OK this may make me sound stalkerish, but really it is not meant to.

OK so my boyfriend moved to another city this pass week. He is planning on moving with his best friend. His friend is due to follow at the beginning of April. I want to throw a going away party for him. Inviting all of his friends that he has introduced me to. Including that one he is moving with. I have been over to his place a couple of times and have noticed his e-mail address on his wall above his computer. Now here is the part that sounds stalkerish. Do you think it would be appropriate to e-mail him even though he has never actually given me his e-mail address? It is the only way I know how to get a hold of him. I just sorta want to show my boyfriend, that no matter what I will be right here supporting his every move. So do you think it is right to contact his friend? I think under the circumstances he would understand. But do not want to act like I am intruding in. So please throw me some advice?

Ask him if its alright to e mail him cute notes. I'm semi anal.

it is not stalkerish if you tell him in the email how you got it and why you got it

That is just the thing, I do not want to ask my boyfriend. As I want it to be a surprise.

I'd ask for it. If you just sent him an e-mail, he would wonder where you got it. Then, he will wonder what other stuff you snooped around in. Don't let him think that. Just ask for the e-mail.

why wouldnt he give it to u in the 1st place??

I think it would be ok to invite all his friends and just tell them it is a suprise going away party for him. As long as it is people that he has already told that he was leaving...also about the email thing...I agree I think you should ask him for his email and ask him if it is ok to email him

I THINK YOU SHOULD EMAIL HIM IT WILL SHOW HIM HOW MUCH YOU CARE AND ALSO SHOW HIM HOW MUCH YOU ARE THERE FOR HIM IT JUST SHOWS YOU CARE

Not my boyfriend, my boyfriends friend. Why would he give it to me in the first place?

Just explain it in the e-mail, it should be fine.

I can't ask him. As I only talk to him when my boyfriend is there. So there is no chance for me to be able to ask him for it. And even if I could ask him for it. Then I could also just invite him in person....lol.

Thanks all for your advice.

i agree with this lady ,its not nice to be nosey if he wanted you to use that address he,d give it to you

Holy cram! I thought you were talking about the boyfriend too. Confusing...well, in that case, I guess it shouldn't hurt to e-mail him. I don't think that should be a problem.

I think he is going to FLIP OUT! DON'T DO IT!

Do you really think he is going to flip or did you just wanted an excuse to use the devil emoticon?....lol

Stalker Alert!

Are you sure it was HIS email he had posted on the wall? Maybe it's just my anal nature but (especially these days) who has to write down their email address so they can remember it?

this may sound a bit harsh but nevertheless its my opinion..
when i'm in love, my lady friend is always on my mind.. good thoughts of course. now if your boyfriend didnot see fit to make sure that you have all the possible ways to contact him when he is gone..this email address being of vital importance then the relationship is not as strong as you want it to be.

in other words, its very important to you but not so important to him. why should you have to sneek and peek or accidently obtain the address ? its the same like a girl telling me i'll call you, but she has no intent to do so.

i'll say heck with it life is too short move on.

I really think he will FLIP OUT! He may never trust you again and feel that his personal space was violated.

Yea I am pretty sure that it is his address. I mean His name is Will and he is from Egypt. Both which are in the address.