kissing is not cheating .if you love your boyfriend you will tell him as your relationship should be based on honesty not secrets.
He may get upset but in the end he will appreciate your honesty.
Tell the other guy you are in a committed relationship ,the kiss was a momentary lapse of judgment on your part and then don't see him again.

I have no sympathy for cheaters. Once a cheat ALWAYS a cheat in my book. If u want sympathy look in the dictionary!!

so many cheaters out there

greek oh hell yeah we would try walking in on your husband with a baby in your arms while their screwing............i think it's worse..........she is 19 find someone your own age to pick on believe we have more grievious sins

I have

And thank you too ice!!

Shananigans19

Who was the most helpful, the ones being truthful and telling you that you stepped over the line and how wrong you were for kissing another guy other than your boyfriend, or the ones telling you it was ok that you should keep both boyfriends?

Once a cheater always a cheater

I do stupid stuff on a daily basis.

Glad to be of assistance

You couldnt really have thought everyone would be positive about this!!! You knew the answer to this before you asked us!

(first of all, sorry if I'm rambling...)
I don't know...CAN you? If you can, let the other go. But you have to try and figure out if you WANT to be serious or if this makes you realize maybe you don't want to be as serious as you thought?...Usually someone looks elsewhere to fulfill something that's missing... If you love your boyfriend then try to fill what's missing with him... Not someone else 'cause that sucks. Also, don't try to keep "testing it out" with the other one. Remember he knows you're capable of "cheating" so how serious could he take you? As far as TELLING your boyfriend? It depends on how strong your relationship is...the guilt may screw you up if you don't. .... you've got some soul-searching to do. There's so many ways this could play out...good luck.

we didn't say keep both we said if it was just a kiss then drop it if more tell........either way decide

Everyone who said some form of something that made sense i considered all including what i didnt wanna hear because i know its what i had to hear!!! By incinuating some didnt help i meant the ones who called me a slut and told me to jump off a bridge.

Me.

I have never cheated or kissed another girl while having a girlfriend! You owe it to the person to break with them before cheating or looking for a new b/f or g/f period!

Shannon, Your still young & in school.
Don't make any commitments you are not ready to live up to.
There is a big difference between "Love/enjoying"
& Being "IN LOVE"!
It's ok to love your friends & love boyfriends.
Just don't make promises your heart isn't ready for.
If you met him here its only been a few months you've been here.

Enjoying a fresh relationship is wonderful!

Good luck & be true to yourself!

You knew it was wrong to yourself is why you asked.

Okay will all the perfect people please raise your hand?all the ones who have never made mistakes in a relationship please stand up?Exactly.So get off your high horses before you get a nosebleed. Me I have forgiven a lot of things the least of them a stray kiss on another's lips.I have screwed up things also and needed forgiveness.

Kissing someone else is still wrong..it is still cheating

Once a cheater always a cheater

it was a f@#$king kiss not a hummer.Christ.

Your opinion is your opinion. That is all I have to say. I would never do this to my boyfriend...and I don't have one because I want to find someone I can stay true to. So you judging us like this...especially if I am giving my advice is wrong. I am not mad at you. I just want you to know that your comment is not appreciated. Give a helpful advice that will help this young lady find her way. That is why she is here.