so this guy tom texts me tonight that ive been talking to for a while now
now he came over my house last friday night and he said he wanted to get together again, so we planned to hang out this friday, but last friday he said he wanted to
do it over my house because "i wouldnt like his
house." now that makes nooo sense because ive been there b4 for parties and he lives in a gorgeous house.
Then he says hed rather come over my house again this friday.
But anyway he was texting me for a while and he said he was playing volleyball at the "blue barn" with his friends, which is like this recreational center, and he said "i needed to get away from home for a little while." so i asked him if everything was ok and he said "yeah i needed a break from miderms is all"
But last weekend my best friend told me she was talking to tom's twin, mike, and mike said that tom is really quiet about a lot of stuff like "their home situation"
Sooo...Tom didnt say anything about hanging out Friday which makes me wonder y he texted me in the first place

lol and sorry that was long but i needed to vent! just let me know what i should do/say/think if anything at all...

What do u do with guys??????????????????????

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well thanks anyway
do u think i should ask about tomorrow?

move on find another guy!!sounds like your gettin played.

If you had plans for tomorrow then yes you should ask, no harm in asking

yes but like man4sale said i dont wanna get played, ya know?
idk hes a really shy person by nature but idk if i should give him the benefit of the doubt

move on hun its obvious hes trying to play mind games and its apprent hes not playing them too well

thats a good way to look at it thanks

sounds like someone just needs to be more open and honest with you

wait so what are you thinking...keep or trash?

agree with everyone so far.. it sounds like he is stringing you along (i.e. playing games).. you need to move on, or at least quit showing interest in him for a week (play with his mind).. better to be in control than let him.

You're to cute for this.. I say - move on.

Trust your gut, if you feel you should wait things out, wait, if you feel you should leave, leave.

thanks guys...they need to make a smiley for worried

Word.

wait so what are you thinking...keep or trash?


always go with your gut instinct... honestly

but maybe he just doesnt feel comfortable on his home terf(?) lol

but obviously hes hiding something from you...even if its own feelings...

relationships are always complicated

wait so what are you thinking...keep or trash?


always go with your gut instinct... honestly

but maybe he just doesnt feel comfortable on his home terf(?) lol

but obviously hes hiding something from you...even if its own feelings...

relationships are always complicated


nah see we had a good long talk a couple days ago and he says he thinks im really cute and that we should just go with the flow for now and keep hanging out... but this always happens... as soon as i get close to him he backs away, this is the second time
and thats what happened with his old gf, but i dont wanna assume it has something to do with family or home

nah see we had a good long talk a couple days ago and he says he thinks im really cute and that we should just go with the flow for now and keep hanging out... but this always happens... as soon as i get close to him he backs away, this is the second time
and thats what happened with his old gf, but i dont wanna assume it has something to do with family or home


so then he's afraid he'll just get hurt again and is hesistant to find himself in another relationship...so he wants to go really slow..

i think youre gonna be fine..and youll figure things out if you havent already

thanks