i have a question.what would you do
i have a friend that i have known for over 30yrs, and she has been married to this guy that i used to date, and i actually introduced them together and they have been married for about 22-23yrs in that area, i found out over the weekend that she walked out on him and took the kids...
its still doesnt make sense on what he says and what she says, i got ahold of her on her cell but only talk to her for a brief, as to find out she met some guy online while playing pogo about 6months ago, still waiting for her to contact me..
were not sure where she is at, but we do know that she hasent been to work for they called looking for her on monday, as she was to be at work on sunday and she never showed, and then she calls the school and says there son is sick which he isent...
and then she runs the gas bill for the up, as i dont know if she paid the full thing off prior but the bill was $600 thats crazy, but then he gets a bill in the mail for another $200 so what the heck is she doing(driving all over where)

so what would you do just be there and listen to both sides of the story or just be there and help each one out.
im not sure why she didnt tell me anything,

Your best bet is to be there for both of them, afte all there is two sides to every story

yea i know,
he went off to kentucky last yr or the yr before just to get away from there son, i guess he can be a problem at times, in fact he stated the school calls and says they cant handle him, and there not sure what to do, i always hear one thing from each one, as she told me when i called she talked to her mom, but when he talked to her mom there was no word from her, so whos telling the truth.

im not picking any side, but i know they have been having problems for years, as i always hear it from him, when i talk to him

You sound like you might have your head on straight just stay in the position you are in and you will prevail

Sounds like he has issues as well as her, so time will tell

I agree with everything bad_girl said

Sounds like your doing a good job trying to help both out

You deserve flowers for your efforts

sounds like someone's on drugs or having manic episodes...

simple,,,,,,she went an found her sum new sweet thang,,,,,people always think th gras is greerner on th other side of th mountain,,,,,,,theres nutten u can say or do,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,until he or she ask for ur help,,,,,,,,good luck with them

i dont know how you think one of them is on drugs.. which there not... but hes a diabetic and now hes giving up, in fact he suposely threw away his meds,