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Topic: Unreasonable Expectations...
Totage's photo
Fri 01/25/08 03:45 PM

I just thought it was interesting, as I was browsing through some of the seemingly eligible men's profiles, that there are lots of men who state "no games, no drama, no excentric people, no hangups, no baggage from previous relationships, etc.". I just gotta laugh. Do you really think you will actually find a woman so impecibly perfect? You ARE looking for a human woman....right? LOL Well all I have to say is....best of luck to you. Let me know when you find your way back to reality. laugh


Of course women never write such non sense :tongue:

ddanster's photo
Fri 01/25/08 03:49 PM
Drama, baggage and games are all part of the scene whither we like it or not (i know i don't)grumble

ljcc1964's photo
Fri 01/25/08 03:51 PM
For all of you who think I was too "negative" in my post....geez, lighten up. It was intended to be humorous. I thought it was funny that there are men out there who actually believe they will find one of us without a past...one of us who has never made a mistake...one of us without the occassional hormonal blues...one of us who would never ever inconvenience you in any way whatsoever. Frankly....my mistakes or "baggage" are a very real part of who I am today. I have had many things happen to me on my path...and many lessons I have learned. For those men who want a perfect woman...you are just simply living outside of reality.

I'm just sayin'.....

iraceslowcars's photo
Fri 01/25/08 03:51 PM
I told someone this in an email I sent her:
Everyone has baggage, EVERYONE!!! It's just a matter of how you carry it.

TheShadow's photo
Fri 01/25/08 03:55 PM
It' what I see and how I live by, Well at least try to. I am humon :wink:

iraceslowcars's photo
Fri 01/25/08 04:07 PM

For all of you who think I was too "negative" in my post....geez, lighten up. It was intended to be humorous. I thought it was funny that there are men out there who actually believe they will find one of us without a past...one of us who has never made a mistake...one of us without the occassional hormonal blues...one of us who would never ever inconvenience you in any way whatsoever. Frankly....my mistakes or "baggage" are a very real part of who I am today. I have had many things happen to me on my path...and many lessons I have learned. For those men who want a perfect woman...you are just simply living outside of reality.

I'm just sayin'.....


No, I get you, men and women both put up silly things like that on their profiles, I just keep rollin'. Kinda like the one yesterday I saw looking for a "Sugar Daddy' i couldn't hit the "back" button fast enough.

jules49's photo
Fri 01/25/08 04:38 PM
hmmm... most man I meet have all the drama, baggage and what not. So I when see that writen on a profile I always get a chuckle. It also starts their profile out in a negitive way. They clearly have something in there past that effects them still. As do we all, but I wouldn't advertise it as part of my profile. Who writes: LOOKING FOR DRAMA, DEBT, DEAD BEAT, CRAPPY LOVER WHO WONT GO DOWN (CAUSE YOU EX NEVER LIKED IT),HOMELESS, UNEMPLOYED WHO *****ES ABOUT THE EX(STILL). You my be my match. lol NOT!

So lets keep it positive, shall we




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Fri 01/25/08 04:51 PM


I just thought it was interesting, as I was browsing through some of the seemingly eligible men's profiles, that there are lots of men who state "no games, no drama, no excentric people, no hangups, no baggage from previous relationships, etc.". I just gotta laugh. Do you really think you will actually find a woman so impecibly perfect? You ARE looking for a human woman....right? LOL Well all I have to say is....best of luck to you. Let me know when you find your way back to reality. laugh
Hm, everyone has past issues, but what i'm looking for is someone that don't live in the past and blame the past for the way they live todayhuh It's find if that people have there problems, but some point in life you have to take responcibility for your own action.. So as it be and what I see on the internet and in the so call real world as some put itlaugh There are to many people that have no idea on whe they are and what they even want out of life.



i just hate everyone the samelaugh

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