Oh man, upsetting news about my date.. it has been bothering me all Damn day... heres the scoop...

I went on a date last nite, he took me to chinese restuarant.. very nice place.. we were talkin.. he tells me he has a daughter whos 4 yrs old.. I think wow this is so sweet.. he proceeds to tell me.. that he has visitation to see her.. but doesnt want to see her.. ok well I'm sorry I have 4 wonderful boys.. and this man knows that.. says he doesnt like children.. then why the Hell did he go out with me???.. I'm all confused.. I can't go out with this man again..

He is wanting another date.. What do I tell him without coming off like a b*tch??? Help With This One Plz..

Tell him the truth, rather then a lie just a thought

Why do you care how you come off to this jerk .. he abandoned his child .. why would you care what he thought of you simply say no and if he ask why say I don't like you ...

I couldn't imagine NOT seeing my daughter. that just isn't healthy...

Here's what I would say: "You're a really nice guy, but I just don't think we're a good match. I wish you the best."

He sounds STRANGE.

If they Can't Take care of there own Blood
I would never see them again ever Not a Man just a Boy
That's all i got say

I know the truth is we were friends first but he has never really talked about his daughter.. and he is very negative.. I guess just have to be straight with him that it just wont work. I guess I'm afraid of breaking up a friendship with him, but I guess even that is not possible... Geez..

the truth will set you free!! lol

I would not even have enough respect for him to be his friend!! JMO...

If he doesn't like his own children...why would he want yours? My opinion....

SOME MEN.. GEEZ.. I KNOW HOW TO PICK THEM..

not wanting to be around your own children just doesn't seem right. I'd be honest with him tell him you won't be able to see him anymore and why.

love me....love my kids... period...

Just tell him it's not going to happen.

I would never date a man that says he does not like children...I would drop him faster the a hot potatoe...If I'm going to be with someone they need to realize that this is a package deal and the children are not going anywhere..Hell I'm the kind of woman that just for telling me that, and pissing me off, I would blindfold him and tell him we are going somewhere loud but nice for dinner. Tell him it's a suprise. I would love to see the look on his face when you take that blindfold off a Chuck E Cheese!! I think he will get the hint then, either that, or he is stupid!

Exactly, I would just tell him that it would never work out, did he say why he doesn't want to see his little girl?

I'm with Allen
short/sweet and right to the point

Oh no. I dont have kids but if you do not want to see your own flesh and blood that is not someone that I would want to be around. I dont have a problem with guys with kids. Didnt have kids with my ex, but I still love kiddos

Red flags all over, you know what needs to be done.
If it costs you his friendship, he wasn't much of a friend.