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Someone help me understand the whole mutual match thing -
I get an e-mail saying "4 people are interesting in meeting you" so I click and rate and then what? If I click yes or maybe, I'd have to make the first contact? I don't think an e-mail goes back to these guys saying "sure, e-mail her" or "please for the love of God, she is NOT interested...." |
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It's kind of like flipping a coin, maybe it's heads or possibly tails...could be fluked could hit...for the most part that I've seen they fluke and I messaged them, don't really know how it works to be honest.
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First off it's kinda a joke , it does not work well!! But I believe when you click yes or maybe you wait to see if your matches say the same then you go from there!! Good luck.......
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That never works for me..you may be luckier than me.
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Well then Fear and Loathing - you were no assitance to me what so ever! Ha. Just kidding.
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That never works for me..you may be luckier than me. i said yes to you 
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If they say yes, then I guess it shows up under your mutual matches? I'm so confussed and I'm not even a blonde!
Thanks for the info. I click yes/maybe sometimes but mainly I search and I'm a "go out and get it for yourself girl" so I'll just e-mail whoever I want to anyways.....:-) |
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if you say "yes" then they show up at your residence with gifts
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actually its all done by computer hazard they choose a women or a man whichever from your search criteria,,then it sends it out to one of them waits for the answer then sends it back to the other
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mutual matches- if you have a mutual match that means someone wants to meat you. if you say that you don't want to meet them thats it end of story. if you say that you want to meet them than it sends your profile to them and there profile to you and and puts it in your mutual list. as far as being the first one to email. (IF BOTH PEOPLE ARE SHY THAN ONE MUST SAY HI!!!)
also kind of sounds to me like you might be a little old fashioned and wants to be the aprochie. |
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They will show up to my house with gifts? I like that idea but only if I clicked yes or maybe. Maybe I should install a trap door for the guys I said no too.
I don't just go by the photo you know. I do read the profile and sometimes the cute guys have nothing to say. Boring! |
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I'm so confussed and I'm not even a blonde!
Whoa there brunette!!! (confussed=confused) 
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Someone help me understand the whole mutual match thing - I get an e-mail saying "4 people are interesting in meeting you" so I click and rate and then what? If I click yes or maybe, I'd have to make the first contact? I don't think an e-mail goes back to these guys saying "sure, e-mail her" or "please for the love of God, she is NOT interested...." Don't listen to the Nay sayers..i've gotten lots of good friends and conversations because of the mutual match..and i haven't been on here that long..besides if someone indicates the would be a match it gives ya a good opening!
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No. I'm far from old fashion........
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What I'm wondering is what the difference really is whether you press "yes" or "maybe"? Don't they both show up the same to the other person?
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Well then Fear and Loathing - you were no assitance to me what so ever! Ha. Just kidding. I'm obliged to share my not so knowledgeable knowledge with you 
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actually its all done by computer hazard they choose a women or a man whichever from your search criteria,,then it sends it out to one of them waits for the answer then sends it back to the other kinda like tag ...your it... someone wants to meet you click yes or maybe they recieve the email someone wants to meet you they click yes or maybe you recieve the email someone wants to meet you you click yes or maybe they recieve the email someone wants to meet you ect. ect. ect. how this is a mutual match?....I dunno |
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Well I think we can conclude that the whole "Mutual Match" thing could be made more clear. I guess it IS a game of tag. I say yes or maybe, then you do the same and we then end up on eachother's mutual match page. This is my understand anyways. Still, one of the interested parties have to bite the bullet and make contact.
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If they say yes, then I guess it shows up under your mutual matches? I'm so confussed and I'm not even a blonde! Thanks for the info. I click yes/maybe sometimes but mainly I search and I'm a "go out and get it for yourself girl" so I'll just e-mail whoever I want to anyways.....:-) |
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if you say "yes" then they show up at your residence with gifts |
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