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Topic: Is It To Soon
laxviking57 Joined Wed 02/06/08 Posts: 2302	Mon 03/03/08 07:49 AM
Aight so here is the scenario there is a girl i used to work with and she just started back last week. She broke up with her b/f of 2 years the other day. And then the first day i worked with her it was obvious she wanted to go out with me(of course i'm dumb so i didn't realise it until she straight out told me) so my question is with her just getting out of a long term deal do you think i would be setting myself up for disaster if i went with it?

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 03/03/08 07:50 AM
Yep.

eskimo_nell Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 3035	Mon 03/03/08 07:51 AM
Hmmmmm!! there is a chance it could be a rebound thing it could be a disaster then again it might not. Up to you but i wouldn't not so soon after a break up.

Derek_03 Joined Wed 01/02/08 Posts: 576	Mon 03/03/08 07:51 AM
definatly...be carefull with that

MyrtleBeachDude Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 4028	Mon 03/03/08 07:54 AM
She just wants to go out. Go for it.

MollyLeandra Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 92	Mon 03/03/08 07:54 AM
Ooooh... Yeah... Eek... Don't be the rebound boy.

lastmanstanding602 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 1979	Mon 03/03/08 07:56 AM
Aight so here is the scenario there is a girl i used to work with and she just started back last week. She broke up with her b/f of 2 years the other day. And then the first day i worked with her it was obvious she wanted to go out with me(of course i'm dumb so i didn't realise it until she straight out told me) so my question is with her just getting out of a long term deal do you think i would be setting myself up for disaster if i went with it? #1 rule...Dont sleep with or date in the work place!!!!

laxviking57 Joined Wed 02/06/08 Posts: 2302	Mon 03/03/08 07:57 AM
man oh man idk.... i have personal rules about rebound and workplace and then this and it completely makes me want to go back on my rules.

lastmanstanding602 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 1979	Mon 03/03/08 07:58 AM
man oh man idk.... i have personal rules about rebound and workplace and then this and it completely makes me want to go back on my rules. Well good luck with that..I know its tempting...

Blackfox12 Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 4330	Mon 03/03/08 07:59 AM
This is the type of thing you need to feel out for Yourself and only you can do that and no one can help Go with how you feel you don't need our help It seems you have a grasps on the situation Already and you know what's going on good luck

laxviking57 Joined Wed 02/06/08 Posts: 2302	Mon 03/03/08 08:01 AM
This is the type of thing you need to feel out for Yourself and only you can do that and no one can help Go with how you feel you don't need our help It seems you have a grasps on the situation Already and you know what's going on good luck oh yeah, basically i asked but was already 90% sure of what i would do yet, i still had questions, I've been the rebound guy once and 3 years later me and that girl broke up so i have a good track record for being the rebound but idk...thanks for the input

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24709	Mon 03/03/08 08:06 AM
Hit it QUICK! Update resume!

laxviking57 Joined Wed 02/06/08 Posts: 2302	Mon 03/03/08 08:10 AM
Hit it QUICK! Update resume! yeah, that's what i'm talking bout

cnoteblack Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 691	Mon 03/03/08 08:34 AM
two years aint like twenty years go ahead man and see wats up..but bail if all she talks about is her ex...bad sign

laxviking57 Joined Wed 02/06/08 Posts: 2302	Tue 03/04/08 05:03 AM
two years aint like twenty years go ahead man and see wats up..but bail if all she talks about is her ex...bad sign yeah that is pretty much what i was thinking plus it all cool me and her are doing something this weekend...

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Tue 03/04/08 06:13 AM
Dude, get in there and take the beating and don't be surprised when it hurts. Ok, don't do it and I bet in the long run you both will be happier.