i don't know if right now is a bad time for you,
but if you have the time, i really wanna talk to you,
i think i made a mistake."

My exboyfriend just texted me saying that.
We had a really bad break up, which I won't
go into details about..

I was just wondering if anyone would have any
advice on what to say to that.

I don't ever plan on getting back together with him,
but I don't know if he's even being sincere with this.

... They say girls play a lot of head games,
man, guys are just as bad :[

but yah, if anything, what would I say to him.
keeping in consideration that I can't be mean,
because I'll feel bad if I'm mean... :[

i say, dont respond unless u wanna work things out

NO Reply

forget about this guy ..move on plenty of fish as they say ....

Just call him back. The suspense is killing me. Such Drama.

Hey good luck to you, I know how exes can be If you wanna be kind, I think you should just tell him, you wanna stay good friends, and your really happy on your own right now, cause never know what the future holds!!

hah!
gotta love being a teenager ..

Lose the text
Lose the number
Lose the Loser

Text him back and say, "Yes it is a bad time for me. I really don't want to tlak to you. In fact you DID make a mistake, but it's too late to go back. So every time will be a bad time as far as you're concerned. Now let me get on with my life. Thanks!"

seriously...dont even bother with it. my ex does the same thing to me and I was falling for it for so long until i realized that its all just a game. and usually he was drunk anyways...UGH...Men...hes your ex for a reason, let the past be the past.

What would it hurt to call and talk to him? It's only words.

Well, it's not mean to ignore the message. If you don't know if you can trust him, then you can't trust him. If you have no intentions of getting back together with him, and the break up was bad, it's probably best to leave it at that.

IMO, ignore it.

It's not just words, its control.

Just remember, honesty is a process by which you consider and weigh the consequences of your choices. If you really are done, say so, if wasn't clear to him then, make it clear now.

Bad analogy: when you go hunting, you don't let the deer bleed to death when you can plug it in the head and put it out of its misery.

Don't leave him with any false hope, this is something I would ask of all women intent on dumping me.

Uhm, well, it would hurt a lot, actually.
he hurt me, like.. really badly. lol.
unfortunately, cause i was really into him,
seeing as we were together for a year and a half,
it makes sense why i was really into him..

and like, just i haven't talked to him since
i believe the day i found out what happened,
but i know that i still do have feelings for him,
and i don't want to rekindle any of those,
because he is a sweet talker.. and so that's
why it's an iffy situation..

4get about the loser

Evidently, more has happened than what was spoken here in this forum. It sounds like you already know what the CORRECT answer is to the question you pose. Go with what you feel is right. Just never look back and don't post mortem yourself into depression. Make the decision and move on.

wasnt this the guy you posted about earlier? the one that was on again off again??

funny thing about decisions..once you've made them you have a goal to work towards..

decide to move on, and then do it

Find less drama and less drama finds you!!!

Another talk to the hand moment!!!