If you really examine what you truly want, you get what you want......so when you finally figure that out....its not that hard to get it.

Positive thinking produces positive results! Put forth positive and you will get just that!!

I don't agree. Subconsciously and consciously the nature of human beings is to form in societal relationships.

I am saying society is so screwed up that there is now a permanent break down in that societal relationship scope. i.e.... no person is "faithful" anymore... it doesn't exist... therefore... "love" as is passed down from the Judeo-Christian western path of philosophy... one man, one woman... does not exist anymore...

The outcome being... the world (in this culture and country)... is a whore...

Not necessarily. You say that everyone cheats??? Or they just cheat on you??? Society isnt a whore......the world is the way it is because of humans thinking.

I don't think its a matter of positive or negative things... it is beyond that scope... the reality I am seeing is that nobody is truly faithful... at least statistically in my own personal experience.

My perception is limited to my experiences... and in 100% of my experiences, the woman has been unfaithful.

Others may have a different perception, and a different view point, but I do not see that it has anything to do with the command over one's own psyche towards positivity... that is a metaphysical outlook, and the evidence I see is empirical, and scientific. 100% of all relationships have ended in the woman being unfaithful.

And Ive never been cheated on......what are the statistics for that?

I don't believe that one has to travel out of the country to meet someone. There are plenty of good relationships right here.

If you keep falling into wrong relationships, are you asking the right questions? Do you take the time to get to know them before you fall in love? Do you let it be known up front that you are looking for honesty in your relationship.

Like guys, gals have the same experience. After 12 wonderful dates I was told by this new boyfriend that he needed to go back to his previous bad relationship because "she makes me feel wild and crazy like staying out and going dancing".

Listen to your inner voice if something doesn't seem right it probably isn't.

Both guys and gals are often attracted to the wild/bad ones...
Then we got what we asked for. Kind of like plunging out into traffic...stop look and listen

I would ask myself "what kind of woman am I dating?" and not date that type. Obviously its the wrong type. Some woman (and men) ARE faithful.

Yes, we have a whorish society... self-serving, and full of way too much entertainment and free time... typically fat of pleasures... that's the American lifestyle as a whole.

This bleeds over into social relationships...

Though with lip service, humans here say they want a one-to-one love relationship.. the push is more for individualism, and doing as you please to please yourself, even in cases where extreme fundamentalist "religious" values are present...

The addiction to the conquest of "love" outweighs the ability to remain faithful to just one person.

when u fall in love u'll regret this negative attitude

who are these humans? selfish swines!!!!

My dilemma is that every time I fall in love, its the same outcome...

1) Boy meets girl
2) Boy falls for girl (with girl reinforcing feelings in return)
3) Boy figures out girl has other boyfriends, etc...

I don't regret any negative attitude... because this is who we learn...

Then use a bulletin board like this to bounce ideas off other folks...



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Brittney Spears publicist!!!

look for a church going lady

yes, churches DO NOT have whores and cheaters..I think they are referred to as harlets or adultresess'...

The church is the best place to find a whore!!! haha you should have seen the "christian" schools we had around growing up.....full of drug addicts, whores, you name it!!! I think it was a dumping ground for the bad kids!!!

are you sure you're not just projecting what you ultimately think you'll get- namely rejection- ???

I'd like to know what his exact definition of cheating is just based on some prev comments about sociatal relationships.

she WAS a church going lady....

church does not matter... its human to be unfaithful... church changes nothing... if anything, it increases the social contact, allows contact in a relaxed atmosphere, and encourages the chances of social unfaithfulness...

Projection has nothing to do with the reality of people (out of my control) making unfavorable decisions to pursue other relationships when in lip service, say they want to make me their one-and-only...

Has nothing to do with rejection or projection... it has to do with a societal malfunction...

Maybe you need to self evaluate rather than stereotype all women as a cheater dude, not trying to be mean but your perception isn t my reality. Its called "life". and it isn t fair sometimes, u pick ur azz up ,dust it off and "move on"