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How do you get around a situation where you have some bills that you share with someone but everytime you go to pay them or ask how do you want to go about it. There closed minded about it and there is nothing other then saying lets get this done now wether they are happy about it or not. Why do people have to make simple things hard?
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I have come to the conclusion that some people just like conflict and making things harder than they should be.
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Can say that again lol it's really a simple thing. Bills come in, your expected to pay LMAO
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IF you don't pay them then who will!!!
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Is it that they are not paying the bills unless you more or less make them? Or is it that they are uncomfortable talking about money.
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Is it that they are not paying the bills unless you more or less make them? Or is it that they are uncomfortable talking about money. |
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Edited by
FreshMountainAir
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Thu 01/24/08 04:22 PM
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Since I work in the finacial field I have actually met a lot of people who are very uncomfortable talking about money. Doesn't seem to matter whether they have a lot or a little of it.
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How do you get around a situation where you have some bills that you share with someone but everytime you go to pay them or ask how do you want to go about it. There closed minded about it and there is nothing other then saying lets get this done now wether they are happy about it or not. Why do people have to make simple things hard?
That's why I live alone, to avoid these "complications". |
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 The Joys of Relationships! woohoo!
 Shoulda got a puppy!
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The Joys of Relationships! woohoo!
Shoulda got a puppy!
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Since I work in the finacial field I have actually met a lot of people who are very uncomfortable talking about money. Doesn't seem to matter whether they have a lot or a little of it.
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How do you get around a situation where you have some bills that you share with someone but everytime you go to pay them or ask how do you want to go about it. There closed minded about it and there is nothing other then saying lets get this done now wether they are happy about it or not. Why do people have to make simple things hard?
When you get that figured out, please let me know. Very recently had similar issues with my adult son who was sharing my home. He clams up and it's really hard to have any meaningful conversation about the issues at hand. Uncomfortable situation over something simple. He resolved it by moving out. He'll find out what his $$ will really buy him.  I feel ya Shadow
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How do you get around a situation where you have some bills that you share with someone but everytime you go to pay them or ask how do you want to go about it. There closed minded about it and there is nothing other then saying lets get this done now wether they are happy about it or not. Why do people have to make simple things hard?
When you get that figured out, please let me know. Very recently had similar issues with my adult son who was sharing my home. He clams up and it's really hard to have any meaningful conversation about the issues at hand. Uncomfortable situation over something simple. He resolved it by moving out. He'll find out what his $$ will really buy him. I feel ya Shadow
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Sit down & make a list of what bills need paid & by when.
Then ask when she would like to & you handle it so you know it gets done & you don't have any shut off notices or reconnect charges to deal with. |
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How do you get around a situation where you have some bills that you share with someone but everytime you go to pay them or ask how do you want to go about it. There closed minded about it and there is nothing other then saying lets get this done now wether they are happy about it or not. Why do people have to make simple things hard?
When you get that figured out, please let me know. Very recently had similar issues with my adult son who was sharing my home. He clams up and it's really hard to have any meaningful conversation about the issues at hand. Uncomfortable situation over something simple. He resolved it by moving out. He'll find out what his $$ will really buy him. I feel ya Shadow
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I been doing this for the last 26 years so it's not an issue with me. It's like riding a bike Gonna say ... I've not viewed your profile, but you are looking pretty well preserved... |
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Since I work in the finacial field I have actually met a lot of people who are very uncomfortable talking about money. Doesn't seem to matter whether they have a lot or a little of it.
It very well could especially if someone else always took care of the finances for them. |
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I been doing this for the last 26 years so it's not an issue with me. It's like riding a bike Gonna say ... I've not viewed your profile, but you are looking pretty well preserved... thank you 
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Since I work in the finacial field I have actually met a lot of people who are very uncomfortable talking about money. Doesn't seem to matter whether they have a lot or a little of it.
It very well could especially if someone else always took care of the finances for them. |
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Sit down & make a list of what bills need paid & by when. Then ask when she would like to & you handle it so you know it gets done & you don't have any shut off notices or reconnect charges to deal with. |
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