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Topic: How do you find the right one?
pkh Joined Sat 05/26/07 Posts: 14961	Fri 02/29/08 07:06 PM
honesty,sense of humor(got to be able to laugh together)confidence,communication

hunter870 Joined Fri 01/26/07 Posts: 772	Fri 02/29/08 07:07 PM
You have to take your time, get to know someone, be honest & communication is key Pats hit the nail on the head If you dont have those 2 you dont have anything at all

werewolf_by_night_1 Joined Wed 12/26/07 Posts: 1667	Fri 02/29/08 07:08 PM
if they look good... haha jk i'm not that shallow

danielle08 Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 219	Fri 02/29/08 07:10 PM
i totally agree with you danielle. I think i just rush sometimes and then get into not knowing what you actually getting into. i pay attention to key words and feelings from both ends. hard to find the right one.... but i feel as if i am just going to do my own thing and love will find me. you seem smart and you are pretty the right one will find you trust your instincts

StarryEyes88 Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 615	Fri 02/29/08 07:12 PM
thanks so much.... not rushing... i have a child that comes first.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 03/01/08 01:49 PM
honesty, sense of humour, cooking skills and great sex!!! Not necessarily in that order.......did I say great sex???

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 03/01/08 01:50 PM
honesty, sense of humour, cooking skills and great sex!!! Not necessarily in that order.......did I say great sex??? WHY do you ALWAYS think just like me,,,,lol,lol

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 03/01/08 01:51 PM Edited by Gypsy41 on Sat 03/01/08 01:52 PM
I can read your mind!!!

ladyliz1417 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 51463	Sat 03/01/08 01:51 PM
Whether or not they're gonna smack me upside the head with a skillet. someone just might

FireOfThePhoenix Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 14098	Sat 03/01/08 01:52 PM
Someone who can thumb wrestle

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 03/01/08 01:54 PM
I can read your mind!!! OMG,,,,Then YOU know...... How I REALLY feel about you..... im in trouble...

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 03/01/08 01:56 PM


TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Sat 03/01/08 04:44 PM
What do you look for in a relationship?? What makes you want to leave or stay with that person?? I like the first part of this post. How do you find the right one. "You don't" I look at things if i'm ment to meet someone that i'm to be with, then it will happen. I find it more so why i leave more then stay because most that i've run into have no idea what they want out of life. When i find someone that knows kinda where there going in life and what there looking for and will be honest with themselvs on all this. Thats when ill know ill stay.

BlueskyJ Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 2927	Sat 03/01/08 05:38 PM
What do you look for in a relationship?? What makes you want to leave or stay with that person?? I look for a certain comfort level first...if i'm feeling at ease that's a good start...if we are laughing and having fun its moving in the right direction...if we are looking forward to talking with each other & planning when to see each other next that is another good sign...if we touch each other, not sexually...i mean such as holding hands or arms around each other, or a simple touch of the arm, then we are connecting more intimately... I like to take it slow and give a little at a time...then there is something to look forward to the next time we meet...and finally i like to let her know that she is special...whether its a complement on her looks, or her dress or bringing a gift of flowers, or something i've found she enjoys...if she reciprocates i know we are developing something that is ours...

ladyliz1417 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 51463	Sat 03/01/08 05:40 PM
What do you look for in a relationship?? What makes you want to leave or stay with that person?? I look for a certain comfort level first...if i'm feeling at ease that's a good start...if we are laughing and having fun its moving in the right direction...if we are looking forward to talking with each other & planning when to see each other next that is another good sign...if we touch each other, not sexually...i mean such as holding hands or arms around each other, or a simple touch of the arm, then we are connecting more intimately... I like to take it slow and give a little at a time...then there is something to look forward to the next time we meet...and finally i like to let her know that she is special...whether its a complement on her looks, or her dress or bringing a gift of flowers, or something i've found she enjoys...if she reciprocates i know we are developing something that is ours... Dang! U always say the best things!

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Sat 03/01/08 05:48 PM Edited by Jess642 on Sat 03/01/08 05:49 PM
I dont look for relationships... they happen all by themselves..however I do have a desire to maintain the relationships I have... with my children, my friends, my co workers, and the people in my community. We create this whole stigma of what a romantic relationship is supposed to look like, with all these rules, and expectations, and obligations...until what it originally looked like, is a non existing entity. Crazy stuff...! When there is nothing to be achieved, when there is no growth within a relationship, it's done... I'm out.. Relationships are fluid, and they are ever changing...they ebb and flow... if not, then they are just a stagnant pond...blech! Not very appealing, nor sustainable. I dont subscribe to the 'joined at the hip for ever and ever' amen, kind of relationships... they have no time frame to be anything... they just are what ever they are, until they aren't anymore... no expectations, no disappointments.