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(((Jim))) You are a very wise man It's definetley getting old. I think some of you are missing the point... I get it that this behavior is wrong. So what do I do in the meantime? Divorced folks-- how long does it take? Right there is part of your problem Your "expecting" a time frame or looking for one. Everyone is different, you need to get a hold of what you want. What are your goals? Until you are happy and content in yourself, it will never happen  Thank you BG!
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It's definetley getting old. I think some of you are missing the point... I get it that this behavior is wrong. So what do I do in the meantime? Divorced folks-- how long does it take? |
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What do you mean... what do you do in the meantime? Live your life. Stop sleeping around. If you know it's wrong... stop. Why do you have to date? Aren't you happy with yourself... being alone does not mean being lonely. If you feel lonely... that is an issue you need to resolve before you have any business dating.
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This has been bothering me, so I need some opinions... Since my divorce I've dated about six or seven women (I was divorced last December, 2006). I always start these relationships with good intentions. The problem is that almost immediatley after I have sex with a woman, I lose interest in them, to the point that I don't want to speak to them. I am never a **** about breaking it off, in fact, I've stayed friends with several of them. I just don't understand it. Regardless of whether the sex is incredible, or mediocre, the results are the same. A friend of mine said that I'm addicted to the chase, and when the chase is over (usually no more than two or three dates), it's on to the next conquest. I think I'm just not meeting a woman who is "sweeping me off my feet". Do any of you experience this? Is it a phase of divorce (I'm still A LITTLE hung up on my wife, mostly jealousy)? I am not an ass hole, and not proud of these CONQUESTS, as many people would put it. Opinions? Maybe it's some kind of phase..after my "D" I dated quite a few differant guys and weather it was intimate or not, one little thingy would set me off and I lost all interest.I called it my mad dating phase! You are young, as long as you are not hurting (using) anyone and you are being careful (dangerous world to be permiscuios in)....you will find something or someone that you really want. |
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You are pretty wise too (except for the first remark)
Start having sex on the first date and then the women who hold out until date #3 will seem like keepers. Actually, don't do that. 
You just haven't found the right one yet. It might be prudent to not have sex with women whom you don't intend to engage in a relationship unless they know this is your intention prior to the "mounting." We all know in our heart whether someone is "built" for us or not. I'd wager that you knew exactly what you were doing and went through with the sex anyway. It's an adjustment but you can do it brother. good luck man |
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This has been bothering me, so I need some opinions... Since my divorce I've dated about six or seven women (I was divorced last December, 2006). I always start these relationships with good intentions. The problem is that almost immediatley after I have sex with a woman, I lose interest in them, to the point that I don't want to speak to them. I am never a **** about breaking it off, in fact, I've stayed friends with several of them. I just don't understand it. Regardless of whether the sex is incredible, or mediocre, the results are the same. A friend of mine said that I'm addicted to the chase, and when the chase is over (usually no more than two or three dates), it's on to the next conquest. I think I'm just not meeting a woman who is "sweeping me off my feet". Do any of you experience this? Is it a phase of divorce (I'm still A LITTLE hung up on my wife, mostly jealousy)? I am not an ass hole, and not proud of these CONQUESTS, as many people would put it. Opinions? Hello .. you are into the hunt. How hard is this? Once you conquer you move on. From everything I know this isn't unusual. When you actually get to the point where you care about THAT woman (not just more notches to severe the past pain) then it'll change up. Honestly I think that's something YOU have to answer, not us. It's different with everyone. |
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Welcome love and oh by the way, any stalkers lately
 (((Jim))) You are a very wise man It's definetley getting old. I think some of you are missing the point... I get it that this behavior is wrong. So what do I do in the meantime? Divorced folks-- how long does it take? Right there is part of your problem Your "expecting" a time frame or looking for one. Everyone is different, you need to get a hold of what you want. What are your goals? Until you are happy and content in yourself, it will never happen Thank you BG!
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Welcome love and oh by the way, any stalkers lately (((Jim))) You are a very wise man It's definetley getting old. I think some of you are missing the point... I get it that this behavior is wrong. So what do I do in the meantime? Divorced folks-- how long does it take? Right there is part of your problem Your "expecting" a time frame or looking for one. Everyone is different, you need to get a hold of what you want. What are your goals? Until you are happy and content in yourself, it will never happen Thank you BG!
No, I think I weeded them all out 
There is this one that emails me every morning
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Edited by
bad_girl
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Sun 03/02/08 07:10 AM
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Now see that pic will get you lots of stalkers love
 (((Jim))) You are a very wise man It's definetley getting old. I think some of you are missing the point... I get it that this behavior is wrong. So what do I do in the meantime? Divorced folks-- how long does it take? Right there is part of your problem Your "expecting" a time frame or looking for one. Everyone is different, you need to get a hold of what you want. What are your goals? Until you are happy and content in yourself, it will never happen Thank you BG!
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What do you mean... what do you do in the meantime? Live your life. Stop sleeping around. If you know it's wrong... stop. Why do you have to date? Aren't you happy with yourself... being alone does not mean being lonely. If you feel lonely... that is an issue you need to resolve before you have any business dating. Hey lil !!
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Well, close your curtains and she might leave you alone, you think
Welcome love and oh by the way, any stalkers lately (((Jim))) You are a very wise man It's definetley getting old. I think some of you are missing the point... I get it that this behavior is wrong. So what do I do in the meantime? Divorced folks-- how long does it take? Right there is part of your problem Your "expecting" a time frame or looking for one. Everyone is different, you need to get a hold of what you want. What are your goals? Until you are happy and content in yourself, it will never happen Thank you BG!
No, I think I weeded them all out
There is this one that emails me every morning
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Now see that pic will get you lots of stalkers love (((Jim))) You are a very wise man It's definetley getting old. I think some of you are missing the point... I get it that this behavior is wrong. So what do I do in the meantime? Divorced folks-- how long does it take? Right there is part of your problem Your "expecting" a time frame or looking for one. Everyone is different, you need to get a hold of what you want. What are your goals? Until you are happy and content in yourself, it will never happen Thank you BG!
You think so? I did notice my view count hasnt been as active lately with the ANgel's note, let's see if it picks back up again
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Good morning, Jim.
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Yes it the view count will change
but the note was mysterious Now see that pic will get you lots of stalkers love (((Jim))) You are a very wise man It's definetley getting old. I think some of you are missing the point... I get it that this behavior is wrong. So what do I do in the meantime? Divorced folks-- how long does it take? Right there is part of your problem Your "expecting" a time frame or looking for one. Everyone is different, you need to get a hold of what you want. What are your goals? Until you are happy and content in yourself, it will never happen Thank you BG!
You think so? I did notice my view count hasnt been as active lately with the ANgel's note, let's see if it picks back up again
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It's definetley getting old. I think some of you are missing the point... I get it that this behavior is wrong. So what do I do in the meantime? Divorced folks-- how long does it take? Well, I've been divorced since 1996...I still can't give you any advice...I do know that it was 2 yrs. after my divorce before I had sex with anybody... |
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No your not a scumbag but these woman didnt have to go to bed with you either. Just go out with friends and enjoy yourself. Divorce sucks. My brother is going thru one too, we take him out instead of him staying home and depressed...Good luck
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Sun 03/02/08 07:24 AM
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paging Dr. Phil...please come to the Ho-bag thread..
PAGING DR. PHIL!!!
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The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.....
When are you going to step up and be the hero of your own life? How's that working for you? You cannot change what you don't acknowledge... You got to be honest with yourself... |
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How long does it take? I've been divorced 2 years and I'm still pretty much where you are. Honestly I think for me it truly is because no one I've dated has been really right for me. Of course it seems the ones I think have a chance are always the ones that decide we're incompatible for one reason or another.
I think it's just the natural process of dating. I mean you're not going to truly "hit it off" with everyone you date. And you at least have to get around to the sex before any decisions are made anyway. I don't want to go falling for someone who doesn't satisfy me, so for me all bets are off until after that anyway. It seems to me like you're right where you should be. Either that, or we're both really messed up. :) |
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It's definetley getting old. I think some of you are missing the point... I get it that this behavior is wrong. So what do I do in the meantime? Divorced folks-- how long does it take? the divore part I can help ya with,about 2 years..to really start moving on if you truely face all your emotions.. |
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