*bites Ontairo*

Im just me, but its everyday, always and if there would be something a
-miss, that expression of love that I shared would
show there was something UP....
I never trully feel a joining of another, except when making love, my
love is there in small words off and on each day,
but through jobs and juggling time for each other, like us all here in
life, when the chance did come to bond, it would lift
the hurried ness of the days events, and just make peace with
with a true relaxing feeling and the COMPLETE PACKAGE, THAT
BEING IN LOVE BRINGS!!!!!

Geeeeeeeeezzsh!!!
this all sounds like my mom and step dad,,,she is in La.
and he is in Utah,,,the marrage is only business at this point,but they
are still married by law...

could not do a "Sexless Marrage"...for long,
I'd be wanting to find out wtf???

within th first week!!!

no sex???

WTF???

Thanks (T)....I,ll do better next time....!

Sorry S&M, I disagree. For me I view sex as more of an Indicator of if
things are going well not as a means of communication (damn I wish I was
that shallow)...lmao

you do fine Ontario

I think that feelings can and are conveyed through sex. True emotional
depth that sustains relationships require a wide array of communication.
Lack of sex is lack of intimacy on an emotional level. Sex is certainly
an indicator of the health of an intimate relationship but there is alot
more being exchanged between two people besides bodily fluids when done
right

Thats what I said....which is why my woman won,t be wearing clothers
around the house.....!

I hate when a guy's profile list I'll tell you later for that's your
warning to stay away however these the guy's alawys want to pick on me
why is that LOL

Pick on you...how.....what happened...?

yeah who is picking on ya???

Hey Tneal...!

What happen is I try to stay away from the unvolvable men but they keep
knocking at my door LOL This is my problem ontario

oh......real guys, not cyber guys.......?

I can deal with the cyber guy but these are real married and involved
guys who want more then just chatting and is welling to risk it I can't
do that!!! But they still want me LOL

i think it depends on the person that wants it more and if they are
willing to deal with it to keep a good relationship.
i don't think it is a problem unless they are thinking of the lack of
sex more than the relationship

I see what you mean for it's not all about sex but the nagging they get
from their partners and then I feel like Dr Ruth some time LOL

Hey another thing I didnt read on here was that maybe it was a sexless marriage due to boredom. Spice things up a bit. (Oh and for the guy that said that men can "take care of themselves".. women can too) and hey maybe thats something the partner would like to watch (or not). Try things in a different room, try fantasies try .... just about anything...if the love is there eventually things will pick up.

From my own personal experience; Little by little and gradually over time you just simply get replaced. Eventually on a list of a partner you find that you just keep slipping farther down the list till it gets to the point that you start looking for the index in the big set of enclyclopodia that you think you might be in.