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nazland Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 173	Wed 02/20/08 11:49 AM
ok let me know what you all think me and my girl was togather for 4yrs it was great but 1 day she just said she was done she wanted to be free and 23 and party she was never like that befor.. any one els have this happen to them ??

soxfan94 Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 3384	Wed 02/20/08 11:49 AM
yep. can't explain it, though, if that's what you were hoping for. I'm still waiting for someone to explain it to me.

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Wed 02/20/08 11:51 AM
well some times people just fall out of love .. or they don't realize that love takes work and effort .. they mistake infatuation with love and when all those little warm romantic feelings fade they assume they don't have feelings anymore .. Let her go .. If you love something set it free....

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 02/20/08 11:52 AM
ok let me know what you all think me and my girl was togather for 4yrs it was great but 1 day she just said she was done she wanted to be free and 23 and party she was never like that befor.. any one els have this happen to them ?? Yeah my ex wife, hm I guess it depends on what you mean by party because my ex was in to getting high the last year i was with her

MyrtleBeachDude Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 4028	Wed 02/20/08 11:55 AM
Yep I met this 23 year old hotty a few weeks ago and she was sad and depressed because she was in a 4 year relationship and bored out of her mind. I told her she needed to leave that guy and PARTY and.....oops never mind, sorry man some women are just like that I suppose.

beccalee1980 Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 2129	Wed 02/20/08 11:55 AM
my ex-husband pulled the same crap..all of the sudden, one day, he didn't want to be married anymore..he told me he wanted to see if the grass was greener and that he didn't give a damn what i thought...that was the same day i left him, and i have never looked back..it will get better, i promise. just give it time... Becca

nazland Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 173	Wed 02/20/08 11:57 AM
ok let me know what you all think me and my girl was togather for 4yrs it was great but 1 day she just said she was done she wanted to be free and 23 and party she was never like that befor.. any one els have this happen to them ?? Yeah my ex wife, hm I guess it depends on what you mean by party because my ex was in to getting high the last year i was with her well it was more like i just want to hang out with my girls and maby down the road we will hook back up... we where getting marred and every thing..it just hit me never seen it coming

nazland Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 173	Wed 02/20/08 11:57 AM
Yep I met this 23 year old hotty a few weeks ago and she was sad and depressed because she was in a 4 year relationship and bored out of her mind. I told her she needed to leave that guy and PARTY and.....oops never mind, sorry man some women are just like that I suppose. lmao

soxfan94 Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 3384	Wed 02/20/08 12:07 PM
well some times people just fall out of love .. or they don't realize that love takes work and effort .. they mistake infatuation with love and when all those little warm romantic feelings fade they assume they don't have feelings anymore .. Let her go .. If you love something set it free.... LOL 4 years is a LONG time to be infatuated!

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 02/20/08 12:12 PM
ok let me know what you all think me and my girl was togather for 4yrs it was great but 1 day she just said she was done she wanted to be free and 23 and party she was never like that befor.. any one els have this happen to them ?? Yeah my ex wife, hm I guess it depends on what you mean by party because my ex was in to getting high the last year i was with her well it was more like i just want to hang out with my girls and maby down the road we will hook back up... we where getting marred and every thing..it just hit me never seen it coming Sorry to say this, but the maybe we will hook back up, is a lost cause. she just wants to explore. Sorry this is happening and I know the feeling....

MyrtleBeachDude Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 4028	Wed 02/20/08 12:19 PM
As the saying goes, If women didn't have breasts and a virgina there would be a damn bounty on em!

nazland Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 173	Wed 02/20/08 12:19 PM
well some times people just fall out of love .. or they don't realize that love takes work and effort .. they mistake infatuation with love and when all those little warm romantic feelings fade they assume they don't have feelings anymore .. Let her go .. If you love something set it free.... LOL 4 years is a LONG time to be infatuated! lol

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 02/20/08 12:22 PM
ok let me know what you all think me and my girl was togather for 4yrs it was great but 1 day she just said she was done she wanted to be free and 23 and party she was never like that befor.. any one els have this happen to them ?? i DID this to my bf when I was uhhhhhhhh 21??? I needed to date other people.....too young...wanted to party.....I wasnt ready for marriage.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Wed 02/20/08 12:37 PM
I don't think it's a big shock to have a 23 yr old feel that way. She began to realize the big bad world out there was hers for the taking. So ..... she took. Sucks for you though ..

nazland Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 173	Wed 02/20/08 12:41 PM
I don't think it's a big shock to have a 23 yr old feel that way. She began to realize the big bad world out there was hers for the taking. So ..... she took. Sucks for you though .. yea it dose

Nox_Arcana Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 37	Wed 02/20/08 08:59 PM
As the saying goes, If women didn't have breasts and a virgina there would be a damn bounty on em! What a funny saying.