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Topic: HELP!! How do I find someone...
BigGlenn's photo
Mon 02/11/08 06:21 AM
I had a dream last night about a girlfriend from days gone by (not that kind of dream you pervert!!). I haven't heard from her in 15 years and I can't even remember her last name!!!
I feel strongly about reaching out to her, But I'm totally baffled. In this day and age, There has to be a way. Any suggestions?

ellgee1976's photo
Mon 02/11/08 06:22 AM
Edited by ellgee1976 on Mon 02/11/08 06:24 AM
yellobook.com

google her name (the one you remember)


scratch that...you don't know her last name..


umm...try her class reunion page? if you know where she went to high school, you can google graduates from that year to find her last name..then google it, and yellowbook.com it

BigGlenn's photo
Mon 02/11/08 06:25 AM
Just that simple?

ellgee1976's photo
Mon 02/11/08 06:29 AM

Just that simple?


nothing worthwile ever is simple

BigGlenn's photo
Mon 02/11/08 06:31 AM
Very true. Thanks.

no photo
Mon 02/11/08 06:32 AM
Sure, there are ways to find people. However.. not knowing the last name is going to make it a bit difficult... and at least from my experience, strikes me as a bit unusual, and very possibly suspect. Anyone important enough in my life to be called a girlfriend... I could recall their last name till the end of my days.

Not to say that your motives are sinister... Yet I do prefer to err to the side of caution. I'd rather not run the risk of helping a stalker.

sweetkyman's photo
Mon 02/11/08 06:32 AM
let us know if you find her.Hope shes ok.
your thoughts of her after so many yrs past might be a sign..good I hope!
I have no help for you my friend..sorry!But,I agree with Elle.


Ralph

kojack's photo
Mon 02/11/08 06:33 AM
google last known address, #

BigGlenn's photo
Mon 02/11/08 06:40 AM
Jistme,
I completely understand the cautiousness. If you knew me and the place I was at back then, You'd understand. Some folks on this site know me and can vouch that I'm not that type.
We worked together at a bar and the lifestyle was a little wild (to put it mildly). The bar is long gone now and almost everyone I knew back then have scattered in the wind.
The couple of people I have talked to haven't heard from her since we all hung out together.
The last time I heard from her, She was living in Florida, That's all I got.

JaceKnows's photo
Mon 02/11/08 06:41 AM
Search public records. They know everything.

BigGlenn's photo
Mon 02/11/08 06:42 AM
I have no last name!!!

no photo
Mon 02/11/08 06:46 AM
and the lifestyle was a little wild (to put it mildly)
Put that way? Sure..I get that.

The only thing I will advise is to write down every little detail you can remember about her. Everything she ever told you about her past, and the facts you knew about her.. In that information you should find some pieces that will lead to her present.

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 02/11/08 06:52 AM
No last name no go. Oh and you have a nice doo. Poodletail?

no photo
Mon 02/11/08 06:55 AM
^^^Not necessarily. I've found people who had given entirely false names. You just need to get a little creative.

BigGlenn's photo
Mon 02/11/08 06:57 AM
Hey Longhair,
I call it a puptop.

Thanks everyone, I think I'm screwed

zman000081's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:02 AM
Ok lets be creative here. You have a first name and a town she used to live in. Ok. If you cant remeber the last name Im sure that the date of birth is a mystery also. Do you have a prior address? The info is easy to find if ya want let me know what info you do have and i can tell ya how hard or easy it can be.drinker

BigGlenn's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:10 AM
zman,
Here's where everyone is going to think I'm full of crap and making all of this up, But, Here goes...

The Bar we worked in no longer exists. She lived in an apartment across the street from said bar.
The owner of the bar also owned the apt. bldng. along with much of the surrounding property. When he sold it, He sold it all. Last year I went there to try to get in touch with some old friends. The bar and all the surrounding buildings were torn down and new buildings were being built. I didn't recognize anything.
The owner has since died and I can't find 98% of the old crew.

zman000081's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:12 AM
Ok do you remember the name of the BAR?

BigGlenn's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:14 AM
Yes, that's easy. the place was legendary.

oldsage's photo
Mon 02/11/08 07:14 AM
Glenn, do you know any bankers where she might have banked.
Financial records get saved forever.
Did she ever get a ticket.
court records can give info.
Remember any of her old boy friends?

By the way, GOOD to see you.
How's the boys?

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