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I known this chick for like 7 yrs and we were good friends but I have not seen her in a year and all a sudden she appears and ask me to be her man..So I said yes, it just seem like right at the moment but now I regret it!I love being single...I try to tell her today that I don't trust myself to be faithful but then I started feeling bad and it didn't work, so we are still together..I don't know what to do ,well actually I do but its hard how do I break it off with her and still be good friends
Help me! |
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I would be puking too lol
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The sooner you end it the better. You gotta do whats right for you.
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just tell next
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the truth is the best policy .. tell her what you told us you feel like you rushed into this and don't want to hurt anyone .. that after 7 years you don't really still know each other ..
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Its not possible unless its mutual...... Youll be friends again mabe but not as close as you were...... Ahhh the word girlfriend can do so much damage.... Good luck man
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Be a man.
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The best thing you can do is go with your heart & be honest with her....
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Be Honest with her, if she truly cares about you she will want you to be happy. |
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I know honesty is the best bet....This sucks.
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honesty is always best
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.........LIKE MOST WOMEN WILL TELL YOU, BE HONEST, IF YOU REALLY ARE/WERE AND WANT TO BE HER FRIEND ITS THE ONLY WAY TO BOW OUT W/UR AND HER DIGNITY IN TACT.....MR THINK ABOUT UR SELF HAS SOME LONLEY DAYS AND NIGHTS IN HIS FUTURE....I'VE BEEN A SINGLE MOM 31 YRS, I HAVE A 31YR OLD AND 21 YR OLD SON, ONES A LIAR AND IN PRISON...THE OTHER WORKS FOR UPS AND IS ENGAGED (HIS IDEA) TO A BEAUTIFUL 17 1/2 YR OLDKARMA IS REAL !
~WICKED~ |
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Edited by
gaijingirl
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Tue 02/26/08 11:53 PM
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Contrary to what many men believe, a woman does not want to be lied to about her fellow's feelings. Suck it up and cut her loose...then you can both find people you want to be with and wish to be with you.
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Tell her your not ready to settle down........
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I think I might want the pie!!
Oh umm, nope, that was great, but umm... no, I might want a different pie.... so umm I can't be having sex with you anymore, cause I don't want your pie anymore... What can you learn from this? Don't jump at the first pie that leaps off the shelf at you... Or you may end up bent over the bowl... It's not rocket science, just tell her, you're an idiot, who got greedy.. |
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i DONT think I will ever eat pie again!!!
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oh CMON you never ordered the wrong pie before?!
give the guy a break. he can still be friends with his first pie! |
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Me thinks it wasnt his first pie!!!
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I known this chick for like 7 yrs and we were good friends but I have not seen her in a year and all a sudden she appears and ask me to be her man..So I said yes, it just seem like right at the moment but now I regret it!I love being single...I try to tell her today that I don't trust myself to be faithful but then I started feeling bad and it didn't work, so we are still together..I don't know what to do ,well actually I do but its hard how do I break it off with her and still be good friends Help me! Just tell her you like being single. Worse that could happen is she not wanting to be your friend for a while. *shrugs* Then go party with your friends. |
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Tell her that you like her, and value her companionship, but that you're used to being single. Tell her that you'd like to step it back down a bit, maybe do some things with a big group of others, and just chill and talk, and then see where it goes. Just keep it mostly friendly for a bit. If you find that you still don't want to be in a relationship then, tell her so.
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