OK so I have all these mutual matches. Why is it only one them is talking? I thought this was a site where you come to meet new people, all the people on my page haven't said anything. am I doing something wrong or is it just them?

I have mutual matches too. Seems like everyone is afraid to say (type) a few words to one another. I would say, it's just them. keep trying, I know I am...

I have the same prob... dont feel bad.. just chat here in the forums an u will be makein friends an be chattin all the time

your on my mutual match. why havnt YOU said anything??

So it's the women that needs to make the first move here?

sometimes u have to take the first step

get's lame after awhile after u contact the person & they never responded. Question, why click yes or maybe for a mutal match why didn't that person just click no & be done with it?

So it's not true. The best things don't come to those who wait. Ya want somethin ya have to go out and get it.

Hey I have the same problem and if I do sent a Hello,they don't answer

That's what makes you special

Looks that way

Exactly. What are these guys doing, just trying to get their photo on as many pages as possible?

seems that way, doesn't it?

Than you're just trying to talk to the little girls on here who aren't really looking for anything but a little attention.

Hope I dont offend anyone.

#1 yes it's a free dating site
#2 some here are looking only for a partner
#3 some are here looking for friend (ME) first and foremost
#4 if someone doesnt write to you please dont complain
take the initiative and make first contact
#5 dont change yourself, unless it's something you wanna do
#6 dont take things personally this is afterall the internet
#7 if everything else fails, just join the forums meet a bunch
of people, make friends, have fun!!!

Enjoy JSH

I love everybody

Hey feel for you RICOL. Have you ever noticed that the ones that do respond live out of state or too far away? Seems like they guys that are my mutual matches, don't want to respond. What's up with that?

I heard the following version of that quote...

"Good things come to those who wait because they are left behind by those that DO".

Be patient... and then breathe deep and re-focus... be more patient. And don't forget to be patient. On dating sites, patience is not a virtue, it's the required prerequisite to grow the thick skin that soon must follow. You'll need it. I know I did.



In the end, it is worth it. Welcome!

I have emailed a few times if they read it and dont reply I move on. I have to learn that not everyone is gonna dig me. I bet they could not keep up with me with watchin my football either!!

No not offended