Topic: I think I scared someone away
Shaden's photo
Sun 03/02/08 06:30 PM

ummm yeah...slow down there speedy gonzalez




I agree. Write her and tell you that you weren't trying to scare her off and see if she's more comfortable in the near future. :smile:

Zipper's photo
Sun 03/02/08 06:31 PM
I like to meet fairly soon. That way I know if there is chemistry or not.

Go ahead! What is life without taking chances?

Tob77's photo
Sun 03/02/08 06:33 PM
Im not really worried about the situation, but the fact that we shared some common interest, and we live about 10 minutes from each other and are the same age. Its just hard trying to find someone close to you.

dae11x's photo
Sun 03/02/08 06:37 PM
This is all crazy. How can you get to "know someone" over the internet? Talk to the person on the phone. Meet him or her at a safe place and take it from there.

Lily0923's photo
Sun 03/02/08 06:38 PM
You gave her your # so she could use it, if she doesn't...her loss.... don't sweat it. flowerforyou

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Sun 03/02/08 06:44 PM

This is all crazy. How can you get to "know someone" over the internet? Talk to the person on the phone. Meet him or her at a safe place and take it from there.
i like this answer we are all here to meet some one ikeep getting replys but no meets.

no photo
Sun 03/02/08 06:56 PM

I have been emailing back and forth with this woman, and after about a week...I asked her if she wanted to meet and hang out sometime and gave her my phone number...but no calls or emails since then. Is one week too soon to ask someone if you share commom interst to meet that person?


a week would be to soon for me, but a man did something very bad to me, so it takes me time to trust a man. so for me, i would have to wait until i felt comfortable and be safe, and i cant put a time on that because it depends on the person.

no photo
Sun 03/02/08 06:56 PM
no way to tell unless you ask and she gives you an answer. everyone has different thoughts and approaches to this question

chris1979's photo
Sun 03/02/08 06:56 PM
meet the person ASAP, so you dont waste yours or the others time

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Sun 03/02/08 07:00 PM

meet the person ASAP, so you dont waste yours or the others time


i think for safety reasons its best to find out about that person first.

there are people who were going to meet after a while,and get to know each other first, and during that time they found out he was a drug dealer,and he had been in jail etc.

always best to get to know the person first.


LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 03/02/08 07:05 PM

I have been emailing back and forth with this woman, and after about a week...I asked her if she wanted to meet and hang out sometime and gave her my phone number...but no calls or emails since then. Is one week too soon to ask someone if you share commom interest to meet that person?

I am probably the ONLY one that feels this way but I'm gonna say it anyways..lol.I like to do the note thing for awhile..then move up to email and/or messenger..than phone..then meet..lol.I told you that I was weird.grumble

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sun 03/02/08 07:06 PM


I have been emailing back and forth with this woman, and after about a week...I asked her if she wanted to meet and hang out sometime and gave her my phone number...but no calls or emails since then. Is one week too soon to ask someone if you share commom interest to meet that person?

I am probably the ONLY one that feels this way but I'm gonna say it anyways..lol.I like to do the note thing for awhile..then move up to email and/or messenger..than phone..then meet..lol.I told you that I was weird.grumble

what a weirdo..laugh

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 03/02/08 07:08 PM



I have been emailing back and forth with this woman, and after about a week...I asked her if she wanted to meet and hang out sometime and gave her my phone number...but no calls or emails since then. Is one week too soon to ask someone if you share commom interest to meet that person?

I am probably the ONLY one that feels this way but I'm gonna say it anyways..lol.I like to do the note thing for awhile..then move up to email and/or messenger..than phone..then meet..lol.I told you that I was weird.grumble

what a weirdo..laugh

Oh you shup:tongue: laugh

chris1979's photo
Sun 03/02/08 07:10 PM
i always scare people awaysad

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 03/02/08 07:11 PM

i always scare people awaysad

So do I..and I don't care anymore..lol

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Sun 03/02/08 07:12 PM
Slow down there skippy, these are online relationships...spend sometime to get to know each other better.

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 03/02/08 07:13 PM
Edited by LadyOfMagic on Sun 03/02/08 07:16 PM

Slow down there skippy, these are online relationships...spend sometime to get to know each other better.

I agree..I think you can learn quite abit about a person online just by talking to them..If a person is a nut or just not looking for what you are looking for..you can get that much out of them online..why bother meeting them?

chevylover1965's photo
Sun 03/02/08 07:16 PM


Slow down there skippy, these are online relationships...spend sometime to get to know each other better.

I agree
i agree too ! im still talking on the phone and e-mail to my sweetie ! and i enjoy each and every one of them , we are still trying to get to know each other better !

longhairbiker's photo
Sun 03/02/08 07:18 PM
Um, she sold your phone number. The solicitation phone calls should start this week. Storm gutters. Windows. Life insurance. Driveway sealing. Seattle suttons healthy eating and home delivery. Roofing contractors. Cable tv installation. Predatory home loan vendors. Internet service providers. Interior decorators. Stanley steamer carpet cleaner. Etc. Etc. Etc........

dcrdnk's photo
Sun 03/02/08 07:18 PM
I always let the ladies make that move.

WOMEN always know what time ir is!!!

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