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Topic: Is it only me that finds this creepy? lol
CuriousinPhoenix Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 40	Sun 01/27/08 09:18 AM Edited by CuriousinPhoenix on Sun 01/27/08 09:31 AM
I look at peoples profiles all the time just to see where they are coming from with certain post. sometimes I look just becsue they seem like interesting people. sometimes I forget or they change their pic and I look again. Its not stalking people. Its called the internet, good grief. If your that sensitive, take your pictures down and go hide in a hole someplace. also, just becasue Im old and dont match you re-mail settings doesnt mean I dont find you interesting from a purely plutonic standpoint. If you see me, dont get worked up, I look at everybodies profile. I wasn't talking about viewing....I was talking about the people who add you to their favorites but never actually contact you. Naturally people forget who they've viewed and view someone's profile again. I just find it odd to add someone to your favorites list that you never plan on contacting. Well, I for one had favorited a few as I was looking, because I wanted to go back and see if the person struck me on the second viewing as someone I wanted to meet. I didn't realize when I did it that they would know that I had favorited them. So no one that I favorited would feel strange I deleted them all - but for most I would think it is a matter of getting the nerve up to talk to someone.

Scinn Joined Fri 01/04/08 Posts: 872	Sun 01/27/08 12:20 PM
Ok...words are getting put into my mouth lol I didn't say that anyone was stalking me...I just said it was kind of creepy when guys add me to their favorites list but then never actually try to contact me. That's it...lol

welshboy Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 1783	Sun 01/27/08 12:23 PM
well that does sound a bit strange. i personally dont add people to my favs unless they are my freinds who i talk to regulary

Scinn Joined Fri 01/04/08 Posts: 872	Sun 01/27/08 12:47 PM
well that does sound a bit strange. i personally dont add people to my favs unless they are my freinds who i talk to regulary See...this is what I meant! welshboy :D lol I think it's a bit odd, somewhat creepy...but never said anyone was "stalking" me or anything like that. I can understand adding someone to your favs who you found through say, the mutual match...who, after you were done going through your matches you wanted to go back to and msg instead of just clicking on "yes". But then, one would assume you would go back later that day or within a few days and msg them. What I find creepy is the 50 and 60 year old men (who are old enough to be my father or grandfather) who add me to their favorites and that's it. It's just strange, like welshboy said.

Zachlovesthe80s Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 3	Sun 01/27/08 01:19 PM
maybe they just think youre cute but are too shy to say anything. thats why i do it sometimes.

joshyfox Joined Fri 08/18/06 Posts: 4272	Sun 01/27/08 01:22 PM
I've found I forget to talk to people on a regular basis unless I get their messenger. It's a sad state of affairs, but yeah sometimes I just forget to answer and need to be reached from time to time.

kittylickingisfun Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 108	Mon 01/28/08 10:58 AM
May you'll find your answer here --->http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/71650

trueokie2 Joined Mon 07/02/07 Posts: 1894	Mon 01/28/08 11:03 AM
I dont care who puts me in their favs.. 20's 30's 40's or 50's Im just sad that in 2 yrs, I will hav to change it to; 30's 40's 50's and 60's

Scinn Joined Fri 01/04/08 Posts: 872	Mon 01/28/08 11:22 AM
May you'll find your answer here --->http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/71650 sadly yes sigh lol but thanks :P

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Mon 01/28/08 11:24 AM
Can I have one of you girls stalk me?

purplecat Joined Tue 10/10/06 Posts: 35756	Mon 01/28/08 11:25 AM
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