Topic: 19 and 41
hikerchick's photo
Thu 02/21/08 10:45 PM


well, yeah, but you could help decipher IRC.


More income tax problems?



I am an international tax accountant. I'm taking a graduate class called "Taxation of US Persons with International Transactions" Sexy!!!

I have to read about 500 pages of code and regs and text each week. I wanted Jace to paraphrase it and type it up for me.
flowerforyou

Shaden's photo
Thu 02/21/08 10:47 PM
I got jumped on some when I got tired of super young guys hitting up on me and not politely at that. (By the way I didn't have the baby pic. displayed) My parents were 12 years apart, but 19 and 41 seems a stretch, just my opinion.

hikerchick's photo
Thu 02/21/08 10:51 PM
It is clearly a stretch, I just don't think it's creepy or disgusting.

donniejones78's photo
Thu 02/21/08 10:53 PM



what do yall think of a 19 year old girl and a 41 year old guy having a relationship?




you do what you wanna do.

if you like him..go for it.

lol..my parents are 18 years apart

as long as you guys can hold a convo and you have somethings in common

i mean..look at ashton and demi

(lol im a dork)


but i say its fine..no biggie




You have very valid points but I think it should be a few years after 19 we know very little then compared to later...

I agree he's had his whole life to have relationships, but she's not even experienced the joy of life yet

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 02/21/08 10:56 PM




what do yall think of a 19 year old girl and a 41 year old guy having a relationship?




you do what you wanna do.

if you like him..go for it.

lol..my parents are 18 years apart

as long as you guys can hold a convo and you have somethings in common

i mean..look at ashton and demi

(lol im a dork)


but i say its fine..no biggie




You have very valid points but I think it should be a few years after 19 we know very little then compared to later...

I agree he's had his whole life to have relationships, but she's not even experienced the joy of life yet


thank you... not even a clue.. If I only knew then what I know now...

donniejones78's photo
Thu 02/21/08 10:58 PM





what do yall think of a 19 year old girl and a 41 year old guy having a relationship?




you do what you wanna do.

if you like him..go for it.

lol..my parents are 18 years apart

as long as you guys can hold a convo and you have somethings in common

i mean..look at ashton and demi

(lol im a dork)


but i say its fine..no biggie




You have very valid points but I think it should be a few years after 19 we know very little then compared to later...

I agree he's had his whole life to have relationships, but she's not even experienced the joy of life yet


thank you... not even a clue.. If I only knew then what I know now...

it's cool had that situation when I was 17, she was42, thought it was cool then but really wasn't

JaceKnows's photo
Thu 02/21/08 10:58 PM



well, yeah, but you could help decipher IRC.


More income tax problems?



I am an international tax accountant. I'm taking a graduate class called "Taxation of US Persons with International Transactions" Sexy!!!

I have to read about 500 pages of code and regs and text each week. I wanted Jace to paraphrase it and type it up for me.
flowerforyou


I think I saw "Jace" and "sexy" in the same posting! Whooooo! Score one for paraphrasing dorks everywhere!

hikerchick's photo
Thu 02/21/08 10:59 PM





what do yall think of a 19 year old girl and a 41 year old guy having a relationship?




you do what you wanna do.

if you like him..go for it.

lol..my parents are 18 years apart

as long as you guys can hold a convo and you have somethings in common

i mean..look at ashton and demi

(lol im a dork)


but i say its fine..no biggie




You have very valid points but I think it should be a few years after 19 we know very little then compared to later...

I agree he's had his whole life to have relationships, but she's not even experienced the joy of life yet


thank you... not even a clue.. If I only knew then what I know now...


that's true but you will say the same thing in 10 years..watch!! I know whatof I speak. :wink:

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 02/21/08 10:59 PM
I just don't get it...

hikerchick's photo
Thu 02/21/08 11:00 PM




well, yeah, but you could help decipher IRC.


More income tax problems?



I am an international tax accountant. I'm taking a graduate class called "Taxation of US Persons with International Transactions" Sexy!!!

I have to read about 500 pages of code and regs and text each week. I wanted Jace to paraphrase it and type it up for me.
flowerforyou


I think I saw "Jace" and "sexy" in the same posting! Whooooo! Score one for paraphrasing dorks everywhere!


Come on, Jace, you know you rocked my world one night last week.

hikerchick's photo
Thu 02/21/08 11:00 PM

I just don't get it...


I don't get it either ..at least, not recently.

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 02/21/08 11:01 PM


I just don't get it...


I don't get it either ..at least, not recently.


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Thu 02/21/08 11:01 PM

It is clearly a stretch, I just don't think it's creepy or disgusting.


I have to agree -- everybody's priorities and standards are different. To me, age is a number. All it means is how many times you've ridden the planet around the sun. People say, "Oh, but there's a correlation between age and maturity!" There is? Where? I haven't seen it. It's a specious argument at best. To me, excluding someone because of age makes just as much sense as excluding them because of their shoe size or eye color or the number of ice cubes in their freezer.

Everybody has the right to determine their own standards. But just know that you might be missing out on someone really great, simply by making up arbitrary reasons to exclude people. Hey, I get hassled all the time because of my own self-imposed rules, but that's OK. I've figured out what works for me and what doesn't. So, while I don't understand why anyone would make an issue about age, it doesn't really bother me when they do. That's just a priority for them.

Shaden's photo
Thu 02/21/08 11:02 PM
Edited by Shaden on Thu 02/21/08 11:06 PM
I hear ya there. That I clearly understand. sad laugh

That was in reference to hikerchick's post.

lonelyshorty's photo
Thu 02/21/08 11:04 PM


It is clearly a stretch, I just don't think it's creepy or disgusting.


I have to agree -- everybody's priorities and standards are different. To me, age is a number. All it means is how many times you've ridden the planet around the sun. People say, "Oh, but there's a correlation between age and maturity!" There is? Where? I haven't seen it. It's a specious argument at best. To me, excluding someone because of age makes just as much sense as excluding them because of their shoe size or eye color or the number of ice cubes in their freezer.

Everybody has the right to determine their own standards. But just know that you might be missing out on someone really great, simply by making up arbitrary reasons to exclude people. Hey, I get hassled all the time because of my own self-imposed rules, but that's OK. I've figured out what works for me and what doesn't. So, while I don't understand why anyone would make an issue about age, it doesn't really bother me when they do. That's just a priority for them.



I hear ya Lex. The guy I'm talking to is 30 and I'm 20. Its not really an issue for us. I personally am more mature than most 20 year olds now a days.

no photo
Fri 02/22/08 06:14 AM
I think it is too wide an age difference for someone of 19 years of age.

DanielleChristina's photo
Fri 02/22/08 06:49 AM
as a 19 year old girl, i would like to say im not a fan. I think that 23 is pushing it myself! but then again im kinda shy lol

robinlynn42's photo
Fri 02/22/08 09:43 AM
i am 42 and he was 18 and learning together was a goal.

of course we were going to take on the alternative lifestyle.

but it is up to the individuals. and yes it helps alot if u can

carry on a coversation.and u can learn to like things together

and u do need some things for urself.but the heart needs to be

there as well.:heart: :heart:

celticpride0280's photo
Fri 02/22/08 10:00 AM


what do yall think of a 19 year old girl and a 41 year old guy having a relationship?




you do what you wanna do.

if you like him..go for it.

lol..my parents are 18 years apart

as long as you guys can hold a convo and you have somethings in common

i mean..look at ashton and demi

(lol im a dork)


but i say its fine..no biggie





So theres hopes for us??bigsmile drinker flowerforyou

celticpride0280's photo
Fri 02/22/08 10:02 AM

i am 42 and he was 18 and learning together was a goal.

of course we were going to take on the alternative lifestyle.

but it is up to the individuals. and yes it helps alot if u can

carry on a coversation.and u can learn to like things together

and u do need some things for urself.but the heart needs to be

there as well.:heart: :heart:


I threw up in my mouth a lil....frown