Explain to me why we make the classifications of nice and bad people. Even more so, who are we to place OURSELVES in these classifications? By placing ourselves in these categories, we're only making ourselves self-conscious and creating generalizations amongst each other that are not needed. There's where the problem lies. You're a person, not a nice guy or a bad boy or a reformed nice guy.

I was a nice guy for 20 years. Know what it got me? Nothing but walked on like a doormat. This whole post is true. You continually crapped on the nice guys and now they don't want you and your life you have chosen.

I am just a half-caf venti mocha latte myself

Well the enlightenment was such a revelation to ALL women... I am so glad that we stumbled upon the well thought out (must have taken years) post so that you could tell us what AS$HOLES ALL WOMEN ARE... But it makes one think.. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm let's see that really nice girl that the guys wouldn't go out with b/c she was a little heavy or didn't dress so stylish or her teeth were buck... But you know NONE OF THOSE GUYS HAD THEIR HEADS UP THEIR A$$ES DID THEY?? Nope just women...

It's unfortunate that you feel screwed over but here's the thing... IF you're friends with the opposite sex then you draw the line at interest and if you are interested then you need to grow the ba!!s to tell her otherwise she might be oblivious to the fact that you like her for more than a friend... One can't deal with something one isn't aware of..

Your post is no friggin different than guys wanting to date hot chicks with big boobs.. Did you really think you came up with something new? I suggest you get over yourself, pull your head out of your a$$ and go out with an ugly chick! Then when you've redone your house and taken out all the glass, you come back and cast a stone!!!!

.....I'm single, successful, 42, no kids, cultured, well travelled, and what am I being offered here? Grief, anxiety, drama, and an awful lot of children? No thanks. I will take the early retirement and chase half naked girls half my age on tropical islands. But I will be thinking of you and your "Where are all the nice guys" dilemna while I'm enjoying myself! Thanks all you mean, selfish, self centered, horrible, rottenevil, cheating, lying, backstabbing, heartbreaking, neurotic, insecure, sociopsychotic women from my past that walked over this good man and his heart. I'm enjoying what you changed me into. A cautious, callous, bitter bad boy.

I may be a little bit in love with you.... in a totally non sexual non lesbian kinda way....

I may be a little bit in love with you.... in a totally non sexual non lesbian kinda way....

I wonder what the world would be like if there were no generalizing or stereotyping. Imagine everyone judging the others as individuals on a case by case basis? It seems like such a simple concept, yet it will never happen.

I wonder what the world would be like if there were no generalizing or stereotyping. Imagine everyone judging the others as individuals on a case by case basis? It seems like such a simple concept, yet it will never happen.

.....I'm single, successful, 42, no kids, cultured, well travelled, and what am I being offered here? Grief, anxiety, drama, and an awful lot of children? No thanks. I will take the early retirement and chase half naked girls half my age on tropical islands. But I will be thinking of you and your "Where are all the nice guys" dilemna while I'm enjoying myself! Thanks all you mean, selfish, self centered, horrible, rottenevil, cheating, lying, backstabbing, heartbreaking, neurotic, insecure, sociopsychotic women from my past that walked over this good man and his heart. I'm enjoying what you changed me into. A cautious, callous, bitter bad boy.

me too, hon, get in line!

Wow hold grudges much???? Holy cannoli batman.. Enjoy your 1/2 naked girls 1/2 your age if that's what floats your boat.. No sweat off my freckled nose.... If I'm alone it's b/c I choose to be alone just as I choose to be now... I can date but there's no one I want to date? Oh why you ask??? Oh I'll tell you b/c the men that want to date me have a lot of money and we have NOTHING in COMMON, no attraction yes on my side... BUT isn't that better to NOT DATE them rather than date them b/c they have money???? So not all women are b!tches and it would be nice of "some" dumba$$ angry men would grown the F up and get over it Jesus so things didn't work out, I've had things not work out, it's life but you know what!!!!??? I'm a big girl responsible for myself and mature, I hate none of them and I do not hate all men b/c of it... I could date men 1/2 my age as well... But I prefer to have commonalities with a person and be able to discuss 80's bands and shows or what have you without them going huh... Been there, tried that and bought the t-shirt...

I wonder what the world would be like if there were no generalizing or stereotyping. Imagine everyone judging the others as individuals on a case by case basis? It seems like such a simple concept, yet it will never happen.

Wow hold grudges much???? Holy cannoli batman.. Enjoy your 1/2 naked girls 1/2 your age if that's what floats your boat.. No sweat off my freckled nose.... If I'm alone it's b/c I choose to be alone just as I choose to be now... I can date but there's no one I want to date? Oh why you ask??? Oh I'll tell you b/c the men that want to date me have a lot of money and we have NOTHING in COMMON, no attraction yes on my side... BUT isn't that better to NOT DATE them rather than date them b/c they have money???? So not all women are b!tches and it would be nice of "some" dumba$$ angry men would grown the F up and get over it Jesus so things didn't work out, I've had things not work out, it's life but you know what!!!!??? I'm a big girl responsible for myself and mature, I hate none of them and I do not hate all men b/c of it... I could date men 1/2 my age as well... But I prefer to have commonalities with a person and be able to discuss 80's bands and shows or what have you without them going huh... Been there, tried that and bought the t-shirt...