Community > General Discussion

Topic: Is it only me that finds this creepy? lol
Hawaiigurl Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 3265	Fri 01/25/08 10:21 AM
Does anyone else find it creepy when guys add you to their favorites, constantly come back to your page...but never say anything? Never introduce themselves? And if they're 50 years old and can't contact me because of my settings, wouldn't common sense say there's a reason for that? lmao Yup..

stevex86 Joined Wed 12/19/07 Posts: 1505	Fri 01/25/08 10:27 AM
I look at peoples profiles all the time just to see where they are coming from with certain post. sometimes I look just becsue they seem like interesting people. sometimes I forget or they change their pic and I look again. Its not stalking people. Its called the internet, good grief. If your that sensitive, take your pictures down and go hide in a hole someplace. also, just becasue Im old and dont match you re-mail settings doesnt mean I dont find you interesting from a purely plutonic standpoint. If you see me, dont get worked up, I look at everybodies profile.

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Fri 01/25/08 10:29 AM
i just got done deleting 17 and in 10 mins at least 15 of the same ones will be back...arggggggg

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Fri 01/25/08 10:30 AM
i just moon em! that'll teach em!!!

chevylover1965 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 43370	Fri 01/25/08 10:32 AM


stevex86 Joined Wed 12/19/07 Posts: 1505	Fri 01/25/08 11:04 AM
i just moon em! that'll teach em!!! One moon to go please, Madam!

sweetjeep Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 1165	Fri 01/25/08 11:07 AM
and here I sit without any duplicates in my views! No stakers for me. Sad Day!!

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Fri 01/25/08 11:10 AM
i just moon em! that'll teach em!!! One moon to go please, Madam! oh stevie...and how do we ask madam properly???

chevylover1965 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 43370	Fri 01/25/08 11:14 AM


madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Fri 01/25/08 11:16 AM
chevy

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Fri 01/25/08 11:22 AM
Hm, I don't think I've ever noticed, because I don't look to see who has been looking at my page.

SharonM45458 Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 5694	Sat 01/26/08 01:54 PM
and here I sit without any duplicates in my views! No stakers for me. Sad Day!! I duplicate viewed Sweets, hehehehe

tinabelle Joined Tue 09/26/06 Posts: 1044	Sat 01/26/08 02:14 PM
its not doing any harm. right ? do you message every page you visit ? its an online dating site- you kind of here to be seen.

Scinn Joined Fri 01/04/08 Posts: 872	Sun 01/27/08 08:39 AM
oops... i think we hijacked again... hate that.. i dont even know im doing it... ♥♥sory scinn... lol No worries hun :D hugs

Scinn Joined Fri 01/04/08 Posts: 872	Sun 01/27/08 08:41 AM
I look at peoples profiles all the time just to see where they are coming from with certain post. sometimes I look just becsue they seem like interesting people. sometimes I forget or they change their pic and I look again. Its not stalking people. Its called the internet, good grief. If your that sensitive, take your pictures down and go hide in a hole someplace. also, just becasue Im old and dont match you re-mail settings doesnt mean I dont find you interesting from a purely plutonic standpoint. If you see me, dont get worked up, I look at everybodies profile. I wasn't talking about viewing....I was talking about the people who add you to their favorites but never actually contact you. Naturally people forget who they've viewed and view someone's profile again. I just find it odd to add someone to your favorites list that you never plan on contacting.

Jamie82 Joined Tue 05/08/07 Posts: 14951	Sun 01/27/08 08:43 AM
yep thats happened to me a few times...i guess their shy. i usually just let it be. It hasnt really been anyone that i was interested in anyway so i guess thats a good thing lol

Scinn Joined Fri 01/04/08 Posts: 872	Sun 01/27/08 08:43 AM
its not doing any harm. right ? do you message every page you visit ? its an online dating site- you kind of here to be seen. Please view above....and generally I try to contact everyone that I view, I miss a few here and there, but yes...I do. Unless it's someone I've been talking to on a forum thread, in which case I just keep talking to them on the thread since (to me) it seems silly to talk to the same person in two different places at the same time.

kerouacfan Joined Tue 10/09/07 Posts: 513	Sun 01/27/08 08:46 AM Edited by kerouacfan on Sun 01/27/08 08:47 AM
I look at peoples profiles all the time just to see where they are coming from with certain post. sometimes I look just becsue they seem like interesting people. sometimes I forget or they change their pic and I look again. Its not stalking people. Its called the internet, good grief. If your that sensitive, take your pictures down and go hide in a hole someplace. also, just becasue Im old and dont match you re-mail settings doesnt mean I dont find you interesting from a purely plutonic standpoint. If you see me, dont get worked up, I look at everybodies profile. I agree with you .... don't wanna hijack .... but what about people who send a friend request and don't send an email introducing themselves ? Some of these people I have never even seen them post anything ~

notthemacdaddy Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6	Sun 01/27/08 09:06 AM
Well, if they are older - chances are Alzheimer's or early dementia is starting to kick in and they simple couldn't remember whether they had clicked on your profile before or not! ;-)

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Sun 01/27/08 09:13 AM
I doubt they are stalking you...haven't you ever looked at a profile and thought, wow I have already looked at this profile before. Maybe you said something interesting and they checked out your profile? I don't see why people are so afraid of being stalked on here. Do you really think they can find out where you live and what your real name is? The only way they can find out is if you tell them!!