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Well, I just don't want to give the wrong impression, and I'm thinking my profile gives the wrong impression. I'm not a player. I am confident in myself though. I'm not a geek, nerd, or dork, I'm just me, and I want to make sure my profile gives the right impression, not the wrong one. I'm not a loner either, like I said, I'm just me. Ya feel me? I don't think you come off as a player because your profile mentions that you have goals, that's good. You seem very ambitious and that's admirable. You're also handsome, you don't look like a nerd (stereotypical I know)  I wouldn't mind feeling you. I kid, I kid.
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Sure  You main picture is nice, it shows you clearly, handsome man btw. But you do not have much on your profile lol....You only have this "Just checkin this thing out for now..' That's not enough at all. Aren't we all just checking for now? Add a bit more about yourself, it doesn't have to be a book, just a brief introduction, your interests? Goals? SOMETHING!! Oh, and why don't you haev an answer for the smoking and drinking question? It makes you seem like a crackhead and an alcoholic if you avoid to answer such. But everything is seems fine.
 Are you sure that's my profile? I have a few sentences, and about a paragraph about me, my goals, etc. I listed pretty mcuh all o my interests, and I did answer the smoking and drinking questions, unless I'm mistaken, which I'll double check real quick...
Yea, that wasn't meant for you lol. I forget to quote
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Excuse my typos
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LOL just saying, I think way too deep sometimes though
Ok, now do me!! hahahaha Sure You main picture is nice, it shows you clearly, handsome man btw. But you do not have much on your profile lol....You only have this "Just checkin this thing out for now..' That's not enough at all. Aren't we all just checking for now? Add a bit more about yourself, it doesn't have to be a book, just a brief introduction, your interests? Goals? SOMETHING!! Oh, and why don't you haev an answer for the smoking and drinking question? It makes you seem like a crackhead and an alcoholic if you avoid to answer such. But everything is seems fine.
I don't talk about myself much so I figure it's a pretty accurate description of who I am..
You are good at this.. Thanks!! 
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oh ok
Thanks for the feedbac everyone, I really do apperciate it.
I just wanted to make sure I wasn't sending the wrong message. I just kinda feel like my profile was sending the worng message for some reason. 
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I am ambitious and confident, but that doesn't make me a player, does it?
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I am ambitious and confident, but that doesn't make me a player, does it? If that was the case then i wish all the men that approach me were a "player" ha. Not the lazy, no ambitious losers I meet. No, that doesn't make you a player, just intelligent. |
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LOL just saying, I think way too deep sometimes though
Ok, now do me!! hahahaha Sure You main picture is nice, it shows you clearly, handsome man btw. But you do not have much on your profile lol....You only have this "Just checkin this thing out for now..' That's not enough at all. Aren't we all just checking for now? Add a bit more about yourself, it doesn't have to be a book, just a brief introduction, your interests? Goals? SOMETHING!! Oh, and why don't you haev an answer for the smoking and drinking question? It makes you seem like a crackhead and an alcoholic if you avoid to answer such. But everything is seems fine.
I don't talk about myself much so I figure it's a pretty accurate description of who I am..
You are good at this.. Thanks!!
LOL, np. |
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Thanks, I just wanted to make sure my profile come off accurate of me, and not as though I'm a player.
My profile, is from the heart, straight forward, just me, I just wanted to make sure it wasn't giving a false impression of who I am. |
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Thanks, I just wanted to make sure my profile come off accurate of me, and not as though I'm a player.
My profile, is from the heart, straight forward, just me, I just wanted to make sure it wasn't giving a false impression of who I am. 
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It's kinda weird, when I held back more, I was getting a better response, than when I portay myself accurately, that's why I was wondering if I came off as a player or not.
Maybe most women just don't know how to take me?
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Edited by
OneOfaKindGal
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Sat 02/09/08 10:55 PM
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It's kinda weird, when I held back more, I was getting a better response, than when I portay myself accurately, that's why I was wondering if I came off as a player or not.
Maybe most women just don't know how to take me?
Haha, you're still on that? JK. Maybe because before you were less mysterious, so they could email you and ask you to tell them about yourself since you did not have much on your profile but now that you have an in-depth profile about yourself there are no more excuses for them to message you if they’re interested because your profile is pretty informed? I really don't know what I am saying Anyhow, If I was in Ohio I'd go for it lol; you seem to have a great head on your shoulders. My advice---don't stress over it. It is what it is and if someone is interested in your profile she'll contact you regardless of her first impressions. GL!
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Edited by
Totage
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Sat 02/09/08 11:04 PM
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It's kinda weird, when I held back more, I was getting a better response, than when I portay myself accurately, that's why I was wondering if I came off as a player or not.
Maybe most women just don't know how to take me?
Haha, you're still on that? JK. Maybe because before you were less mysterious, so they could email you and ask you to tell them about yourself since you did not have much on your profile but now that you have an in-depth profile about yourself there are no more excuses for them to message you if they’re interested because your profile is pretty informed? I really don't know what I am saying Anyhow, If I was in Ohio I'd go for it lol; you seem to have a great head on your shoulders. My advice---don't stress over it. It is what it is and if someone is interested in your profile she'll contact you regardless of her first impressions. GL!
 That's what I'm thinking, if my profile now is weeding out the BS, then I'm keepin' it as is, I don't have time for any BS, I hope my profile portays that.
I'm just looking for friends though, that MAY be open to more, but really just someone to do stuff with, without any expectations or attachments. Is that too much to ask for? Just a "friend"? |
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Edited by
OneOfaKindGal
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Sat 02/09/08 11:11 PM
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It's kinda weird, when I held back more, I was getting a better response, than when I portay myself accurately, that's why I was wondering if I came off as a player or not.
Maybe most women just don't know how to take me?
Haha, you're still on that? JK. Maybe because before you were less mysterious, so they could email you and ask you to tell them about yourself since you did not have much on your profile but now that you have an in-depth profile about yourself there are no more excuses for them to message you if they’re interested because your profile is pretty informed? I really don't know what I am saying Anyhow, If I was in Ohio I'd go for it lol; you seem to have a great head on your shoulders. My advice---don't stress over it. It is what it is and if someone is interested in your profile she'll contact you regardless of her first impressions. GL!
That's what I'm thinking, if my profile now is weeding outb the BS, then I'm keepin' it as is, I don't have time for any BS, I hope my profile portays that.
I'm just looking for friends though, that MAY be open to more, but really just someone to to stuff with, without any expectations or attachments. Is that too much to ask for? Just a "friend"? You want a FWB (friends with benefits) Haha. Nothing wrong with looking for a friend first. All relationships should start out being friends first anyway...then maybe the possibility of it progressing to something more, but it's good to let the other person know in the begining where you two stand as to not lead them on. But being friends first is key!!
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Edited by
Totage
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Sat 02/09/08 11:13 PM
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No! I'm not looking for a FWB. Just a female friend, which may or may not lead to something else. I'm not looking for a f*ck buddy, or anything like that.
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Edited by
Totage
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Sat 02/09/08 11:19 PM
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So, my profile makes it look like I'm looking for a FWB?
But, I'm not. Just a female friend to do stuff with, with no expectation or attachments. Should I clearly state that in my profile? |
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Edited by
OneOfaKindGal
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Sat 02/09/08 11:27 PM
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So, my profile makes it look like I'm looking for a FWB? But, I'm not. Just a female friend to do stuff with, with no expectation or attachments. Should I clearly state that in my profile? OMG, you're too funny Take a deep breath in, out, relax! lol. No, I only said FWB because on your previous response you emphasized on the word friend like this "friend" so I assumed that this is what you meant. I need to get my mind out the gutter. Don't mind me. Your profile is fine. Good night
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Edited by
Totage
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Sat 02/09/08 11:34 PM
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OneOfaKindGal I apperciate your help and feedback.
Yeah, I'm not really what people are used to, honest and upfront. If I wanted sex, I just say, I'm here for a good fu*k, or soemthing like that. I know exactly what I want, and I say just that, no games, no gimmicks, but I guess people are so used to games and gimmicks, they try to figure what out what mine is?
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Does my profile make me come off as a player? For some reason I get the feeling that Iam coming off as a player. I am not a player, do I seem like one? I try to be honest and up front, do I seem like a player? I don't get it.
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Does my profile make me come off as a player? For some reason I get the feeling that Iam coming off as a player. I am not a player, do I seem like one? I try to be honest and up front, do I seem like a player? I don't get it.
yes
Giggity! Giggity!
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