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Topic: abuse
pkh's photo
Sat 02/02/08 08:53 PM
we all here the stories about the women being beat by a man.Well last night I witnessed a woman beating the crap out of a man,and he never touched her in any way...so what he's a man he's a sissy.It was so disturbing to me I think he was a real man.No one man or woman has the right to touch or harm another human being in any way...your thoughts

gregory583's photo
Sat 02/02/08 08:54 PM
pkh i agree with you 100%flowerforyou

trying_to_fly's photo
Sat 02/02/08 08:54 PM
A girl got arressted at Applebees in my hometown for hitting her boyfriend in the face 3 months after she did it, he pressed charges and she got her ass thrown in jail....

Drifters13's photo
Sat 02/02/08 08:54 PM
It depends on the situation at hand.

izzie's photo
Sat 02/02/08 08:55 PM
as a woman out of a horrible relationship that i will spare you all the details of again... but i will say i was extremely lucky to survive....


it is no human beings place to ever lay a hand on a nother person....
(cops are the exception.. but only within bounds and in the line of duity)


abuse does go both ways.. and it is wrong from ether side...

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no photo
Sat 02/02/08 08:55 PM
takes a better and bigger man to walk away from that situation........nothing to be ashamed of at all........:wink:

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 02/02/08 08:56 PM
I don't care what the situation is no one deserves to hit another it takes a bigger person to walk away.bigsmile

greekboy08's photo
Sat 02/02/08 08:56 PM
I think most will disagree with me here but..... if a woman starts beating a man after awhile i belive he has the right to hit back!!! It is wrong to hit anybody!!! But when you start hitting someone you better be willing to take a beating yourself!

Cambolaya65's photo
Sat 02/02/08 08:57 PM
i choose women that can kick my ass...groovylove

Drifters13's photo
Sat 02/02/08 08:57 PM
Edited by Drifters13 on Sat 02/02/08 08:59 PM

I don't care what the situation is no one deserves to hit another it takes a bigger person to walk away.bigsmile


I one time had a Ex try to stab me thit a 9" carving knife...I was cut several times. What would you do in that situation? All I'm saying is that sometimes you have no choice. Its a matter of survival.

I'n not saying that its right by anymeans to do that to another person, but sometimes you have to choose between to bad options in some situations.

pkh's photo
Sat 02/02/08 08:59 PM
yes I do disagree I've had my ass beat many times he was bigger then me and I never fought back.He could of hit a wall or walked out the door...just my thoughts

trying_to_fly's photo
Sat 02/02/08 08:59 PM
I was being punched one time in the chest by my ex......all I did was look at her and say "are you done?" and I walked away.....See, I walked away and she got even MORE furious with me.....explain that one...

izzie's photo
Sat 02/02/08 09:00 PM
drifter.. as someone who has been in your situation.. first call the cops.. second lock yourself in a room somewhere.. or restrain the person.. not jsut hit tho... also.. the main point in this thread was jsut hitting to hit.. anger or frusteration.. not defending your life....


jsut my opinion....
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scttrbrain's photo
Sat 02/02/08 09:00 PM
Yes...it is wrong on both sides. I have been in both. I was the abused and I was the one doing the hitting. I was also arrested for hitting him. I was also arrested for him hitting me and me hitting back. We both got arrested.

One should never hit another. I don't think I will ever do it again. I have calmed down a lot. Violence is never the answer.

Kat

izzie's photo
Sat 02/02/08 09:01 PM

I was being punched one time in the chest by my ex......all I did was look at her and say "are you done?" and I walked away.....See, I walked away and she got even MORE furious with me.....explain that one...


she got madder cuz you wouldnt fight back.. wouldnt give her an excuse...

trust me i know..


pkh's photo
Sat 02/02/08 09:03 PM
flowerforyou flowerforyou Izzie I know it well too

trying_to_fly's photo
Sat 02/02/08 09:03 PM
No one should have to put up with abuse..... Verbal abuse can sometimes be a lot more destructive than physical... The brain can take so much of being called an idiot, stupid, saying you can't do anything right, swearing at your significan other...... I just sometimes don't understand when 2 people are in love....that this can take place or happen in the home....don't understand at all......

izzie's photo
Sat 02/02/08 09:04 PM

flowerforyou flowerforyou Izzie I know it well too




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we survive..
we gotta rite??
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Sat 02/02/08 09:04 PM

i choose women that can kick my ass...groovylove


Can but won't. How about that?

pkh's photo
Sat 02/02/08 09:05 PM
tryingtofly I so agree and I will never understand how one can cause such pain on another

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