Topic: Would it ever be ok
shoes4rhon's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:37 AM
when I am going to break it off I take the person to Applebees .. I don't care if I ever go back there again it is public so no scene and you can get in and out virtually unscathed .. that is just me ..

harley46's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:37 AM

I think so. I have done it, and I'm not sorry.

It was a person I met in a dating site, and we went out twice. We met by computer, it ended by computer.

I even attached a nice little document about liberal democrats...laugh

He drank four drinks in an hour on a snowy night at a bar... spewing his hatred over liberal democrats and asserting that he was a republican. He knew nothing about the electoral process, was not a registered voter, and could not state any differences between republicans and democrats. Normally I do not use politics as a dealbreaker, but all he talked about was politics, and he had no idea what he was saying!

So he got a Dear John e-mail, with attachent.

Now, I did have a guy end a four month relationship in an e-mail titled "Yo"... and that was in poor taste. We'd known each other almost two years....
Don't blame you on that one. flowerforyou drinker laugh

here_in_ohio's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:37 AM
no :D lol but ive done it in a instant message

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Tue 03/04/08 09:38 AM

when I am going to break it off I take the person to Applebees .. I don't care if I ever go back there again it is public so no scene and you can get in and out virtually unscathed .. that is just me ..



I did that whole public safety thing once. Still ended up with a lap full of water and a slap to the face. Some people i tell you.

Peachiepoohie's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:39 AM

Yeah, or the potential nutso.


personally...I find almost everyone is a potential nutso...pushed far enough we'll all go POSTAL

Peccy's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:39 AM

I think so. I have done it, and I'm not sorry.

It was a person I met in a dating site, and we went out twice. We met by computer, it ended by computer.

I even attached a nice little document about liberal democrats...laugh

He drank four drinks in an hour on a snowy night at a bar... spewing his hatred over liberal democrats and asserting that he was a republican. He knew nothing about the electoral process, was not a registered voter, and could not state any differences between republicans and democrats. Normally I do not use politics as a dealbreaker, but all he talked about was politics, and he had no idea what he was saying!

So he got a Dear John e-mail, with attachent.

Now, I did have a guy end a four month relationship in an e-mail titled "Yo"... and that was in poor taste. We'd known each other almost two years....
Maybe he had trouble with syllables

daniel48706's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:39 AM
Overall I would say at least have the common respect and decency to tell them to their face. however, if there are issues that could cause problems doing so (like them being violent) then I can see the possibility of a note.
For example, I would have to seriously consider having a lady whos boyfriend beat the chit out of her regularly commited for insanity, lol if hse tried to break it off to his face.

Otherwise, I say have some respect, even if they are not respectful to you. Be the better person and maybe it will show them how to be one themself.

shoes4rhon's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:39 AM


I think so. I have done it, and I'm not sorry.

It was a person I met in a dating site, and we went out twice. We met by computer, it ended by computer.

I even attached a nice little document about liberal democrats...laugh

He drank four drinks in an hour on a snowy night at a bar... spewing his hatred over liberal democrats and asserting that he was a republican. He knew nothing about the electoral process, was not a registered voter, and could not state any differences between republicans and democrats. Normally I do not use politics as a dealbreaker, but all he talked about was politics, and he had no idea what he was saying!

So he got a Dear John e-mail, with attachent.

Now, I did have a guy end a four month relationship in an e-mail titled "Yo"... and that was in poor taste. We'd known each other almost two years....
Don't blame you on that one. flowerforyou drinker laugh
Lilth see you are a better person then me after 1 date I don't feel the need to explain myself or even break it off .. I just don't call and don't answer .. I am a cheese d@ck

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Tue 03/04/08 09:40 AM


Yeah, or the potential nutso.


personally...I find almost everyone is a potential nutso...pushed far enough we'll all go POSTAL


I'm talking about the people who are already almost there. They were fine for a while then something just snapped, and now they are at the point of nutso.

Peachiepoohie's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:41 AM



Yeah, or the potential nutso.


personally...I find almost everyone is a potential nutso...pushed far enough we'll all go POSTAL


I'm talking about the people who are already almost there. They were fine for a while then something just snapped, and now they are at the point of nutso.


which would be a high percentage of the people on here laugh

Peccy's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:41 AM
Wonder what the ramifications are to being a cheese d@ck?

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Tue 03/04/08 09:43 AM
1. buy a can of cheese.
2. apply cheese vigorously to the twinkie
3. act like a moron.

shoes4rhon's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:43 AM
u break up with folks at applebees but I have to have at least a few dates with them before I consider a need to explain my actions to them .. how many dates before you should do that would be a good question..

Lily0923's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:44 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5btudyWXEU0

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Tue 03/04/08 09:44 AM
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kkKen's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:44 AM

I'm surprosed no one commented on cheese d*ck...

Cheese di*ck,better than having mouse ballslaugh laugh

Peccy's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:45 AM
Edited by Peccy on Tue 03/04/08 09:47 AM
sounds kinky or perverted stuffed, can't decide which though

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Tue 03/04/08 09:46 AM
I'm not sure on the number of dates. It all depends.

Peachiepoohie's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:48 AM

1. buy a can of cheese.
2. apply cheese vigorously to the twinkie
3. act like a moron.


i'm down for the first two...but I can think of something better to do with #3

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Tue 03/04/08 09:49 AM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5btudyWXEU0



laugh