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ok well been friends with this guy for over a year.. went to hang out for the 1st time. well we just really hit it off I didnt feel weird around him. he keep saying "what are we gonna do about this?" but the thing is we live alil over an hr away an he doesnt have a car cuz sum one hit it an doesnt work now. he doesnt have a job becus where he did work sold out an the new people fired everyone.. not his falt, having a hard time findin a new one. but im just lost to what he ment by "this" if anyone has a clue please let me know.. is it a guy thing??
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I am still trying to figure out what "alil" means
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If a guy calls a friendship or a relationship or sex..."THIS"....run.....really..lmao
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How do you know he wasn't talking about multiple things, and is just really bad with words? He could have been talking about his feelings, and all the issues he has combined, but didn't know how to say it other than "this". I know I've had times where I haven't worded things eloquently.
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How do you know he wasn't talking about multiple things, and is just really bad with words? He could have been talking about his feelings, and all the issues he has combined, but didn't know how to say it other than "this". I know I've had times where I haven't worded things eloquently. very true...so simply ask... At my age hell I would just run..and go next..lol |
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ok well been friends with this guy for over a year.. went to hang out for the 1st time. well we just really hit it off I didnt feel weird around him. he keep saying "what are we gonna do about this?" but the thing is we live alil over an hr away an he doesnt have a car cuz sum one hit it an doesnt work now. he doesnt have a job becus where he did work sold out an the new people fired everyone.. not his falt, having a hard time findin a new one. but im just lost to what he ment by "this" if anyone has a clue please let me know.. is it a guy thing?? ty
I take it he meant the "chemistry" between the two of you. |
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How do you know he wasn't talking about multiple things, and is just really bad with words? He could have been talking about his feelings, and all the issues he has combined, but didn't know how to say it other than "this". I know I've had times where I haven't worded things eloquently. very true...so simply ask... At my age hell I would just run..and go next..lol I'd have to agree with Zanne here, ask him. There are lots of other people out there, if he likes you, he'll tell you what he meant. If not, he's not the only one that you'll ever meet. |
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U young adults are killing me here in the love area...
I was at my sons school last night... there were 2 wonderful young ppl that I adore..crying..over break ups... just want to hug all of u and remember u have a life time for love... If u can't express it correctly or keep it going then that has to tell ya something... possibly it's ur time to go have fun with the girls... or guys go hang out with the guys... it really can be more fun... try it u might like it..   
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just ask him what he meant
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U young adults are killing me here in the love area... I was at my sons school last night... there were 2 wonderful young ppl that I adore..crying..over break ups... just want to hug all of u and remember u have a life time for love... If u can't express it correctly or keep it going then that has to tell ya something... possibly it's ur time to go have fun with the girls... or guys go hang out with the guys... it really can be more fun... try it u might like it..
Haha, Zanne, been there, done that. Never worked out for me, those "guy times". Sure I'll have a couple drinks every now and then, but I like spending time with women, no matter if it's friends or more. |
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Haha, Zanne, been there, done that. Never worked out for me, those "guy times". Sure I'll have a couple drinks every now and then, but I like spending time with women, no matter if it's friends or more. its about time someone said it...i'd rather hang out with girls than guys anyday of the week
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well curios..I wasn't speaking of "the more part"...but u made me laugh....still laughing....
As being young at one time and raising 2 sons and having so many kids around me..I just feel if its so difficult..Cut urselves a break and don't be in such a rush..Go have fun....one day u will realize damn I should of,could of.. Now in the middle age generation....still cut urself a break....lmao....I am....I would love to meet someone...again..but all in good time..when it's right..it's not that difficult....so for now..I choose to work..hang out with my friends..male and female..and talk to starngers..here and in the world....it's quite interesting..... Have a great weekend... Zanne
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Haha, Zanne, been there, done that. Never worked out for me, those "guy times". Sure I'll have a couple drinks every now and then, but I like spending time with women, no matter if it's friends or more. its about time someone said it...i'd rather hang out with girls than guys anyday of the week
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ok ..I missed something here..curios..ur getting mail...lmao
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ok ..I missed something here..curios..ur getting mail...lmao plz change ur age range so i can get thru...lol I want to tell u something... |
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U young adults are killing me here in the love area... I was at my sons school last night... there were 2 wonderful young ppl that I adore..crying..over break ups... just want to hug all of u and remember u have a life time for love... If u can't express it correctly or keep it going then that has to tell ya something... possibly it's ur time to go have fun with the girls... or guys go hang out with the guys... it really can be more fun... try it u might like it..
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he wants reassurance that you are feeling it before he proposes to do anything about it. of course the options appear to be a little limited at the moment. but where there's a will there's a way!
so, yes, angel in is right it is all about the chemistry
good luck to you both
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U young adults are killing me here in the love area... I was at my sons school last night... there were 2 wonderful young ppl that I adore..crying..over break ups... just want to hug all of u and remember u have a life time for love... If u can't express it correctly or keep it going then that has to tell ya something... possibly it's ur time to go have fun with the girls... or guys go hang out with the guys... it really can be more fun... try it u might like it..
sending a great big hug to u.....HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG....how is that...hope u feel better....lmao |
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U young adults are killing me here in the love area... I was at my sons school last night... there were 2 wonderful young ppl that I adore..crying..over break ups... just want to hug all of u and remember u have a life time for love... If u can't express it correctly or keep it going then that has to tell ya something... possibly it's ur time to go have fun with the girls... or guys go hang out with the guys... it really can be more fun... try it u might like it..
sending a great big hug to u.....HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG....how is that...hope u feel better....lmao
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ur welcome....
and have a great day to...
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