Topic: Please Help Me!!
GuideHenri's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:09 PM

Who could have guessed there would be so many self-righteous prigs on an encounter site?

s1owhand's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:09 PM
Hey don't let it all get to you. Everybody makes mistakes.
So you kissed somebody so what big deal. Now, if you really
care for your boyfriend, then just be with him and forget
the slip of the lip and move on. You don't have to make any
big deal out of it. One kiss does not a relationship make nor should it break.

Now, on the other hand, if you are having real feelings for
someone else then you may need to evaluate what is wrong
with your relationship and work it out.

Best of luck to you. All joking aside.

Shananigans19's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:09 PM
Well thank you all!!!!

KennethP5206's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:10 PM

Okay will all the perfect people please raise your hand?all the ones who have never made mistakes in a relationship please stand up?Exactly.So get off your high horses before you get a nosebleed. Me I have forgiven a lot of things the least of them a stray kiss on another's lips.I have screwed up things also and needed forgiveness.


Yes and thats probably why your single, I would never cheat on someone else, and I never have , and the thought would never even cross my mind to kiss someone else while in a relationship...some people do care about their relationship, some don't

Once a cheater always a cheater :angry:

iceprincess's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:10 PM


OMG the kid is 19 lighten up on her who in this "room" hasn;t done something stupid better yet who over the age of 25 in this room hasn't done something worse

I have never cheated or kissed another girl while having a girlfriend! You owe it to the person to break with them before cheating or looking for a new b/f or g/f period!


well we are proud of you then since you are much closer to "god" in your perfection i suppose you have the right to throw stones...........i for one do not and will tell you some sins are better off never confessed as they do not help the situation if fact they make it much worse..........i am speaking from personal experience if the kid isn't going any further with the "kiss" keep her mouth shut if she feels she wants to or might then break it off either way keep her mouth shut.....what is it gonna gain her BF to tell...........

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:10 PM




Well thanks everyone who was actually helpful!... I've heard enough!


Shananigans19

Who was the most helpful, the ones being truthful and telling you that you stepped over the line and how wrong you were for kissing another guy other than your boyfriend, or the ones telling you it was ok that you should keep both boyfriends?

Once a cheater always a cheater :angry:


we didn't say keep both we said if it was just a kiss then drop it if more tell........either way decide




Kissing someone else is still wrong..it is still cheating

Once a cheater always a cheater :angry:

kissing is not cheating.Sex is.also we are talking teenager here so a wee bit less life experience.i think we can give opinions without attacking people based on our own personal bitterness.

Winx's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:11 PM

kissing is not cheating .if you love your boyfriend you will tell him as your relationship should be based on honesty not secrets.
He may get upset but in the end he will appreciate your honesty.
Tell the other guy you are in a committed relationship ,the kiss was a momentary lapse of judgment on your part and then don't see him again.


To me - it is a form of cheating.

But...I agree with the rest. She is young and learning.

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:12 PM


Okay will all the perfect people please raise your hand?all the ones who have never made mistakes in a relationship please stand up?Exactly.So get off your high horses before you get a nosebleed. Me I have forgiven a lot of things the least of them a stray kiss on another's lips.I have screwed up things also and needed forgiveness.


Yes and thats probably why your single, I would never cheat on someone else, and I never have , and the thought would never even cross my mind to kiss someone else while in a relationship...some people do care about their relationship, some don't

Once a cheater always a cheater :angry:

I've never cheated nor kissed another but I'm not an uptight jerk either.is that why your single ?

iceprincess's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:13 PM
Edited by iceprincess on Thu 02/14/08 09:13 PM


Okay will all the perfect people please raise your hand?all the ones who have never made mistakes in a relationship please stand up?Exactly.So get off your high horses before you get a nosebleed. Me I have forgiven a lot of things the least of them a stray kiss on another's lips.I have screwed up things also and needed forgiveness.


Yes and thats probably why your single, I would never cheat on someone else, and I never have , and the thought would never even cross my mind to kiss someone else while in a relationship...some people do care about their relationship, some don't

Once a cheater always a cheater :angry:


I guess you and greek boy can fight it out over who gets to sit at the right hand of "god" then.....i freely admitt my imperfections........so tell me why are you two single then?

KennethP5206's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:15 PM



Okay will all the perfect people please raise your hand?all the ones who have never made mistakes in a relationship please stand up?Exactly.So get off your high horses before you get a nosebleed. Me I have forgiven a lot of things the least of them a stray kiss on another's lips.I have screwed up things also and needed forgiveness.


Yes and thats probably why your single, I would never cheat on someone else, and I never have , and the thought would never even cross my mind to kiss someone else while in a relationship...some people do care about their relationship, some don't

Once a cheater always a cheater :angry:


I guess you and greek boy can fight it out over who gets to sit at the right hand of "god" then.....i freely admitt my imperfections........so tell me why are you two single then?


I am single because my ex decided to sleep with my dad

Shananigans19's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:15 PM



Okay will all the perfect people please raise your hand?all the ones who have never made mistakes in a relationship please stand up?Exactly.So get off your high horses before you get a nosebleed. Me I have forgiven a lot of things the least of them a stray kiss on another's lips.I have screwed up things also and needed forgiveness.


Yes and thats probably why your single, I would never cheat on someone else, and I never have , and the thought would never even cross my mind to kiss someone else while in a relationship...some people do care about their relationship, some don't

Once a cheater always a cheater :angry:


I guess you and greek boy can fight it out over who gets to sit at the right hand of "god" then.....i freely admitt my imperfections........so tell me why are you two single then?


Ice you are amazing!!!

GuideHenri's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:15 PM

I guess you and greek boy can fight it out over who gets to sit at the right hand of "god" then.....i freely admitt my imperfections........so tell me why are you two single then?

drinker laugh love you IP>:heart:

KennethP5206's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:15 PM




Okay will all the perfect people please raise your hand?all the ones who have never made mistakes in a relationship please stand up?Exactly.So get off your high horses before you get a nosebleed. Me I have forgiven a lot of things the least of them a stray kiss on another's lips.I have screwed up things also and needed forgiveness.


Yes and thats probably why your single, I would never cheat on someone else, and I never have , and the thought would never even cross my mind to kiss someone else while in a relationship...some people do care about their relationship, some don't

Once a cheater always a cheater :angry:


I guess you and greek boy can fight it out over who gets to sit at the right hand of "god" then.....i freely admitt my imperfections........so tell me why are you two single then?


I am single because my ex decided to sleep with my dad



So I guess that makes me a jerk

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:16 PM



OMG the kid is 19 lighten up on her who in this "room" hasn;t done something stupid better yet who over the age of 25 in this room hasn't done something worse

I have never cheated or kissed another girl while having a girlfriend! You owe it to the person to break with them before cheating or looking for a new b/f or g/f period!


well we are proud of you then since you are much closer to "god" in your perfection i suppose you have the right to throw stones...........i for one do not and will tell you some sins are better off never confessed as they do not help the situation if fact they make it much worse..........i am speaking from personal experience if the kid isn't going any further with the "kiss" keep her mouth shut if she feels she wants to or might then break it off either way keep her mouth shut.....what is it gonna gain her BF to tell...........

maybe your right..people have been murdered for less..frown laugh

iceprincess's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:16 PM
wow you have more than cheating issues going on there then boyo don't you......

catchme_ifucan's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:16 PM
devil I'll take a hummer for $300 Alex~~~~

Shananigans19's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:16 PM
And cute thank you so much as well!

KennethP5206's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:17 PM
I am not being a jerk, I am just letting her know that it is so wrong, so she doesn't get the wrong idea that it's ok and decides to make the same mistake twice.

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:17 PM




Okay will all the perfect people please raise your hand?all the ones who have never made mistakes in a relationship please stand up?Exactly.So get off your high horses before you get a nosebleed. Me I have forgiven a lot of things the least of them a stray kiss on another's lips.I have screwed up things also and needed forgiveness.


Yes and thats probably why your single, I would never cheat on someone else, and I never have , and the thought would never even cross my mind to kiss someone else while in a relationship...some people do care about their relationship, some don't

Once a cheater always a cheater :angry:


I guess you and greek boy can fight it out over who gets to sit at the right hand of "god" then.....i freely admitt my imperfections........so tell me why are you two single then?


I am single because my ex decided to sleep with my dad


sorry to hear that ..

greekboy08's photo
Thu 02/14/08 09:19 PM



Okay will all the perfect people please raise your hand?all the ones who have never made mistakes in a relationship please stand up?Exactly.So get off your high horses before you get a nosebleed. Me I have forgiven a lot of things the least of them a stray kiss on another's lips.I have screwed up things also and needed forgiveness.


Yes and thats probably why your single, I would never cheat on someone else, and I never have , and the thought would never even cross my mind to kiss someone else while in a relationship...some people do care about their relationship, some don't

Once a cheater always a cheater :angry:


I guess you and greek boy can fight it out over who gets to sit at the right hand of "god" then.....i freely admitt my imperfections........so tell me why are you two single then?

I never said i was perfect! All i said is while i have a g/f i never kissed another girl! I am single because I broke up with my ex becasue she cheated on me!! And i am having a hard time trusting somebody else right now! Reading this story doesnt help me But i will say this yes she is young and learning,however if she doesnt know right from wrong she proabably shouldnt have a boyfriend its not fair to him to get hurt! Now i am done