18/08 07:20 PM

I think "getting serious" at our ages has alot of side factors, that make it even more difficult.

Property, grandkids, kids, we have way more to consider, LEGALLY.


Sage is quite right!

The other thing is that we all sometimes put up too many 'walls'. "He must like this" - "She must like that" - "I wont put up with whatever". Yep, tearing some of them down may get us hurt, but as I see it - the alternative is being Alone.

greer51's photo
Fri 07/18/08 07:20 PM
Friends are very important to me right now, and that is all I have time for right now!

carolanne58's photo
Fri 07/18/08 09:36 PM
Rob good to see you!! I don't think I have walls up have to check my profile,Just would perferr a non smoker.

boneyjoe's photo
Sat 07/19/08 12:37 AM
hello carol,,greer an rob,,,,,,i cought greers part,,,,we all need friends,,,,,,,,,good friends u can count on one hand,,,,,,an carol,i stoped smoking a few years ago,,,,,,,i enjoy th fresh air in my truck an house,,,,,,not sure if i would date asmoker or not

no photo
Sat 07/19/08 01:00 PM

If there is anyone serious about a relationship any more?


I am too serious .waving waving .

no photo
Sun 07/20/08 12:32 PM
I think you can be serious about another person without committing yourself to them for the rest of your life. If I ever meet someone I really like, I will focus on making that relationship the best it can be. Will it last forever? What is forever? I don't know that I will ever meet someone I want to commit the rest of my life to ever again. In the meantime, I enjoy friends and meeting people and all that life has to offer.

oldsage's photo
Mon 07/21/08 08:34 AM
Great way to put it, Music.

KoolAidWoman's photo
Mon 07/21/08 09:39 PM
Imsmile2 flying solo but its all good Koolaidwoman!
Lifes is good !,,,

oldsage's photo
Tue 07/22/08 05:07 AM
INTENTION = RESULTS


Think about that one, goes deep.

boneyjoe's photo
Tue 07/22/08 05:46 AM
what did i do,,,,,make a statement in th rong post again

OneOfAKind4U's photo
Tue 07/22/08 05:47 AM
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